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There is this guy (let's call him Bob) and he's really really cute. I just met Bob a few months ago but he's very sweet and whenever I'm with him I get goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach (majorly) I don't know if I should go up to him and tell Bob I really like him or not. And he also dated one of my friends but they broke up, and I don't want her to be mad at me if I date him. What should I do? (link)
Well since your friend went out with him first, try confiding in her or find a way to casually tell her that someone may like him and see her reaction. If you get a positive response then its a go =] If you don't, try waiting a while before you make a move. Hope i helped!
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Hey im Nikki and i broke up with my b/f about 3 months ago (this was an 7 month relationship) And i love him more then anything, idk if he loves me at all and he asks if i would want to go back out with him and idk how he feels buthwe acts like a complete jerk to me and jokes around like he isnt joking but then he says he is and makes me cry (boo hoo) so whats your advice..? (link)
if hes obnoxious to you all the time then just dont go out with him. i kno you love himbut if it seems like he doesn't love you then maybe you should just give up on him and move. sometimes its hard but if he doesn't really love you then its not really worth your while. hope i helped-ally


I'm not very physcially fit, I dont exercise a lot and well i started skool few days ago and i have gym..my teacher is crazy and makes us run a lap, run up stairs, run down a hill, do 20 crunches, 10 pushups, and then do it one more time! Before that we have to run acrross the football field doing things like skipping, jumping,jogging whatever. And thats all for the warmup! is there anything i can do to less the pain i feel after we have our warmup??? my legs are so sore i can barley walk! thanks i rate! (link)
try exercising regularly at home. every morning try doing a little jogging in place or a few pushups. you could even run around the block a couple of times. set goals for yourself so you can work towards being physically fit. hope i helped-ally


im 13 and i have about a couple girl close friends, but they seem to be changing in front of my eyes. It doesn't bother me, but the thing that does bother me is that, everytime im with my guy friends all these girls seem to get mad at me and stuff. Ive learned to ignore it but it's starting to get bad again, and the guys are starting to call me a smut or slut or something, and its starting to piss me off. Do you think they r jealous or mad or what? What should i do? (link)
i think its rude of them to call you names and if your girl friends cant except that some of your friends are guys and if your guy friends cant except that you have friends that are girls or other friends that r guys then just dump them all and get new friends. true friends will except you for who you are. hope i helped-ally


ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx! (link)
take a chance and go for it. he may not have actually had sex when he was eleven. most ppl dont have sex at that age. if it turns out that all he wants from u is sex then i suggest you dump him and move on. hope i helped-ally


Okay, here's my issue. I'm 18 and I've been seeing my boyfriend for over 3 months and we're starting to get really serious. The only problem is that his brother is incredibly rude to me all the time. I've known both guys for a long time, and his brother used to be quite nice to me. Its just since we started dating that he's begun treating me like dirt. I've asked him what his problem is and he won't admit to having one. My boyfriend claims that he's just "not a people person", but he is much ruder to me than my boyfriend realises. Help please! (link)
maybe your boyfriends brother is jealous that your dating his brother. if he doesn't have girlfriend then thats prbably y hes being so rude to u. Just tell him to leave you alone and if that doesn't work then tell your bf how rude he's being and maybe he can get him to stop. hope i helped-ally


high skool is startin in less than a week, so im pumped bout that. the only thing is... i hang out with everyone. im not popular or nething but i have a bunch of friends, which can b bad. i hang out with a group of friends, then go over n hang with another. but the thing is im not really accepted in either one. they like me, but i can tell there talking behind my backs cause i hang out with such and such. ive tried for 2 years to balance it out, but it annoying me so much. can someone just tellme what to do?? i rate (link)
i do the same thing. im goin into 7th grd and the girls in my class didn't really like me until near the end of the year. i helped one of em get back together with her bf. i also hang out with boys which makes ppl think that i like them. i've been tryng to balance it out and i have a few friends that i hang out with just during skool. try finding ppl that u like and that like u and just hang out wiht them. they dont have to be popular just as long as they're ur friends. hope i helped-ally


well, my name is julia n i am 14 yrs old, im going to be a freshman this yr. and i wuz going out with this boy for 7 months straight n i rly started falling in love with him. we were both rly in love, n we wurr together all tha time. he wuznt juss my bf, he wuz my bestfriend, i told him everythingg!!...we even had sex...which wuz sumthn i alwayz told myself i wuldnt do until i wuz married, but i knew i rly loved him. then he broke up with me...he didnt even do it, he had his frend do it during tha summr, which wuz so horrible! i completely had a breakdown!! n its ben about two months and i seen him the othr day n hes saying how much he misses me n regrets it n that he still loves me. i rly wanna get bak with him but im not sure wut to do. i kno i culd never b with n e 1 else, n ill never love n e 1 else, but i juss kant believe wut he did. if hes willing to earn his trust bak it shuld last....right....? aw plz HELP MEE!! i cry everynite, i love him so much n miss him, i dont kno wut to do :( (link)
i think you should get back together with him. if hes really sorry then he wont break up with you again so just go for it. hope i helped-ally


im in love with my guy. all my friends and family members like him and they get along with him pretty well. everyone, except for my older sister. she thinks that hes no good for me and that hes using me. it makes me upset because whenever theyre face to face, she tends to be ignorant towards him.. and a lot of the times, he doesnt want to come over my place because shed be home. ive tried to make her realize that even though him and i go through stuff, that we still love each other and she just needs to accept it. but no matter how much i tell her, she never listens.. and she talks a lot of shit about him as well.. what can i do to have her accept us? (link)
try sitting her down and talking to her. if that doesn't work then disregard what she says. just because she thinks it doesn't mean its true. and you dont always have to have your bf come to your house. you could go to a park or just walk around your nieghborhood. just try to have a good time. hope i helped-Ally




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