im 13 and i have about a couple girl close friends, but they seem to be changing in front of my eyes. It doesn't bother me, but the thing that does bother me is that, everytime im with my guy friends all these girls seem to get mad at me and stuff. Ive learned to ignore it but it's starting to get bad again, and the guys are starting to call me a smut or slut or something, and its starting to piss me off. Do you think they r jealous or mad or what? What should i do?
MummuM answered Thursday August 26 2004, 9:06 pm: Firstly, why are they calling you a slut and a smut? If your not doing anything to get called that they have problems. I think you should talk to them close girl friends that you have, tell them what your thinking. I think they're mad jealous just because you hangout with guy friends. Tell them to smarten up. If they don't and keep calling you down, they're not good friends in the first place. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
Bananasplit0340 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 8:48 pm: they are totally jealous!! just cause you have more "girl friends" than they do! dont listen to them...and as for the girls, i mean you dont have to hang with them 24/7 i mean there is gotta be some time for the "guys"...if you have n e thing else to say just ask me. [ Bananasplit0340's advice column | Ask Bananasplit0340 A Question ]
blond4life answered Thursday August 26 2004, 8:25 pm: i think its rude of them to call you names and if your girl friends cant except that some of your friends are guys and if your guy friends cant except that you have friends that are girls or other friends that r guys then just dump them all and get new friends. true friends will except you for who you are. hope i helped-ally [ blond4life's advice column | Ask blond4life A Question ]
IxAmxCrying answered Thursday August 26 2004, 7:54 pm: Girls your age crave attention.
Karen answered Thursday August 26 2004, 7:50 pm: Yep, they are jealous because you are hanging around more guys then they are. Just ask them straight out, why they are getting mad and jealous of you. If they don't give you a good enough reason, then they aren't really your close friends. Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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