I cut myself. When i feel super bad i cut myself. And i know it's a horrible thing to do. I need to stop. Does anybody have any suggestions about how to stop? Going to an adult is not an option. Please help.
i feel your pain, i cut myself too. i'm doing better though and i've never told anyone. first, just throw away whatever you cut yourself with. whatever it is, just get it FAR away. then find a celebrity or someone you look up to and think of how they don't cut and how you wanna be exactly like them.. idk that's just whats working for me. but everyone's different, and i wish you the best of luck with this stupid addiction. xo
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respected advicenators,
i went thru this site and found small kids of 13 to 16years of age having sex! well i have one question? are americans very desperate about sex are american girls so horny and slutty? and are american boys very careless about their future and career as they show in hollywood movies and sitcoms???????? please enlighten me, i don't mean to hurt u all at all. i have deep respect for this country america, which has welcomed everyone from the world. but if a girl loves one guy and has sex with that guy and then breaks off with him and then sees some one and again indulge in sex then again break off and again see someone........ isn't he or she acting slutty. well please i am confused b'coz kids here in india are blindly copying this culture of cheating and sex.american friends enlighten me about the situation.
haha yeah i'd say america is getting preeettty trashy with all the people sleeping around.. but not everyone's like that, for instance some of the people that go to my school. but alas, most people i know *including me* are like that, and i just don't know. but ah.. that's just my perspective.
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ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :(
eh.. tell ryan that you just can't do that kind of stuff, its wrong and you love your boyfriend and you can't help that. i wouldn't tell your boyfriend about it either.. i mean, he never needs to know, right?? haha. well i hoped i helped a little bit.
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what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian.
instant message.. like using Yahoo, AIM, MSN, ICQ.. etc.
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do you believe in soul mates?
nah.. i think you can learn to love ANYONE if yer under the correct circumstances..
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How do you get a guy to like you when you are the new girl in school.
talk to him and flirt with him.. like its great if he's in one of your classes. or say hi to him in the halls when you see him. make him realize you're totally cool and you're interested in him.
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Ok, the guy i like is like 5 feet. give or take a few inches. And i'm like 5 8. It's a HUGE height difference, and idc about looks, but i dont want ppl making fun of him b/c he's going out with a giant or make fun of me for going out with a midget. We're both in 7th grade. I think i should just continue liking him. I think i have a good chance with him. What do u think?
if people make fun of yew just tell them off.. i mean, its not like its their life. i dun think they'd make fun of yew anymore if yew did that.. hope i helped yew at least a little bit..
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ok..this question is kinda stupid but i was wondering if anybody knew how to make holes in jeans that look like they were made like that thnx!..i rate
hm.. well when i ripped my jeans i wore them outside and went skateboarding.. it looks like they were really ripped on accident. or yew could use dull scissors and just make little slits and them use yer hands to make them bigger rips. i hope i helped yew!
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well first i lie with my step gradpa and stepgrandma. bc my mom and my stephdad don't wnat me.. anymore. and my g-parents have 6 cats and 4 dogs.. well one day my g-pa was playing with Pimpsey.. which is one of the dogs. and my g-pa trough the ball in the street.. (on accsitdent)!
and.. pimpsey ran after the ball.. =( then the un thinkable happend.. i think you can guess! a yellow car came by and hit pimpsey. and we saw all of her guts fly everywhere! please help me get over this tragity! signed!
NEEDS HELP FROM YOU! BC .. I MISS PIMPSEY
don't make fun of his name please my g-ma named him from her , old parrot that she had when she was a young girl so don't think that its like a pimp thing bc really it ist't.. so anyway. PLEASE HELP ME!
oh my gosh!! i`m so sorry!! that must really suck.. i can`t even imagine.. i dunno if there is really anything yew can do.. i mean, yew could get a new dog that looks a lot like pimpsey or just try to remember her how she was. if yew wanna talk please IM me.. uhohitsholli or email me xtropicalkissx@yahoo.com. =( i wish yew the best.
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ok wut exacally do people means when they say friends with benefits??? my coach and my this girl on my teams brother say there friend with benefits but it's bugging me cuz i dont kno wut they mean by that!! help!!
friends with benefits.. that could be another way of saying that they`re goin out.. or they just could be doing things like a couple but aren`t really one.. i think it could mean either one.. hope i helped yew a little!! =)
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ok there is this guy at my middle school and he gives me and my friends hugs like all the time but he always wants to give me the first&last hug do you guys think he is dropping hints?
yeah.. lol i think he is ;)
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Alright, well me and my boyfriend have gone out a couple time's before, and we're best friends. We're going out now, and have been for a little over a week. But, today we saw eachother at the school because we went for orientation, and we didn't talk. He looked at me, but he didn't say hi. I mean he said hi to my friend's, and not me. We always talk on the computer, and sometimes on the phone. And on the computer and phone, we talk a lot, but then we see eachother, we never talk. I mean I have one class with him this year, but I doubt that's going to help anything. I really do love him, but I don't think it's working out. I mean yeah im shy too, but he could atleast say hi. I mean, I was standing right by him, and he looked the other way. He told me he wasn't mad at me and he loved me when he got home and we were talking on the computer. But, I just dont know what to do! Help! IM me at yourmyonlyone951 if you wanna...
OMG! haha as i was reading this i was thinking how much you sound like me!! ok well.. he obviously doesnt know what to say and i think he should say hi first too!! lol gosh im so happy im not the only one who has this problem! im still working on finding out what to do so if i find something that werks ill let you know! good luck!
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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!
cutting is when a person is under a ton of stress or pressure or is very upset in general, and they use a knife to cut somewhere on their body to take their mind off of what is bothering them. it can lead to bleeding to death, or severe scaring and emotional damage. hope i helped.
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Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!
I'm just so uncomfortable ..
tell him to his face that you think its gross. and that you told your mom about it because it bothers you tremendously. or you can just have a discusted look on ur face whenever he talks to you or looks at you. i think any of those would werk.. im so sorry about ur situation! i hope i helped!
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oMg! major problem here! i can't believe i'm even admitting this! but i really like a younger guy! as in 3 years younger!!! he's 13! I can't believe it! Is 3 years younger 2 young? what should I do?
age really doesnt matter.. does he like you too? cause if he does than go with it! hope i helped!
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Me and my x-boyfriend got back together, and we are going to be in the same class when school starts (Augest 31st). I dumped him cause people were telling me he was cheating on me, but he gave me another chance, what if it doesn't work out? cuz we r gunna be in the same class
if your in the same class it should be easier to tell if hes cheating on you or not. and it will make you two closer. and if it doesnt work out oh well. there are plenty of more boys out there. just ignore him or treat him like a friend if things go wrong. hope i helped!
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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think?
hm.. well you should let him do it because some gerls say it feels really good. so yeah thats just my opinion! and if hes comfortable with it shouldnt you be too? hope i helped!
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Can Sex keep you in shape?
believe it or not i heard it can!! it depends on how physical you are and how many positions you do. i think it burns calories or something.. but then again i dont really know. hope i helped!
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does anyone know of any good websites with aim icons that are cute...not the dolls or original gay ones but cute ones??
www.iconator.com >> it has some really good ones! i made a few and they're on that site too!! hope i helped!
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my mom has a deformed uterus. Less than like 3% of women in the US have it. I forget the exact name but its soo bad that her gyno. is surprised she had 2 kids. She had 13 misscarriages before she had me. Ne way my doctors seems to think this is genetic but we don't know for sure if its genetic in my family because all the females on my mom's side has had their female parts removed. My mom gets cysts on her overies too. When my mom told me this I was like I want to be checked. But she was like don't worry your 16. I don't want to have promblems having kids in 10 years so I want to be checked. Do you think I should get checked and if so can I go to the gyno. without her knowing??
hm.. i dont know call and ask the gyno and see what they say. im sure they cant say no.. but if they do go to planned parenthood and ask them what to do.. they're good with that sort of stuff. or just tell your mom what you told me. hope i helped!
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