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Question Posted Sunday August 29 2004, 10:58 am

Me and my x-boyfriend got back together, and we are going to be in the same class when school starts (Augest 31st). I dumped him cause people were telling me he was cheating on me, but he gave me another chance, what if it doesn't work out? cuz we r gunna be in the same class

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xo_dream answered Monday August 30 2004, 9:44 pm:
Why is HE the one giving YOU another chance? If he was cheating, shouldn't it be the other way around? I personally would probably never go back out with someone who had already cheated on me. But if that's really what you want to do, whatever, I guess. I really don't get what you're asking, though. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.

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XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Monday August 30 2004, 7:58 pm:
WEll if in the end it doesnt work out then just decide to still be friends. And in the class yall can talk and be friends. But if it does work out then you get to have fun w. your boyfriend being in the same class as you!

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x0x_summer_x0x answered Sunday August 29 2004, 7:17 pm:
first of all, if HE was cheating on YOU, you should of been the one to give HIM another chance. and if u really like him, dont worry cuz everything should work out fine! good luck!
[H][U][G][S] ~Summer

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uhohitsholli answered Sunday August 29 2004, 6:43 pm:
if your in the same class it should be easier to tell if hes cheating on you or not. and it will make you two closer. and if it doesnt work out oh well. there are plenty of more boys out there. just ignore him or treat him like a friend if things go wrong. hope i helped!

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Randomduck641 answered Sunday August 29 2004, 4:52 pm:
he gave you another chance cause he's was cheating on you.. think about that for a sec


Once a cheater.. ALWAYS a cheater

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juicyfruit answered Sunday August 29 2004, 3:43 pm:
Well first, did you ask him if he was cheating on you? And did he admit it or deny it? I think you should try to stick it out, but if you really believe he was cheating on you in your last relationship then I think you should be a little cautious around him. If he stutters when you asked him where you've been, or he enver talks to you that might be a sign. Pull him aside and tell him you don't want him to cheat on you, and that if he does it'll be the end of you two. For good.

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xoRachel answered Sunday August 29 2004, 1:59 pm:
If it doesn't work out you can still talk to him. You can be friends. Or if you don't want to do that then just hang out with some other friends in you class and talk to them, or make new friends. Then you can talk or hang out with your other friends instead of him. Hope I helped!
Love, RacheL

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Oo_FiRefLyZ_oO answered Sunday August 29 2004, 1:10 pm:
well since ur gonna be in the same class, u can watch and see how he interacts with other ppl. if he's SUPERfriendly with the girls, u should be on ur toes, but if he only has eyes for you then i'd say keep him. u've got to understand also that you NEED to give him the benefit of the doubt. maybe he just gets along better with girls than with guys, don't dump him b/c he's friends with girls ok? i'm sure things will be fine for you too, u'll get to hang out more in ur class! just remember: TRUST him!! but if ur true blue friends are saying that something is up, approach him and tell him exactly how you feel CALMLY.
good luck!! i'm sure u guys will be great!

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Mandee answered Sunday August 29 2004, 12:15 pm:
Ohhh. Yeah I know what you mean... if things don't work out and you aren't together seeing him everything 5 days of the week won't help. But if that happens you can get past that. You'll have friends in that class and you'll be paying attention to your teachers anyways. Well, maybe. (lol) But I think you'll overcome it. You'll meet other guys and devlope crushes on them.

But, something you should ask yourself is "What if it does work out?" You should only hope for the best and if anything breaks your hope you will get over it, learn from it, and move on. He gave you another chance so I would say he really loves you and wants to makethis work. Don't second guess on it right now. Just take it day by day and live for the moments you have with him. See how things are going out, if you notice some tension then you can figure out what you'll need to do. But for now, start over again. Good luck! Love Always, Mandee

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SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Sunday August 29 2004, 11:49 am:
if it doesnt work out then don't worry. just because you're in the same class doesnt mean you HAVE to talk to him all of the time. plus what if you guys decide to remain friends?

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