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my cat is breathing hard and his mouth is partly open. and hes just lying on his side a lot! he went into the bathroom and just layed there under the sink for a long time. is he dying? or is it because of the hot weather? When my hamster was dying, she was just lying around and breathing hard. please answer imidiatly. i love my cat.

take him to the vet asap, just to make sure he's alright .. he could just be warm [ & if he overheats that's a problem in itself ], but you don't want to take any chances. i hope he's alright!

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ok well 've never been tanning before like in a booth but i'd like to try it but i dont know what to wear can sombody please tell me?

most girls i know just go naked, it's no big deal =)

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whats the dif. between givin head and a bj??!



thx for any answeres! i rate high =)

they're basically the same thing =)

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So I've liked my best friend Andy for a while, but he doesn't know. I care about him and he cares about me, we call each other up everyday and talk for at least an hour, and whenenver we hang out I feel such a connection with him. I really want to let him know I feel, but I'm so afraid to. I know if I told him our relationship wouldn't change, whether he likes me back or not, because he's like that. My friend already asked him if he would ever hook up with me, but his response is, "Well .. she's my best friend.." or "I can't think of my best friend like that..." But he said I was pretty and he loved my personality.

I don't know if I should tell him how I feel or how I should tell him how I feel .. should I tell him on the phone or in person this Friday? I know if I told myself to tell him in person, I might chicken out .. but telling him my feelings might be the wrong thing to do .. maybe I should wait.

What do you guys think?

Just tell him. If you don't, this is going to be bothering you pretty much forever. Just tell him [ you don't want it to affect your friendship but .. ] you've had feelings for him as more than a friend for a while now, & even if he doesn't feel the same, [ but hopefully he could ], & you don't want to push anything, but you needed to get it off of your chest. Hope everything works out! Good luck!! =)

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hey .... i was wondering if anyone knew a number or something where i can volunteer at a teen hotline? you know ... like a kid calls and you help them with their problms and whatnot ... thanks!

note: i live in the boston/framingham area

Here are a few sites. I hope you find something that works out!! =)


http://www.volunteersolutions.org/boston/org/opp/230161.html

http://www.bc.edu/offices/odsd/wrc/service/

http://www.wellesley.edu/Peace/Peace_justice_volunteer/peace_justice_volunteer.html

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you know those sad short stories...some are long...and sometimes people have them in their profiles? in xangas, myspaces, and i dont know, just a lot of places. are there any websites you can read a lot of them on? i think their fun to read :o) a lot of them are about bf's and gf's and like one of them ends up dieing in a car accident or something. just a lot of sad things, but yeah. thanx!

www.forwardgarden.com

click on stories, there might be some there.

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At the moment, I am studying for my math exam. my teacher was nice enough to give us a study guide to fill out. I have a few things that I dont understand:
What is 39% of 500?
What percent of 64 is 3.2?
60% of 85 is what number?
What percent of 85 is 1.7?
What number is 150% of 26?
What i 40% of 400?

Not only do I not understand them, I dont know how to do them! So could someone PLEASE EXPLAIN ot me how to do them?

What is 39% of 500?

500 ×.39 = ___

- OR -

since you [ should ] know that 39% of 100 is 39, just do 500/100 = __[5]; & then 39 ×5 = ___

What percent of 64 is 3.2?

3.2/64 = ___

60% of 85 is what number?

85 ×.6 = ___

What percent of 85 is 1.7?

1.7/85 = ___

What number is 150% of 26?

26 ×1.5 = ___

or just do 26 + ( 26/2) = ___

What is 40% of 400?

400 ×.4 = ___

or 40 ×4 = ___



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I had something about this about 2-3 months ago.

I have this huge cat scratch on my nose & its just in 2 lines... I think its scared... but I was wondering how I could get rid of this scar & how long it would take?

thanks!

try mederma -- with that, i think 8-ish weeks [ or at least that's what the tube says =) ].

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Can anyone give me step by step instructions on how to make home-ade brownies. Please include ingrediants. Thanks.

INGREDIENTS:
1 1/2 cups unsalted butter
3 cups white sugar
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
7 eggs
1 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/4 cups unsweetened cocoa powder
1 teaspoon salt
1 pound chopped walnuts

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DIRECTIONS:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Line one 9x9 inch baking pan with foil and spray with cooking spray.
In a saucepan over medium heat melt the butter. Stir in the sugar until dissolved. Remove mixture from heat and beat in the eggs one at a time mixing well after each addition. Stir in the vanilla.
Sift the flour, cocoa and salt together. Add the flour mixture to the butter mixture, mixing until combined. Stir in the walnuts. Spread the batter into the prepared pan.
Bake at 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) for 45 to 50 minutes. Do not overbake! These brownies freeze well so that you can enjoy them later.

From: http://cookie.allrecipes.com/az/TheUltimateBrownie.asp

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okay, my friend is asking this question not me, she wants to know if the gyno can tell if you masturbate. She is going today and she masturbates but doesnt want her mom to know.

no, they can't tell, & even if for some crazy reason they could, it wouldn't be something they would / could tell her mom.

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I was wondering if anyone could give me a small list, or even the biggest one you have of anti-depressents aside from Paxil, and Zoloft, I've been on those and they don't seem to help, so maybe anyone who knows of one thats worth a try. I'll rate 5 foe those who try, even if you only have 1 listed.

SSRIs

Celexa (citalopram)
Lexapro (escitalopram oxalate)
Luvox (fluvoxamine)
Paxil (paroxetine)
Prozac (fluoxetine)
Zoloft (sertraline)


MAOIs

Nardil (phenelzine)
Parnate (tranylcypromine)


Tricyclics

Adapin (doxepin)
Anafranil (clomipramine)
Elavil (amitriptyline)
Endep (amitriptyline)
Ludiomil (maprotiline)
Norpramin (desipramine)
Pamelor (nortryptyline)
Pertofrane (desipramine)
Sinequan (doxepin)
Surmontil (trimipramine)
Tofranil (imipramine)
Vivactil (protriptyline)


Others

Buspar (buspirone)
Cymbalta (duloxetine)
Desyrel (trazodone)
Effexor (venlafaxine)
Edronax, Vestra (reboxetine)
Remeron (mirtazapine)
Serzone ( nefazodone)
Wellbutrin (bupropion)

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I want to try out for my highschools cheerleading squad.. Ive cheered b4 but i heard that high school tryout are harder. if u tried out for you high schools cheerleading squad, what did you have to do?

for our squad we just had to show them a dance, cheer, 1 or 2 jumps, tumbling, & a few stunts of your choice.

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how do i create my own website for free so that i can u know go www.whatever.com or org well u no what i mean please help me i really want to know how thanks alot i rate high

www.freewebs.com
www.geocities.com
www.angelfire.com
www.expage.com

and they'll have like, a pagebuilder OR you can use html & do it yourself.

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okay whenever someone goes to ask me a question it says im like not accepting questions from anyone whats going on?

you probably have the "no one" option selected where it asks you who you want to be able to ask you questions. choose either "anyone" or "only registered users" and it should fix it.

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Question: I have the "Partika" or whatever layout on my site, and I want to make it so that the scrollbar isn't that plain old blue color. I got the HTML code to change it, but I don't know where to put the code. I put it in the Personal Profile (or something like that) box, but it just deleted itself. Where am I supposed ot put it? And is it even possible to change the scrollbar color with this layout? Thanks in advance.

try here: http://advicenators.com/settings.php in the big box at the bottom of the page.

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Hi. So i was just wondering what does p.m. mean and how do you contact someone that you answered a question for if they didn't leave their name? Tried looking on the help page but wasn't there.
I'm a bit of a newbie, so please help somebody

Thanx xx

p.m = the time [ as in, noon or later ] or personal message, which, to my knowledge, you can't do on this site. if someone didn't leave their name, just tell them whatever you need to tell them in the answer to their question, and if you want, ask them to tell you their username.

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Okay I have this friend who is 12 and she is wanting to save up some money but for being as young as she is she is having trouble earning money so if any of you have any good ways she could earn money then plese help as soon as possible!!!

babysitting
garage sale
ask for an allowance
shoveling, raking, etc.
walking // taking care of dogs, other animals
paper route

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I've been rated like 15 times and my rating does not show up on my Advicenators page. Please help me.

if less than five of them are from the past 3O days, it won't show up.

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Ok well i asked a question and it said there are 3 answere the only thing is i can only view 2 of them so i logged out and checked it and there were 3 but as soon as i logged back in it disappeared again and how can i rate the person if i cant view it when im logged in

see if you have your thing set to block certain columnists, if you do that person probably has a low rating & that's why you're not seeing the answer when you're logged in.

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I complain a LOT. And half the time I do it without meaning to...and it's starting to annoy me, let alone the people around me. Any tips on how I can stop complaining, or at least reduce the amount of complaining I do?
I whinge about all sorts of things, from the weather to homework to the fact that I'm tired/hungry/bored...whatever. It sucks, I feel like I don't have a good word to say about anything any more...I want to be positive again, but how?

before you start to complain, think about what you're going to say & just .. DON'T SAY IT. try & say something positive instead, and hopefully you'll stop thinking about complain-y things.

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