i love to help people with problems..i always face the same thing everyday...from my family to my friends...i'm nice...i dun think the word pretty or beautiful suits me..so that means i'm ugly and i'm very sensitive at times
Website: Problem Magnet
E-mail: jimah_abg1011@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Brunei
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
MSN: jimah_abg1011@hotmail.com
Member Since: June 27, 2004
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so. my best friend introduced me to a guy she dated about a year ago.He ended up falling for me, and then he got me to fall for him. and..we were in love. Seriously. The feeling is just to hard to explain. We basically did everying except sex, and oral sex. I look back on it, and it makes my skin crawl. So, he ended it with me about a month ago, and he let me down pretty hard. It hurt so bad, but then I found out what an ass hole he was. (He cheated on my best friend) I'm finally over him, but the problem is, sometimes, when I'm alone I can't stop thinking about him, and it makes my cry so hard. I just can't forget how he made me feel. I hate it because I'm dating someone else now, who is so great, and treats me so much better. I feel unfaithful almost. What can I do to forget him!? I'm 15, and a girl...obviously. Rarr! I can't handle this! (link)
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try to spend more time with ur new boyfriend...and forget the past....move on...there's still more to your life
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ok well me and my boyfriend went out off and on for nine months last year and this year he doesn't even talk to me. i like him so much and i never really stopped liking him and the only reason why we really broke up this summer was because i was going out of town and i was going to be hangin out with some of my guy friends that i haven't seen in a while, well i told him that he could trust me while i was there and he could because i didn't do any thing. i called him a couple of times over the summer and we talked a little while i was there. but now i was talking to his friend and i asked if he thought that he hated me and he said no just ya'll don't have a friend ship. since the beginning of the year i've had a boyfriend and he saw me with him. what should i do? should i still like him or just not even try with this one.... (link)
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try expressing ur feelings with him
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Okay, this may not be "advice" but I really need some help. Does anyone know where to go (like a site or something), where you can download msn. But, it's the msn that you can go on as many as you want.
Thanks. (link)
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u go to the msn.com then....find messenger 6.2...i think is what it is now then wait for it to download!!
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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
Tosha (link)
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why dun u just talk calmly with ur dad and have ur mum to back u up! and tell the truth that u r pregnant..u can't keep it a secret at all tyms b'cuz sooner or later ur dad will find out!!
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I'm 13/f . I'm getting a little sick of all the girliness of all of my other schoolmates and friends . I want to get to know more guys better , but ONLY as friends . I don't want them to get the wrong impression when i talk to them ( ie: flirting with them . ) One of my friends say i do this alot , but i don't do it on purpose , it's a subconcious thing . I also go to a girls school . Any ideas on how to get to know more guys ? (link)
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through chatting...ur brother or his friends maybe!!
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What is the point of fingering a girl? I heard it was to 'stretch them out' for sex. What is fingering supposed to do? Bring them to orgasm?
Also are handjobs supposed to be done to bring your partner to orgasm?
I am 13, female, and I just wanted to know why you do these things (orgasm, pleasure, stretching, etc.). Thanks! (link)
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i know this might sounds silly but fingering a girl is actually to enable the men's thingy to enter easily...bring orgasm...i don't know but i think so...i'm not sure...and people say doing this is just for fun...and they say it's a relaxing moment!!
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Hey I had a bf for about 2 months and he just broke up with me and i really want him back but how do i get him to take me back? (link)
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ask him why did he broke up with you..was it sth that u did or what??? ok my advice to u is to find someone new...he's not the one for u..
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hello im a 14/f goin on 15 in like 6 months ..ne ways i like this guy well call him Jimmy and my friend well call her Julie ...ne ways shes in his buisness class and said that he likes me and i was realli happy cuz i realli like this guy but then i herd that Julie was flirting with Jimmy but i didnt beleive it when i herd it cuz we were supposed to be best friends but then i saw then coming down the stairs and i saw Julie have her arm around Jimmy even when she saw me she kept her Arm around him . i guess she was flirting with him and i was so mad at her i didnt talk to her for weeks and she knoes im mad at her but the thing is is she has a bf should i tell her bf ? cuz if i dont then shell continue flirting with Jimmy and other guys but if i do then he could dump her and i could loose a realli good friend (link)
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dun tell her bf..let her tell him herself...the problem is that u should ask her what's been going on between her and jimmy and ask jimmmy whether he has feelings for julie...and if they both are having an affair u can just tell her bf and find someone new cuz you can't be happy with that kind of man!
jimah :)
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hey ..ive got a real prob ...my friend lied to me about having breast cancer not once but twice and i got so fed up with her and i told her that i didnt wanna be friends with her if shes gunna lie to me ! and she said that she was going into operation to have things checked ! but a couple days later i asked her how she was and wut she was doing this week and she said working all week when she first told me that she was going to have an operation! like i said u knoe wut i dont wanna hang out with sumone whos gunna lie to me constantly ! and i hung up on her ! was i too harsh ? plz help should i try to patch things up with her ! (link)
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look the only way you can patch things up is by talking to her...what's her problem!!!and ask her why she kept lying and make sure she doesn't lie to you anymore!!
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OMG i just realized one of my boobs is bigger than the other, WHAT DOES TAHT MEAN am i an alien? i must have a disease how do i tell my mom? what do i do? (link)
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everyone's not perfect...even i am...but having the other boob bigger than the other is a normal thing but if it's the same size...there's no such thing even fake boobs are not the same size!!!(not really accurate!!)
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my folks keep arguing and i get upset coz i think they are gonna split up. i dont no wot i would do if they split up plz help me (link)
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why dun just make them realize that splitting up is not the best idea and fighting just keeps the children having a hard tym to concentrate on their studies b'cuz i know one person their parents can't stop fighting and the only way to do this is by getting their attention!!
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female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice (link)
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the only way ur going to do that is by stop drinking alcohol even a little...just stop drinking! that's the only way u can stop being a wreck!!
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Well my name Eeyan..I Have a friends name Dily who is a female of 16 and Qayum who is male of 18years old..well Me Myself known Qayum and Dily For a Long time..Three of us known each other very well...
Well Rite Now Me Myself in Love with Dily and Dily also In Love with Me..And Also Qayum In Love With Dily,Dily Also In Love With Qayumm
Da Problems are dis is hard for Dily To choose whether Me o Qayum..Coz She told dat Both of Us are equal..She Likes Everyting bout Me and Everyting Also bout Qayum..Rite now Nuting new came up..Still Duno
Help and Give me a Reasonable advice.thanks (link)
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u should tell her how u really feel in order to gain her heart! and if she rejects that u should remind urself maybe she's not the one for u!!
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mi best friend is rly sweet and nice but she acts all stuck up and recently these 2 boyz have liked her and wen we would be talking on the fone about shopping she would brng up the boy that liked her out of no where and i said that i think you like him 2 (but she says she dosent)and she got mad at me and not to brag or nething but i am much prettier than her.... y dont ne boyz like me? (link)
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look sweetheart maybe it's ur behaviour the reason why the boys dun like u i'm not saying ur ugly....ur pretty in every way but the problem with u is u need to tell ur friend that ur not bragging bout her or sth it's just that she's the one who started the conversation and u need to know that boyzz this generation are lookin for girls which are not ego...but pretty..and not really popular...and smart!!
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Hey my names Katie im 14 going on 15 and i have a friend named Jenn and weve been pretty much best friends since grade 6 and she has been awesum always there for me and understanding and laughs at my jokes ..but now ever since her boyfriend she has pretty much stopped being a good friend she makes me look stupid in english class by saying out loud KATIE UR SO STUPID THATS NOT RITE and the guy i like is in our english class and she knows that ..everytime i try to tell her wut i feel she laughs at me and i get so upset ..what should i do ? please help me (link)
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i used to have ur experience honey!! u see people like this u should stay away...but if u want to confront them do it with prove to show that she's change and ask her why has she change....if she still laughs at u for everythin' u said to her then it's time u find a new friend..but if that doesn't work...just try to show to her that ur better than her!!
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I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad? (link)
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first of all remember the last person u slept with and convince him that he's the father of the child....and tell ur parents he slept with u and ur pregnant...it's better to find someone...
another of my idea is to tell ur parents and then wait until the baby is born then go to the hospital for DNA searching to find the father!!
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ok well my friend and i always have liked the same guyz pritty much and then shes always able to go out and tell them and she ends up going out with them and i get all sad n stuff and then after they brake up i dont like that guy anymore and then we end up liking the same guy again ((cuz we tell eachother who we like)) and she did the same thing again and then now she likes one guy and i like another guy and she flirts with the guy that i like but shes always saying that she doesnt like him and the guy that i like is the guy that ive felt best about so far and then he might like her but im not shur and i really want to be her friend still its just im pissed off about the fact that she keeps stealing the guyz that i like and thats why my friends keep making fun of me that i still dont have a boyfriend yet and i dont know wut to do? wut should i do? (link)
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yo kid..i used to hav the same prob as u do and the only way that you can fix the prob...is to tell ur friend that u need a chance to be with the person u like...n try for once not to be shy to ask!! cuz you will end up happily!!
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