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14 year old mother..
I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad?
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I think that you should just come out and tell them.. Be honest with them.. They need to know that when you have a big problem like this you know you can talk to them. Yes.. your parents will always support you.. My mom is really helping me with my daughter. But at first she was a little upset with me.. but.. I was her baby.. and I was having a baby myself.. and I had to grow up real fast. And thats how your parents are going to react.. Maybe they will just accept it... and not get angry.. But I think you just need to get together with them.. and come right out and tell them... this is a big deal... I hope I helped..
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if i were you what i would do is sit your parents down and tell them stright up.just be like mommy daddy i have somthing important to tell you and please dont be mad and im really sorry and i hope youll support me.. im pregnant! then see what they say and you guys can talk about it together. good luck!
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Well... i would bring it up with the person who you are closer with and if you cry that really helps out more-trix
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Well, first of all, you are very lucky to have parents that say they will support you. Even if you have your doubts, it's for the best that you tell them. I don't think that they will kick you out when you need them the most. Do your parents know that you're sexually active? It may be easier to bring up the subject of you being pregnant if they already are aware of that. However you decide to tell them, be aware that they can react badly. Give them some time to think itg over and let it soak in. It's shocking news to them, I'm sure, but I think with time they'll be able to handle it, at the least. Good luck!
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i think you should tell them.. they should support you.... and you need to tell them so you can find out who the baby's daddy is too... and also for health reasons... so i think you should tell the
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What did you expect!? Having un-protected sex like that! Or even sex at all at your age and not even knowing who the father is! How many people did you sleep with!?
As for telling your parrents, How do you not tell them? They need to know. Just tell them. I'm not sure what type of parrents you exactly have but if your afraid to tell them they must not be that bad. And if I where them I'd feel NO sympathy for you. Don't even consider abortion!!! The best thing you can do it put the baby up for adoption. That way it will get a mature mother and father.
I know this is hard but this is what happens when you do these things...
*Toby*
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OOOOOOO WOW!!.....well u need 2 tell ur parents. Say sumthin like i've got sumthin 2 tell u.....break it down slowly n expect 2 be yelled at n called names. Wen dey calm down den u can tell dem dat u dunt kno who da father iz. Dats wen u start thinkin bout da boyz u ben sleepin wit 4 a past month or so. Tell dem dat u wanna get a paternity test. But dats only if u wanna find out. If not i suggest u keep 2 ur self n un less u want everyone 2 kno keep it between u n ur family n maybe ur most trust worthy friend. Den start thinkin bout u n ur baby n wutz best. I wunt give u my opinion on abortion cuz dats ur decision but i will say think of it hard n long....n think of wutz best 4 ur baby's life along wit urs. Hope i helped=)
_CHIMAYA
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first of all remember the last person u slept with and convince him that he's the father of the child....and tell ur parents he slept with u and ur pregnant...it's better to find someone...
another of my idea is to tell ur parents and then wait until the baby is born then go to the hospital for DNA searching to find the father!!
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Alright.
I think we both know that you're too young to take care of a baby. You need to sit your parents down in comfy chairs, or something, and calmly explain to them your situation. Ask them not to interrupt. It'll be harder to tell them if they do. If you really want to keep it, tell them. If I were you, though, I wouldn't. Too much stress, along with school...I wouldn't be able to do it, and I'm a strong sort. Tell them you want an abortion if you do, and ask them to help you. *Hugs to you* I hope I helped. If you need more advice, don't hesitate to contact me. E-mail, IM, or here.
-Siren =)
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Damnnn.. i don't even know what to tell you!!
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Figure out which one of your parents or family members it's the easiest to talk to and will understand you the most. Get them alone and be straightforward as you can. "Mum/Dad/Brother, I'm pregnant." Together you can decide how do approach this with the rest of your family.
Good luck. This must be a very difficult situation for you.
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write your mom and dad a note a bout this dilemma. tell them you couldn't tell them in person because you were afraid of their reaction and you still want their approval. tell them you don't kno who the father is and thats what is making it even harder to tell them to there faces
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I think that you need to be straight forward , and let them know . Tell them before it is to late and they start to notice your belly getting bigger . It is not a good idea to wait and have them know from someone else . Also DO NOT have an abortion , for many reason such as it can be very harming to your health (preventing you from having children in the future can be a side effect) and also because you should not handle this issue by taking your baby's life away . If you cannot take care of the baby then give it up for adoption , but please know that in most states adoptions are not reversable ( once you give the baby up you cannot get it back ). I hope everything works out . E-mail me if you wanna ask or comment on anything . morethanuthinkiam91@hotmail.com
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GET AN ABORTION....QUICK!!!
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well for one u aare kind of making me scared im only 15 and will be turning 16 soon and im scared that i might end up being pregnant too soon but the advice i have for you is. Just tell you parents that u made a big mistake. And that you are pregnant. Tell them you are not sure who the father is and that you are willing to take on the responsibility of takin care of a child of your own. But Just know this is not an aesy thing practice it a few times with some friend or if you are to afraid to confront your parents ask to spend the night over a friends house. and leave a note on there bed for them to read explaning every thing. by the time you get home they will kniw what is up and they would have talked about it. then it shouldent be so hard for you to find the right words to say
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Well, you should mention to your parents that you have a serious issue to talk about. By saying that they'll at least be prepared and won't flip out. It's better to do it now than wait later on when it becomes obvious.
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The best way to approach the subject is to have them sit down (maybe at dinner or in the living room) and calmly say mom I think I might be pregnant, and if you used protection, tell her! If she asks who the father is, and you seriously dont know, maybe you should say the last guy you slept with. Im so sorry this happened to you! Good luck!
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