hey!my name is taryn and im here to help you with any of your problems!my friends are always tellin me i'm a great listener and advice giver so i thought i wouldn't just give them the privelage!hee hee!well hope you like my advice!lyf!
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do you think that it is weird that a 24 year old guy is dating a 16 yr old girl? i do but i need other opinions, the girl is my best friend and i dont like it. I need help on how i can be more open about the situation. please help!!! (link)
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this is not wierd but sum people would consider it wrong. i hav nuthin against it tho becuz u cant really stop people from likin eachother, no matter wut age they are. my brother is MARRIED to a 16 year old and hes 21...and they already hav a baby of 4 months. so if you think the age difference between your friend and her b/f is wierd, thats your opinion...sum people hav no problem with a relationship like that.
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how do you get a scholarship? Like does the college just give it to you or wut?
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well, im pretty sure for most scholorships you hav to apply but even if you do you hav to work really hard to get them. like you hav to get really good grades or do really good in wutever sugject the scholorship is for. like if its for an artschool, you'd hav to do really good in art.
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last night me n my best friend of 7 yrs got into this huge fight .. she said everything that bothered her but i had no problem with that. i was glad she did bcuz it hurtsz to keep it inside. but she didn't even want to give me a chance to fix it. i told her everything and we had great times hanging out. i don't want to lose her forever. i can't. shes the only one who's been there since i moved here. it hurts like fck to see all this crap in her away msgs about how she doesn't care anymore. i just want her back. i can't take her being mad. it kills me. i don't know what to do anymore :/ help me please (link)
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well, 1st of all, i think your a really great friend for takin her thoughts and feelins to heart. i hav friends that would just laugh at me, tell me im over emotional, and then they'd act like my feelings are a big joke. second of just wait for her to cool down. wen she isnt overly heated, tell her your sre and you dont want that fight to ruin your relationship. let her hav her say and dont interupt her. wen you start to explain things and back yourself up, dont be sarcastic and try not to sound angry but simpethetic. tell her u dont want to lose her cuz she has always been there for u more than anyone else and so you want to help her with her problems.
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I really like my boyfriend but hardly any of my friends do and they slag him off in front of me and his best mate (angus) says that my boyfriend's changed since he started going out with me and now loads of people who *did* like him, dont like him. I don't want to lose my boyfriend over this but i dont want angus to lose him best mate either and i'm sick of my friends slagging my boyfriend off. what do i do? (link)
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tell ur friends that they're great and all but you would really appreciate it if they were nicer to your b/f.tell them u kno they dont like him but u do and that should count for something and they shoould respect that. also tell ur b/f that if hes changed for u or because of ur friends that he doesnt hav to cuz u liked him just the way he was. also try to apologize to his best mate and tell him u never ment for him to change and ur sre if his changes hav started to split them apart cuz u never ment him to change in the first place. tell his mate that you really like ur guy but u dont want him and your b/f to stop bein friends.
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Lately loads of my boyfreinds mates keeps coming up to me saying hes taking coke', but i asks him and hes says that i shouldn't listen to them cause they are liers, and that he hasn't done nothing, but i dont know what to belive, can you help me?. kerrieanne aged 15 (link)
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well talk to him and tell him to be truthful.also talk to the people who are sayin this stuff. tell u'r b-friend he has to be truthful or you can't help him. if he doesn't talk to u and the people keep sayin this stuff, be more aggressive when u'r talkin to him. say with a firm voice that if he was really loved u he would tell u the truth. dont be scared and stand u'r ground. dont get violent tho.remind him no matter wut hes goin through, u'll be there to help him through it.
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Ok...this might take awhile. I'll try to make it as unbiased as possible.
I know this girl from school named Bry*. I am not a close friend of hers, I just occasionally talked to her in the mornings. I knew she talked about this guy, Blake*, that she liked. I didn't know his age, what he looked like, or anything.
But some friends and I saw Bry at the movies and she introduced us to Blake. I didn't remember any of this--until I met Blake.
We got along really well and all, and he asked me out. We only knew each other on the net and had met each other once beforehand. We really liked each other so we're a couple now.
News spreads fast, apparently, because the day we started going out, Bry found out. I didn't know it was 'her' Blake at first, but when I found out I had fallen for him and there was really nothing she could do. (I know that sounds mean.) But Bry has a BOYFRIEND (for two months now) and she has sent all her little friends to bother Blake, and to bother me as well.
It's really irritating...she sobs about how her friends get everything she wants, and how jealous she is and 'I thought we were friends?' All her little minions are trying to convince Blake not to go out with me. I've been called 'nasty', 'tomboy', etc. etc. and I feel some of my friends may have less respect for me now...always asking if me and Blake have 'done' anything (kissed, etc. etc.) and I have not kissed him yet, just an FYI.
What should I do? I don't want to be known as a crush-stealer or whatever, and Bry had a boyfriend in the first place! I am just angry that this should happen. I mean I still want to be her friend...but without all the shit inbetween.
(FYI I'm 13, female) (link)
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tell u'r friends the whole story. u had him before bry* and u didn't even kno it was the guy until AFTER she intrduced him. its not u'r fault that he likes u more then bry*. if she cant deal with that SHE'S oviously used to always getting wut she wants and shes prolly selfish 2. remind everyone that SHE'S not the only one that likes this guy and you hav strong feelings for him 2. and if soumone takes him away from u, u'r gonna be just as heartbroken as bry* is now. if she really liked him why would she stay with her b/f if she likes sumone else? and remind those friends that if they were really ur friends, they would stick by u and be on U'R side. don't take it anymore! talk to ur b/f about the problems and ask him if HE likes bry* back and if he believes everything everyone is sayin. and FYI, wuts so bad about being a tomboy? atleast u'll always be in shape!;) and wut gives them the righjt to label u? they prolly hav a pretty low self esteem and no life if they spend this much time tryin to ruin u'rs!;)
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quotes ppl i need quotes anyone have any good ones just answer this advice piece with as many as you got ! .. COM EON YOU GUYS GOTTA HAVE SOMETHING! (link)
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'a loving heart is the truest wisdom'---charles dickens---
'the will to love, is the will to live'---anonymous---
'the problem is not the problem.the problem is u'r attitude about the problem.got that?'---coach brevin---
'there is no such thing as fun for the whole family.'---jerry seinfeld
'today is the tomorrow we worried about yesterday.'---anonymous---
'luck never gives:it only lends.'---chinese proverb---
'not all who wonder are lost.'---j.r.r. tolken
i hav thousands more but i cant find my qoute book!sre!send me a question at my column for more on monday cuz i wont be here this weekend!sre again!
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well it's weird cause a while back me an this guy started dating and we dated off an on for like 3 years.. well he got sent away cause hes sucha badass and we broke up, when he got home we talked a little but i was in another relationship... So it just drifted away - a couple months later i see him and now all we do is hang out all the time .. or atleast around eachother .. it hurts me because he was my first love and ill love him til the day i die. Im scared though cause he was messing with a friend of mine which i helped them get together but now all the sudden hes telling people he wants to be with me again ... its scarey but my heart is crying for him .. what should i do?
i reallly need your help someone PLEASE!! (link)
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weell, ask u'r friend if she really actually likes him if she's still goin out with him. if she says no or she isn't and you wanna go out with him urself but u also want him to start behavin, do this. talk to him and say ' i will only go out with you if you stop bein a bad ass and gettin in trouble. if you break u'r promise then ill break up this relationship.' he'll respond if he really loves you. if he doesn't then you might as well try to forget about him.
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I'm 16 & i admit, im currently head over heels with my best guy friend. He's loyal, truthful, funny, sweet, intelligent, gives me attention, flirts with me, & he's luckily single (actually-- neither of us have ever had a significant other.. which would suprise lots of people because -not to sound concieted- we're well liked & just plain good people.. and he for one is a GOOD catch) Anyways, we're kind of stuck in a rut. I am almost positive that he likes me, and i definately like him. Maybe like isnt even the word.. cause its stronger than that. But neither of us will make the first move. I know for a fact that both of us have gone through a situation where we do try to make the first move with another person & it ends up in a mistake or whatnot. So im afraid we're both too scared to take the initiative. I'm trying to ease my way into it.. taking baby steps & making subtle comments & trying to make him comfortable to make the first move himself. Any of you ever been in a situation like this?? Please help me.. i dont want to lose him & regret not taking my chance!! :o\ (link)
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weeell, U'R just gonna hav to make the first move.simple as that. watch a movie sumtime and wen u'r sure hes really into it just say casually 'u kno, i like you.' he'll either just look at you or say 'wut?' or say 'u do?' and you say 'yeah, i do.' and that will be it. he'll prolly be kinda dumbfounded for a couple o' minutes but if he tries to hold u'r hand after that halp him in the effort.
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My cousins are visiting from cali and i need some ideas for pranks do to on my cousin Adam cause we've been pickin on each other since he got here and hes threatened to like shaving cream me and stuff while i sleep. I need some good ideas but nothin too harsh. Thanks a bunch! (link)
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well wen he walks in the door put u'r hand up and act as if u want him to give you a high five. wen he puts his hand put u'rs down quickley and say 'who's gay?!' his hand will be raised as if to say he is!you could always put his hand in cold water while he's sleepin or you could take ALL his things while hes asleep and replace them with gurlie things. wen he wakes up he'll prolly think hes in the wrong room or sumthin.or if he has a gurlfrend or a gurl he likes and you have 2 seperate lines or a cellphone you could call u'r own house and wen he picks it up or wen sumbody gives it to him act like the gurl.
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I'm 13, girl, and my best guy friend is moving tomorrow morning, and last night I w/bein a jerk, and I cussed him out. I have never made a worse mistake in my life. He's always been there for me always, and now he hates me. What do I do? (link)
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tell him u'r sre and u were just upset th@ he was leavin. let him say his share if he wants and dont interupt him. make-sure u talk to him right-a-way cuz the best friendships are ended over stupid fights. tell him u know hes been there and u appreciate it you just cant get over that hes not gonna be right there for you anymore and that made you angry. say it was selfish but you cant help it.
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What dose boys really look in gurls???? Im 15 single and my names Jenipher PLZ answer!!! (link)
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it depends on the guy really. if hes kinda quiet, he prolly wants a smart,nice, and appreciative gurl. if hes a loud guy that is prolly a different story. he prolly wants an attractive,talkitive,fun gurl who just wants to relax and hangout.
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ok i SERIOUSLY need help on this one (not like you ppl who are being dumb... like omg!!) One of my really good friends birthdays are coming up and I dont know what to get them. What are some good ideas?? ALSO i'd like to know what to get someone who is just my friend.. not too great but still friends! any suggestions? (link)
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get them a cute picture frame, clothes, make-up, a lounal/diary, a cd, or even a movie!these work for close friends AND just regular friends.
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I think I'm in love. what should I do? He has a girlfriend! Maybe even 2! Whenever I see him my heart starts to race. I just want to run up to him and kiss his gorgeus face. How does he feel about me? I will never know. I am a shy girl, all the way from head to toe. When I'm with him I feel as if I could fly. Fly Fly high up into the sky!!!!
What should I do? (link)
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i read some of the other answers and i kno you were just ryming not saying he's a player!;)nice poem tho! well i think you should try and talk to him. but not face to face if your shy.have one of u'r friends 3 or 2 way him,and act as if u'r not there. get u'r friend to ask him if he likes you. if he says 'yes' or 'why?' u'r friend should say 'o, cuz she reeeaally likes u.'but if he says no, then u'r friend should say 'o, i was just askin.'that way, he can think wutever he wants and wen a guy does that they usually start to like you and flirt more.but if he says 'just as a friend' that means he prolly does he just doesn't wanna say anything if you dont like him. unless of coarse he says it as if hes annoyed.
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ok theres this one guyz that ive liked for a long time and when skool was goin on most of my friends said that he liked me cuz we were in the one class together and he sat behind me and we talked like all the time and my friend to me we flirt way to much so she said that i should tell him i like him and so i did a few days ago online and he acted cool about it but then he wouldnt talk to me except he said bye to me when he had to go so then i talked to him like yesterday and we talked for a loong time and then when he had to go he said lyl which means luv ya lotz but i think he was kidding or something but i dont know cuz he says he doesnt like me? wut do u guyz think does he like me and hes hiding it or not? (link)
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maybe this guy is scared or doesn't kno wut to think, but i think he kinda likes you. if you guys get along that well then he must.i just dont think hes totally into it. take some time and hang out more. keep flirting of course;),but wait a little while so that he canstart to like you even more. dont keep tellin him you like him and everything ALL the time but you can slip it in to convos 1 in long while so that he knos it and wont forget.
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My boyfriend recently told me I was acting alot different and not being myself. I can see why he says that because I have been thinking about taking a break with him and I have SO much on my mind.
Tonight on the phone he kept saying he loved me and he never wanted to lose me AND our 8 month anniversary is this Saturday. Should I wait to call it off between us until after this Saturday or what?
I REALLY NEED THE ADVICE!! (link)
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if you wait the damage will just be worse believe me, i kno.so tell him as soon as you can and apologize profusely!make sure you tell it to him easily and dont be hard on him. he'll prolly be obset for a while so give him some time to absorb what you say. but when you see him still say hi and stuff even if he is mean to you.
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Dear reader,
About a year ago I met the man of my dreams (guy #1) and we love each other dearly, but he lives in Central America and I live in California. The thing is that three months ago I met a wonderful guy (guy #2) that really loves me a lot. And I’m going on a trip to Central America where the other guy (guy #1) is and he’s expecting me to see him. My recent boyfriend (guy #2) has a really bad temper and the other guy (guy #2) is miles away and I love the guy #1 more that than the guy #2 but I know it won’t work out. The question is should I see the other guy and maybe be something again at least for a short while or should I stay with guy (guy#2) and try to deal with his hot temper?
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go for the guy that is farther away. sure it wont last forever, but atleast you can enjoy it while it does.the guy with the temper wont exactly do you much good if you love a guy who is millions of miles away and your always thinkin about him while your with guy #2.
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hey ok i like this guy alot..i have for a while. he lives next door to me. the other day my friend chelse asked for his sn and gav it to her bff sam. sam took it and started talking to him, sent him her pic and now he likes her and she likes him altho she has a bf. he said that if they break up he'll go out with her. sam and him always talk about eachother to me. like he is so nice/hot w.e im so sick of it. i dont no what to do... :( help!
thanks love youu* (link)
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tell your friend the problem first but try not to be mean.tell her she already has a b-friend and you would really like a shot with this guy.if she understands, get her to tell him th@ she doesn't like him anymore.after this, you get on the internet and talk with this guy or just have him over for dinner. just as a friend;).then you guys can play a fun game.
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well i juss got a new bf today.. and you know how u hab those awkard silent moments at the begining of a new relationshp?!! well i dont like them!! what can i talk to him about htat will make him open up more..and not be like "so..yeah.." LOl. PLEASE HELP.
OH and we already takled abuot music and sports... LOL.. any other topics!!??
thanks alot you guys. (link)
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some topics are-
1.school assignments
2.friends
3.school
4.sports
5.food
6.any recent incidents like one of your friends did something really funny or something
7.movies
8.books
9.or play a funny game
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hi i am currlie and i am 15 there is this guy that i really like but i dont know what to do. we have so much in common and are really good friends we always hang out to. I am not the kind of girl to ask a guy out so i hape that someone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it
thanks , currlie (link)
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get one of your friends to question him about his feelings or get on instant messenger and talk to him on th@.its easier to talk to someone about there feelings when your not face 2 face.
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