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a three way triangle
Dear reader,
About a year ago I met the man of my dreams (guy #1) and we love each other dearly, but he lives in Central America and I live in California. The thing is that three months ago I met a wonderful guy (guy #2) that really loves me a lot. And I’m going on a trip to Central America where the other guy (guy #1) is and he’s expecting me to see him. My recent boyfriend (guy #2) has a really bad temper and the other guy (guy #2) is miles away and I love the guy #1 more that than the guy #2 but I know it won’t work out. The question is should I see the other guy and maybe be something again at least for a short while or should I stay with guy (guy#2) and try to deal with his hot temper?
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go for the guy that is farther away. sure it wont last forever, but atleast you can enjoy it while it does.the guy with the temper wont exactly do you much good if you love a guy who is millions of miles away and your always thinkin about him while your with guy #2.
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There is no possible way you can truelly love 2 people. You can care for them both, but deep inside you should know who you truelly love. You have to make a choice. I think maybe you and guy #2 should take a break, then you can visit #1 and see where things are. You have to remember #1 lives kinda far and its not always that you get to see him, things may have changed in his life, so maybe you need to check up on that before you make a choice. If sparks do still fly the smae way as in the past, then you need to talk to #1 about this relationship really working? Is it always going to be long distance? If it is, then things probably won't work out, and you should just go home and start on your future with #2. But if things will work with you and #1, then I think you might be better off with him because you seem to care for him more. Good Luck! :)
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Hmm .. this is tough. There's pros and cons to both, I guess.
* Guy # 1 *
- distance issue
- you both <3 each other
- it probably will not work out =/
* Guy # 2 *
- he <3's you, buuuut, you never said how you feel about him
- bad temper
.. If #2's temper is really bad and doesn't calm down, you probably won't be too happy in a relationship with him .. you never said how you feel about him [[ unless I missed it? ]], so I don't know.
.. Long distance relationships are tough, but maybe you'll figure something out when you go to visit #1.
Good luck, and do what YOU think is right .. it sounds corny, but just follow your heart :o).
xo . <3
*;- Kals
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First off don't ever deal with a guy who has a hot temper.Too dangerous and so not worth it.So that clears guy#2 out of the picture which leaves you with guy#1.If you don't think you two would work out then remain friends.But if you give him a chance you two could be together for a short while and keep in touch still.Because long distance probably won't work out.
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I say go with what ever would make you happiest. If you already planned the trip to see #1 then go ahead and take the trip. Maybe things will work out with him. Good luck =)
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Wow that is tough.Try stayin w/ Guy #2 for awhile.Talk to him about his temper and maybe he will change.If not..Go with guy #1 again.Good luck sweetie!Much <3
*Britt Britt
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