Hey, my name is Jason. I've only been here for a little while, but this seems like one of those places that I might stop by daily. My good friend, Shay, was the first to show me this site and is a member herself. I'm pretty much used to giving out advice to my friends and have done that for quite a while. I also like it because it takes my mind off of my own problems. So hopefully I'll be a help to you all too. =) If you wanna find out anything else about me just send me a message and I'll try my best to get back at ya.
Gender: Male
Location: Virginia
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: June 27, 2004
Answers: 32
Last Update: August 23, 2004
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doing all the excercises ive seen on here no one has said how long it takes to get a 6 pack, sooo. HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO GET A 6 PACK! im male/15 thats fairly slim. (link)
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well i'm in fair shape right now and ive been doing two exercises, for about a week and my 6 pack is coming together. i just need to work on my lower 2, which would take about another week or 2.
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? (link)
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Yes there is a pretty good chance that that he is thinking about you, if he continues acting this way then he might be interested in you. Just keep an eye open on how he acts around you, flirting etc. Or you could be bold and straight out ask him of what he thinks of you. All depends on what you want to do.
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what is the kiss that guys like the most..? (link)
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When it comes to kissing on the mouth, it's the french kiss. It's my fav at least, especially when a girl knows how to use her tongue right ^_~
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WHat do guys want in a girl? (link)
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Well here's my list for the perfect girl, and no, I'm not a stupid bastard...
Personality:
Caring
Sweet
Honest
Trustworthy
Smart
Silly
Reliable
Physical:
Around between 5’2 and 5’6
Brown hair
Black (little light skinned)
Thick (you know what I mean)
Hair down to your shoulders
Real body (no "barbies" got it?)
Attributes:
Lady-like (when needed)
Likes to joke around and have fun
Doesn’t have a real short temper
Is a “Freek-A-Leek” (mosdef)
If you want to be my wife:
Is good with kids
Wants a big family (5-6 kids)
Wants pets (dog at least)
Likes to cook
Most Important:
She loves me...
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I think I eat too much food. I'm kinda overweight and I always find myself eating even when I'm not hungry! I know I shouldnt but i just love the taste of food! what to do?
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Keep yourself busy! Yes, that is a good solution, I tend so eat a whole bunch of stuff even when I'm not hungry. And in the middle of that I stop and think "what? I'm not even hungry". So yea, try to do sumthn and if you do eat, try to make it healthy. Not getting much junk food when you go shopping might help out. It kinda helped me out.
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Thanks so much for your advice....I talked to him lastnight and he said he was joking right...but then he started saying i was fat and ugly and that again and i asked him to stop so he hung up on me and won't talk to me now....i think i should just brake up with him...i mean i can find someone better than him i have another guy that treats me with respect better than him but how can i gently break up with him and stay friends and let him know i still love him??
P.S.-You should come down to VA Beach again lol its a nice little vacation haha! VERY relaxing to me!
~Thanks Much~ (link)
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Well you can't exactly control the relationship after the break up, it also depends on what his reaction is to it. But the next time you talk to him you should just easily break it to him. You could say that you've been having some problems with the relationship that is bothering you and that you think it would be best to break up. Ya know, nuthn harsh that will scar him for life, and it's not the "let's just be friends" line. He might take it hard, he might not, that could affect how your friendship will be after the relationship. Letting him know that you still love/care about him can be easily be done when ever you feel like it. Whether it be right when you break up with him or when things are a bit more calm between you two. I would prolly wait til a bit after and say something like "Even though we're just friends, I still love you and (insert anything else that would go well with this)" lol. I'm glad that you know other guys out there that will treat you well. Hopefully you'll find a suitable b/f.
Yea I'd love to go back down to the beach, but it's a bit of a distance here in Northern Va =)
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when u make out with sum1 does it just cum like naturally or do u have to kno how to kiss or wut? im just wondering because it seems like a lot of ppl it cums naturally too...so would that b the same for me? (link)
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Heh, to me it came naturally. I actually had my first kiss this year(yea I know, late). But The first time was simple and short, you just get better and better each time after that. =)
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Im 15 and single now , all because of my x Boy friend and we went out for a day , the next day he said that he didn't feel right around me, after we broke up I feel really alone , now were just friends , which is really hard now . How can i get over him???!!!!!????? do u have any suggestions??? Every time I see him with another gurl i go and cry , how do I get over him,?????? Plz answer back ASAP!!!
My name is Jenipher (link)
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Well if you really liked him, it might take a while to get over him. Keeping your mind on other things is one way, maybe doing something to stay busy. Try not to get too stuck on him, or else you might miss someone better out there for you. You gotta convince yourself to move on and not worry about him. Go out and spend some time with your girl friends, they can also help you out here. I hope you find someone else that will make you happy and keep you happy, you owe it to yourself =).
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Well i'm a 15 year old girl from Virgina Beach i use to model for fun but now i feel like really ugly....i'm 5'3 and 109 pounds i have a picture if you would ever wanna see but anyways i feel so ugly cause my boyfriend always says i'm fat and omg that shirt looks bad on you and he use to be so nice i mean i don't know if hes kidding around or what? I love him with alllll my heart we been together for 2 years July4th and yes i'm young but i am in love....what should i do brake up with him? He won't ever talk about it with me? !!HELP!!
Screename=AiNy3....feel free to IM ME anytime! (link)
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Heh you can be in love at 15, I was. 5'3 and 109lbs is not fat, so he must be out of his mind or something. If he won't ever talk about any of this with you, you kinda gotta make him at least listen to you. I hope he does listen and stop joking with you if he is. I find that to be a pretty cruddy joke =/. You want breaking up to be the last option of course. So try to work things out with him, if you've tried your best and he won't change, then you might have to take breaking up into consideration. As long as you're happy, ya know. Good luck w/ him =)
P.S.-Cool that you live down at VA beach, haven't been there in years.
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I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.
Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.
Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation. (link)
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You should just tell her what you said, that it bothers you. I know it can get annoying, it bothers me too. Just tell her calmly next time she do it. Good luck with her, hopefully she'll stop.
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my boyfriend just came back from mississippi and we always talked online and he always told me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. we was always saying how much he wanted to see me and he is always saying he loved me and he would never treat me bad and he treats me like SHIZ NIT! my friends tell me to break up with him but i love him too much and i dont know if i should break up with him or not. I mean he hurts me by not answering my phone calls and ignoring me and always ditching me for his friends. I was so mad when i called him and he got home an hour before and he was already with his friends. sometime i think he for gets he has a girlfriend that he soposably cares about. I need advice!
~*~jonelle~*~ (link)
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Wow, you shouldn't have to take any of that. So you love him, but he treats you like sh!t. Are you happy he treats you like that? I highly doubt that. Why should you stay with him if you aren't happy *shrugs*? Some people you just gotta get over. He wouldn't treat you like that if he really cared. There are much better guys out there for you that will treat you the way you should be treated. Unless you can work things out with him, you should leave him.
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This is a very personal question and i feel weird to ask this but do yalls shave your pubic hairs? Cause some guys don't like it and i was wondering if it was ok if i mowed my lawn? Please Help if you can sorry if my question bothers you :/ (link)
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Well it depends on you and the guy you're with. You should at least keep it trimmed and nice, but not necessarily shaved. I'd prefer my girl to keep it nice and short.
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hey my name is katie (( female )) and i have a boyfriend we've only been dating for a month tomorrow ;; we've went out before but i really love him and im only 14 but i mean i never felt this way for a boy before but i think hes ignoring me because some bad stuff kinda happened well imma tell you [[ short versen ]] -- well i was talkin to this boy that likes meh wait no loves me and he kept telling meh and like 20 mins before we were going to my boyfriends house he was all huggin on meh and holding my hand then when we got to my boyfriends house he pulled this headache crap cause i wouldnt talk to him but i mean i dont like this boy _at all_ and i told him then my boyfriend found out but i mean i didnt tell him so i found out a bunch of my friends told him but im not sure but i called him the nixt day and i told him i didnt like the other boy and he didnt believe meh but its been like 4 days later and my boyfriend still isnt talking to meh i mean if i call him hes either bout to leave or not there or about to do sumpthyn i mean is he igoring meh? i mean i've cried my self to sleep like almost everynight this past week and i dont know what to do -- will you please help meh -- (( i hope i made this understandable lol )) thanks [[ much love ]] Katie Sumner (link)
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Well you should keep on trying to talk to him about this. I can understand why he would be mad at something like this, if not mad, it just REALLY bothers him. I been through stuff like that before. Ya know, minor stuff that doesn't really mean anything, but it makes me mad anyways. He shouldn't stay mad for a that long, maybe you should stop by his place if calling him doesn't work. If he loves you he'd at least hear your side of the story. This might take some time, don't try and stress over it too much sweetie. I hope everything works out with him, good luck.
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it's my boyfriend's birthday in a couple of weeks and i have no idea what to get him! does anyone have any ideas? it can't be rude or too adult we're only 13. Thanks! (link)
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Well, find out what he likes and work with that. If he likes sports and has some fav teams you could get something dealing with that. Or maybe if you know he wants some CDs then you could get that.
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ok im not sure how to use tampons iv only used pads so can someone give me instrustions (link)
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Instructions should come with the box...
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Dear reader,
About a year ago I met the man of my dreams (guy #1) and we love each other dearly, but he lives in Central America and I live in California. The thing is that three months ago I met a wonderful guy (guy #2) that really loves me a lot. And I’m going on a trip to Central America where the other guy (guy #1) is and he’s expecting me to see him. My recent boyfriend (guy #2) has a really bad temper and the other guy (guy #2) is miles away and I love the guy #1 more that than the guy #2 but I know it won’t work out. The question is should I see the other guy and maybe be something again at least for a short while or should I stay with guy (guy#2) and try to deal with his hot temper?
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I say go with what ever would make you happiest. If you already planned the trip to see #1 then go ahead and take the trip. Maybe things will work out with him. Good luck =)
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I'm 15 and I want a job sooo bad! Does anyone know where I can get one? (link)
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You should be able to get a job at a food place. That would be the most common for a 15 year old. It'll be pretty hard to find others jobs at 15, I've looked. Most places I wanna work are 16+ =/, but keep searching there might be one you like.
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I really just want to meet some new people and hang out with a new "clique or crowd" Where do you meet people? (link)
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There plenty of places you can meet people. First and most common place is school. Join clubs, teams, etc. and meet new people through that. While you're hanging out with them you might meet with their friends and it kinda goes on from there. You could also meet people at the mall, job(if you have one), and so many other places. Just try to find a common ground with people and take it from there. You could end up with more friends than you know what to do with! =P Have fun.
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I have been searching and searching for a job but I can't find ANYTHING I am intreseted in! Ive looked at Baskin Robbins, Black Eyed Peas, Eckerd's and they just dont look fun! Have any good, FUN places to work that pays well?
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Well it depends on what places are around you and transportation. Right now I'm trying to find a job at the mall, it's relatively close, it's not slow and boring, and I wouldn't mind being there. The places you want to work also depend on how old you are, of course. If you're 15 and trying to find a job it might be pretty difficult, I am. But if you're 16+ then the choices you have will be much greater. Sometimes just having a job is better than nothing. At least try to find a place that pays ok, but you like to work there. While working there you can still search around at other jobs. Good luck on your job search.
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im startin a job in like a week and im waitressing and bussing and im really nervous howdo i get ova it? (link)
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Just try to keep yourself busy, go see a movie or something to take your mind off of it. People are usually nervous until it actually happens, so when the first day comes and is over with, you should be fine. Have fun with your new job.
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