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Am I jealous???
I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.
Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.
Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation.
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Well, my friend Reed said this to my friend Wendy and I when we wouldn't shut up: "I'm gonna start talking about every hott girl I see and I will not shut up about them. Unless, of course, you tone down the dreaming about guys you don't even know." We shut up after that. Maybe your friend will.
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yes u are jeaulous but thats only because your used to her being only your friend. and maybe you want her to stop complimenting other people and pay all of her attention to you. MAybe she doesnt kno how you feel. Try telling her that you feel uncomfortable when shes does stuff like that.
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I know you think that your not jealous but it sounds like you are. Are you sure you dont like her as more that a friend. or it could be that you were embarrased for her and you just wanted her to stop.
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i have a friend and he is just like that i blab on and on aboout my boyfriend but he does the same about his girlfriend i know it maybe annoying exspecial when you might be in love with your friend i mean i got over so when i got my boyfriend i just blabed back and i think its good that way cause if she begins to like someone totally wrong for her you can help her decide so just talk to her about ask her not to go on and on and on about a guy (( did you ever think maybe you liked her even just a little )) well i hope i helped need anything else im me -- alwaiis hyper247 -- much love Katie Sumner
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Yikes, your friend thats a girl is just like me, i always talk about guys to my guy friend, witch likes me, and he even said he was jelouse. But that's because he trusts me. Maybe you could be jelouse. Maybe she likes you, and wants you to get interested in her. Ask her in a joking matter, what do you think about me, then let a few days pass, and ask her in a serious way. Plus it's okay to be jelouse, i haven't experienced jelously over someone, but maybe i will.
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If you like this girl MORE than a friend, it is jealousy.
If you like this girl AS a friend, it isn't jealousy.
I've felt the same exact way before. Don't worry, 13 year old boy, for it will be alright. Well, that's all I've got to say...if you want/need more help e-mail me at imkindatrying@hotmail.com or IM me (AIM) at losers beat all. Thanks.
--katie--
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well its obvious u got feelings for her... maybe next time she brings up a guy just ask her to keep it to herself or u can retaliate by talkin bout girls.... u never no maybe she likes u too and shes tryin to make u jealous... hope i helped
Tommy
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Listen Im 15 and ( a gurl too) Do u really like her??? if u do then try too talk too her about it, or make her Jealous too, Im single right now and i am trying to find a guy but I always think that other guys are cute and I dont say any thing , if shes making u jelous then tell her that she needs to stop it . Sorry about that up there, but tell her That u like her alot, plz wbasap!!!???? Bye Jenipher
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HEY URE FRIEND. TOTALLY HAS A CRUSH ON U AND IS TRYING TO LET YOU KNOW BY TALKING ABOUT OTHER GUYS.
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She may just want you to realize that she is interested in guys. Tell her exactly how you feel. Sure, It'll take guts, but you can do it. It will help your relationship no matter what. It is good that you're friends with a girl. =) Stay true.
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thats how alot of girls are! they like to talk to their friends about guys!! maybe deep down you really do like her? thats the only reason i can see why you would be jealous!! You can try talking to her about it...just dont be mean about it!! She could also like you...Maybe!! idk...best thing to do for you right now is to talk to her! =)
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First of all hun the expression is swooning not mooning.But that's ok.I can think of two reasons why she is doing this.
Reason # 1:She could have started to think of you as more of a girfriend rather then a guyfriend.
Reason # 2:She could like you and is trying to make you jealous.
In either case tell her you want to remain her friend,but you want to talk about something other then guys.Then maybe she will take the hint to find a girl to talk about guys with,and find something to talk about that you can both relate on.
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You should just tell her what you said, that it bothers you. I know it can get annoying, it bothers me too. Just tell her calmly next time she do it. Good luck with her, hopefully she'll stop.
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just trying tellin her that u like talking to her and stuff but at the same time ur a guy urself and u dont really like hearing bout others guys 24/7.. let her know its not that you dont like her as a friend but u juz want yall to talk bout other stuff rather than guys she likes.. im sure shell understand cause i bet she wudnt like it if you talked bout other gurls all the time.. good luck!
-*Tay
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may-b she is doing it to see what ur reaction will be so she can see if u like her.
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just tell her to stop. Tell her you don't have feelings for her and you are not jelous. Just tell her you are sick of her obsessing over guys. tell her that she needs to talk about that to her girl friends not you. But make sure she doesn't take it in the wrong way. Hope i helped
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I don't think it's jealousy. I mean, I'm a girl and I get annoyed when my girlfriends talk about nothing but guys... I'm very straight, I assure you, it's just more interesting to hang out with people with their own personality.
Tell her how you feel. Ask her why, all the sudden, all she talks about is guys. Ask if she's interested in news or politics or even fashion... ANYTHING! She owes it to you to change the subject every once in a while.
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