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sup im tommy im 13 and i live on LI my ex gf made this thing cause she said i give good advice ;) and said i should at least try this and its pretty kewl... also i got some friends on this, xxinternetbabyxx angemysterieux1 latinking45 alldatbabyphat and jax4lyfe so ask them q's 2..... but dont forget about me!
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? (link)
well he could either have mixed feelings or he could just be messing with u.... according to his friend he probably has feelings for u and was trying to flirt.... i no it might be hard but just try to talk to him privately and ask him bout the truth...

hope i helped
Tommy


ok i hav webbed feet is that normal sould i cut them with like scissors or something? (link)
its not normal but its not insanely oddd either... some ppl have webbed feet... dont cut them cause that will hurt like a biotch and i think ull bleed so just try to liv with it.... its really not that weird...

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Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
first u have to move in with a friend or realtive... then find a divorce agent and call the cops to put a restraining order on him.... thats all i can telll u to do ... hope i helped

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Do I need friends that get boys that i dont even know to go out with??
Jenipher and plz ask me a question at JayJay (link)
u dont NEED them.. no one actually need friends... its if its in ur b est intrest to stay friens wit them....probably not.... but if u can get them to stop doin that then yea.... but also u gotta make the desicion based on how u no them and *the good times* (lol) u no!?

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is it ok to date online (link)
thats up to u or the person who is... some ppl say yea some ppl say no its based on ur opinion... personally i think its ok to a certain extent

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im a 14 year old girl, and i like my best friends cousin, i mean hes all i ever wanted in a guy, and he flirts with my all the time but he will never tell anyone, such as when they ask if him he was flirting he will say no, what are you talking about, and then hell stop i mean, i know im not the picture perfect girl, and im not the preetist, but i really like this guy, how can i get him to notice me and not be embarssed (link)
ok u can try to get ur friend to ask her cousin if he likes u wat he thinks bout u or even if he would go out wit u (hypothetically).... or u can try the direct approach and talk to him bout this urself.... also some guys r embarresed bout flirting or flirtin wit certain grls cause that would show that they like them.... hope i helped

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I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.

Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.

Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation. (link)
well its obvious u got feelings for her... maybe next time she brings up a guy just ask her to keep it to herself or u can retaliate by talkin bout girls.... u never no maybe she likes u too and shes tryin to make u jealous... hope i helped

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can a boy be a virgin (link)
yea of course

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Hi my names Jenipher and Im 15 & single , My BoyFriend Just broke up with me and I can't over him , I wish People that i think was cute , would just give me a chance , my friends just keep asking guys out for me & I dont even know them! I feel really alone and I just need a friend that cares, Plz help me u can visit my advice column Its JayJay But Plz help
Jenipher (link)
well first tell ur friends that U wanna get a bf by URSELF and without someone settin u up on a blind date or wit someone u dont no..... ok #2.... well for ppl u think that r cute givin u a chance well u gotta sorta Let them give u a chance.. u no wat im sayin... like try to talk to them and if u get to no enough were ur comfortable round them u can start flirtin or ask them out..... another good idea is if u become good friends u can ask them wat they think of u or somethin like that.... well its kewl u asked me thx... aslo if u wanna give me more details or talk more bout it my IM is Mr Toasty 745 (wit spaces).... hope i helped

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this isnt a q its just a post sayin im gonna be gone most of the summer so i wont be able to do a lot of advice stuff.... dont forget me though im gonna answer q's just not as often..

tommy (link)
yup..


My boyfriend recently told me I was acting alot different and not being myself. I can see why he says that because I have been thinking about taking a break with him and I have SO much on my mind.
Tonight on the phone he kept saying he loved me and he never wanted to lose me AND our 8 month anniversary is this Saturday. Should I wait to call it off between us until after this Saturday or what?
I REALLY NEED THE ADVICE!! (link)
tell him exactley wats goin on.... if he really loves u hell understand and wait for u.... and if u keep it goin itll be that much harder to break it off wit him.... hope i helped

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Everytime i a guy likes me, and i like him...i back off even though i like him!! idk why! i'll like go out with them, then break up...agghh idk what to do!:-/ (link)
ur probably just confused or afraid of somethin (like commitment maybe?).... neway ur q needs to be a little more detailed to find out how to solve ur problem so u can either repost or just IM and ill talk to u bout it... Mr Toasty 745

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Oh man.. oh man.. I just met this guy 3 days ago and he told me today he was in love with me.. and I even have a boyfriend!! What am I supposed to say to him?!
Signed,
YIKES! (link)
just be like wow thats reallly nice to say but i dont think we no each other enough to go out let alone be in love (try to be easy on him) and just tell him that u dont like him (but if u want to u can say that u 2 can get to no eac other better by bein friends) thats it.. hope i helped.... just IM 4 more help

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how old should you be before you have sex? before you make out? date? thanx (link)
sex- idk... 16? lol
makeout- 11
date- not a clue i ha a gf wen i was 6 lol

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my boyfriend is leaving for a year and a half. Should i wait for him or see other people? PS im 15 1/2
holding back (link)
ur gonna have to tell him that ur gonna see other ppl.... also do u REALLY love him enough to wastea year and a half of no goin out wit ppl wen ur goin to be 16/17?! i wouldnT! but thats just me cause i flirt a lot but NEWAY thats beside the point... lol hope i helped

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okay im an 12 year old male and im pretty popular in my school and im goin out with this really hot gurl one day we were walkin home from school together and she went in with me to my house my mom wasnt there so she went up to my room i just had the urge to do it with her and she felt the same way we decided we werent quite ready yet so we just made out and she showed me her boobs that was the best time of my life know im young but i cant fight the urge.

wat do i do i really want to do it with her (link)
DUDE!!! nice goin playa lol neway u should NOT have sex yet because ur too young and stuff... it could mess u both up if u get an STD too... and if u want nemore advice just go to those teenpregnancy site thingys they can tell u the rest of the mindnumbing boring details as well
hope i helped

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im here by myself right now and im soo bored, does anyone have any good sites or something that i could do besides talk online, watch tv or listen to music .. like a good comp game or something.. ps. its too late to go outside & i can't go anywhere or have anyone come here

PLEASE HELP!

-bored out of my mind (link)
bored.com, fart.com (really funny) and the other links bored.com gives u... thats all i got.... hope i helped.

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does anyone kno any sites where u can make ur own profile like www.xprofilen.net somethin like that cause im lookin but i cant find any..... (link)
subprofile.com, buddyprofile.com and for puttin pics on the web theyres picturetrail.com and photobucket.com hope i helped

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ok i am a little differnt in school. i like it and all. But last year people got the impresioni was gothic, but really i just like to be wearing somthing differnt than all the others. I am so confused. also i just wanto to breack down and cry but i know no 1 will understand!!!
signed, GRL who isnt gothic! (link)
yea i dont like it wen ppl "judge a book by its cover" if ya no wat i mean.... just try to talk to some ppl and let ppl see that ur not gothic and that ur just "normal"... if u do ppl will probably understand.... if u need nemore help just im me

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Ive been dateing this guy for three yrs and One month, Im 19/f weve always knew were gonna get married and all that stuff,but I wanna propose to him, is that wrong or somewhat stupid?
Thanks (link)
HELL NO! if u love him, and u no he loves u, proposing is a greeat way to keep ur love alive! and dont listen if some1 says that the guy should propose not the girl... thats BULL... a girl has evry right to propose too... if wen im older and my gf proposes to me.. i would be happy! lol hope i helped

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