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Oh man..


Question Posted Tuesday June 29 2004, 12:03 am

Oh man.. oh man.. I just met this guy 3 days ago and he told me today he was in love with me.. and I even have a boyfriend!! What am I supposed to say to him?!
Signed,
YIKES!


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dancer_freak05 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:09 pm:
Thats a little fast.... :S

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Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 3:43 am:
Alrightie, if this guy met you three days ago, and he's already saying he loves you, he's probably just trying to score with you. Either that or it's love (for him) at first sight.
You have a boyfriend. Just tell him that. Tell him he's not gonna come between you and your boyfriend. Don't let 'im.
Guys do that all the time. They're all idiots. Lol - just don't let 'im bother you.
-Siren =)

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HollyAnn2282 answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 2:54 am:
Alright if you dont like him DONT lead him on... just tell him, "hey look, we just met and I do have a boyfriend and I dont have those feelings for you this point in time..." and whatever else you think is worth saying. Just let him know you dont feel that way about him... Dont be rude or to nice just let him know the lines and where to not cross
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AquamarineRose answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 2:37 am:
Some people just throw around the word "love". Most don't even know the meaning of it.Try talking to the guy.Tell him you want to get to know him and everything, but you have a boyfriend already and you don't love him.(Him meaning the guy you've known for 3 days)

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tropiicalXsplash answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 2:25 am:
I doubt he has spent enough time with you to be in love. He probably doesn't mean it. Just tell him that you care for him - as a friend. Explain the concept of you having a boyfriend and ask if he wants to hang out sometime - as a friend.

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AngelaNicoleo02 answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 1:22 am:
If your not in love w/ him then don't tell him you are. But if you are then tell him you are! But u have a boyfriend. If your in love w/ the one that is in love w/ you than go out w/ him.. Im guessing that would make sense! <3 Angi*

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MissBrittany answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 12:44 am:
Hey girl! Look...for this boy to be telling you he loves you already, even though you have only known eachother for 3 days...he's no guy you would want to be with. If you have a boyfriend, please tell him this! Personally what I would do is tell him about my boyfriend first, and then I would refresh his memory on how long we have known eachother. It has only been three days...you can't LOVE someone in three days...tell him that you two need to talk a lot more and maybe even hang out a lot more. Friendship is the first step to even liking someone. Tell him that being friends is the best way to be for right now. I hope I helped you out. If you have any more questions, I'm here.

-* BriTtAnY *- :-) :-)

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MrToAsTy answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 12:44 am:
just be like wow thats reallly nice to say but i dont think we no each other enough to go out let alone be in love (try to be easy on him) and just tell him that u dont like him (but if u want to u can say that u 2 can get to no eac other better by bein friends) thats it.. hope i helped.... just IM 4 more help

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GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 12:11 am:
WoW!! How does this guy know he loves you already especially when he could barely even know you!! You need to be honest with him and tell him he cant say stuff like that and you have a boyfriend!! First off, if your boyfriend doesnt know about this guy, you should tell him that yall are just good friends and there are no feelings (dont say that if you do have feelings though) Honesty is the best policy! *Just like Hannah told me*

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Elizabeth answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 12:08 am:
That's pretty scary. I think you should tell him that it is way too early to be saying things like that.
XoXo

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RachiE07 answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 12:07 am:
- - YIKES! - -

I Think You Should Be Honest With The Guy Who Said He Is In Love With You. Mention That You Have A Boyfriend, And Can't Commit To Him ((The Other Guy, The 3 Days Ago One)) And Hope And Pray That He Understands. Be Sure To Tell Him That You Don't Want To Hurt Him, You Just Want To Be Honest!

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