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Does straightening your hair really damage it? (link)
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yes ma'am it does.
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so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 and a half months. just recently, hockey season got over and he was free to do whatever he wanted .. well he always used to get high and drink and stuff and i'm seriously not into that ... he is like ditching me for his friends to go get high with them .. i've tried talking to him about it but he doesn't understand the way it makes me feel .. he's told me stories about him going to parties and getting high then these girls walk around with their shirts off and stuff .. am i suppose to like that or what? because i don't and its starting to really bug me .. he's always like just come with me but i hate seeing him high and fucked up because he doesn't pay attention to me. again he doesn't understand and i just don't know what to do. (link)
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weLL.
since your not into that, don't go obviously. LoL. no really, this is serious
Since he doesn't understand, sit down and talk with him more. cuz once he understands, maybe he'll stop.
he shouldn't be ditching you to get drunk and high. it's a bad combo, and plus, if he is playing hockey normally, what the fuck is he doin?
I realize that this is his hockey time out, but wtf!! seriously.
Um, when he starts talking about that shtuff, just ignore him or change the subject. i would have dumped him by now to be perfectly honest.
if he isn't going to respect you and your wishes, then you shouldn't be with him.
HOpe i helped huN!!
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Okay I really dont know what to do right now.. I have been on and off with a guy for about 4 months. Yeah i know thats not that long but i really truelly think that im in love. We havent had sex or anything and he treats me like a princess. Well i was kinda mean to him all the time and took advantage of him because i thought he loved me too much to leave me but i was wrong. he left me but always took me back.. we would be really good for a while but then i change and i really have no clue why! me and him both have very difficult lives and hes the one i always talk to! well he just broke up with me about a month ago and told me he isnt coming back! and what makes it extra hard is that me and him were never really friends.. we just jumped into a relationship! I really love him but now he likes another girl and my heart is broken! i dont know what do to now! How do i get him back? or how do i get over him because its really hard! i really do love him with all ym heart! please help... (link)
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weLL.. there isn't any way you can get over him
i hate to say it, but there isn't.
let fate take it's course. eat lots of chocolate and just try to relax.
him and that girl prolly won't last long.
he'll be back hun, it's ok!
and if you tell him how you truely feel, then you'll feel a lot better and maybe you'll be friends and then work up to a relationship!
Good LucK!
if you need anymore help, let me kno!
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well i had sex with some guy .. but no just some guy i dated him for three years on n off .. you could say he was my first love in fact he was my first everything .. we still have a thing for eachother .. so a couple weeks ago we had sex n didn't use a condom cus he likes it better but he pulled out before he busted at least i hope .. well the problem is i was supposed to have my period like prolly bout a week ago .. i am soo scared i don't no what to do .. n if i was pregnat i would never be able to look my mom or dad in the face again cus i would have let them down .. could you give advice maybe .. THANKs
oh yeh i am 15 female thanks =\ (link)
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well --
If you have a cousin that's a girl or an older sister you can trust, ask them to get you a pregnancy test. take the test, and if you ARE pregnant, tell the guy and then your parents.
They will be dissappointed for a little while, but it will eventually go away.
There are 2 options -- keep the baby, or put it up for adoption. ABORTION = NO!!!!! Your killing the baby that way. if you keep it, or put it up for adoption, it can have a good life with you or another family. whatever one you think is best. it is a very long emotional train tho.
I'm 15 as well -- my OLDER sister is 19 and has a 6 - 7 month old baby girl named Neveah. My sister was 18 when she got pregnant and 19 when she had her. The baby was born 6-6-04, my older sister was born 6-4-85, and i was born 6-2-89. So that right there is unique.
Try not to sweat it. They may be dissapointed, and then again they may not. Try to prepare yourself for the worst tho, cuz then you won't be so shocked or whatever. Your young true, and have your whole life ahead of you. But these things happen everyday
Everyone's parents have different veiws. When and If your parents get a grandchild to love and cherrish -- that is when you decide if you made the right decision. Of course, if you are pregnant and you keep the baby - it's by by partying..... =/.. but that can be a good thing. if your pregnant, i'm sure you'll be a GREAT mom!!!
Hope i helped...
if you need anything else
let me kno!!
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there is this one person who i know who constanly wants to hang out with me but i don't like her. she always calls me and will never stop asking me to come over. i REALLY don't like this girl. how should i break it to her that i don't wanna hang out with her. also how do u deal with boyfriends that only want one thing from you? p.s. what happens if u wanna beat that one girl up?? she always is annoying me. peace out. o yea i am 17 years old and a female.
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well -- sumtimes the truth hurts -- you have to be honest with that person who is annoying you and being retarded =D
as far as the guy goes -- when guys only want one thing from you, they are a little boy!!! they are not a man. Therefore, they aren't worth your time, PLUS -- if all he wants is one thing, what are you doin with him? is he really worth your time if all he was is prolly sex?
my friends say girls get emotionally attached to the guys they sleep with. i'm not takin that chance....
hope i helped!
if you need anythin else, let me kno!!
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i have been going out with my boyfriend for a little while now.. we were really good friends before we started dating and he is so awesome. he lives down the street from me and comes over alot and my parents like him. but they are really overprotective so i havent told them that i am dating him yet. im really worried about what they would do because i dont want them to stop letting him come over and stuff.. i meet his parents the other day and they think im a good person & his mom want to take us to a movie. but im afraid that when she meets my mom she will tell my mom that i am datin her son. so i dont no if i should tell my parents or not? what do yall think? i will rate 5's
ps. my sister knows that we are goin out but is waiting for me to tell them. (link)
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you should break it to your parents gently and when they are in a SUPER good mood!! that's what i always did. My dad is really protective of me and whenever i get hurt he likes to try to hunt down the guy and bitch at him, but anyways. Go ahead and tell your parents, if they like him and his family likes you -- then your ok! they can't stop liking him just cuz your dating him, in their heads i bet their asking themselves why he is over all the time, dontcha think? LoL
HOpe i helped huN!!
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Okay i go out with this guy ... we have been together for a little less than a month but I have liked him since like september .. Well i dont know like since i got on break for school i just havent wanted to talk to him at all .. I mean he got me a really cute christmas present and hes sweet and everything but I'm not sure if we ya know like "click" ... I want to break up with him i think but tha last time i broke up with a guy we had been together for 5 months and i just felt i didnt like him n stuff but now hes happy with his new g/f and i regret it badly and i dont want to break up with my current b/f and regret it too ... what should I do? Please help -XoX- (link)
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follow your heart. you may regret it, you may not.. either way -- it is how god wanted it to be... not to be all religious or anything..
if you don't feel a "CLICK" anymore or if your questioning it, talk to your friends and ask them what they say when you two are together, your friends always tell the truth -- but see if they all are ok with him, like if they hate him, don't take their opinion seriously, ya kno what i mean?
just take it a day at a time and advice by advice. you'll figure it out sooN!! =D
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erm hey... i guess i really need help..i cant stop cutting myself i can not see the real colour of my skin on my arms now they are totaly coverd in purple and blue scars everything depresses me and i cant handle the smallest things i get so caught up with things that i just go for the knife and cut..i've lost many friends for this and been called so many things half the time its what people say to me ''why dont you just fuck off and kill yourself slit your wrist like you do you know like a good goth'' and 99% of the time i do ..im so weak i'm not good for anything..but i really need help too stop if someone could plz help me?? thanks ^.^chok^.^ (link)
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i know what your goin thru, i cut myself too... it is really hard to stop doing. my arm isn't totally covered, but it is damn close. I can't really handle the smallest things. I know this sounds dumb, but ask your parents if you can start seeing a counsler. They aren't as bad as they sound, i have one. Sure, every time i go i have sumthin new wrong with me, but that's besides the point. They can't put you in one of those institutions without your parents and YOUR concent, that's why i'm not in one, but -- just go to your parents, ask for a counsler, and see where it goes from there. They really help you, I PROMISE!!
hope i helped
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oh my god! rachie! you got to help me out! okay so my ex boyfriend of like a year.. i just found out that he likes this friend of mine. i dont think i have any feelings for him anymore but for some reason i just dont want anything to go on between them. what should i do?!?!?!? (link)
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well, tell your ex of a year the truth. and is this friend of yours your best friend? and if you don't want anythin to go on between them, that's totally NORMAL! don't wory about it. just tell both of them if not just your ex the truth, if he doesn't respect it, then he isn't worth it then. And if your friend starts to date him, and knows how your feeling, then that friend isn't a true friend!...
hope i helped!
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I really need some help. For the past almost 6 years of my life, i have been looking at porno. I am addicted. It is literally ruining my life. It takes time away from my hobbies, my family, and my relationship with God. Can someone please advise me on how to stop this addiction? Please dont ban this question either. I truely need help (link)
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you just need help period buddy. i don't kno why you get pleasure from that.. but ICK! girls just sell their bodies.. BLOCK THE FUCKIN' SITES YOURSELF.. DUH! NOT rocket science..
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ok now the last gf i had didnt work out but i got another one and we were going out for about a month and now were taking a break but we have alot of fights and one time we got in a huge fight and i kicked her out of my house we eventually made up the same night but now we are on a break and we are fighting even worse than before i even called her a perra which means bitch in panish as you know and i dont know what to do anymore rachifer can you help on this one i really need it more than before
-thnkz
-love hunter (link)
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Why of course Sir. Hunter!! i'd love to help you. First i'd like to say sorry for the fights your having with your girlfriend. it's gotta be hard!!! you still in hastings? or did you move farther from me *tear*. LOL. But anyways. Umm, since your on a break, your bound to have more fights.. hate to say it, but i kno from experience. just sit her down and tell her how you feel, and give her a chance to say how she feels. callin her a perra wasn't nice, but it was just your anger. calmly and rashionally talk to her and apologize. . . we girls love that sort of thing. LoL. and i hope for the best. You can come to me for anything
Love you man!!
- Rachifer
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Rach, I feel like the worst person in the world.. Steve hates me! and I don't know why.. he said he started to not wanna be my friend like a week ago.. he wont tell me what I did.. or why he feels like that.. he says it is for me to find out! I don't know what I'm gonna do with out him as a friend! You kno how much he means to me.. I feel like I might just give up and die with out him talking to me! I guess my question is.. what can I do to get over him not being my friend?? (link)
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don't worry sweetie.
i kno what your goin thru with the christina thing. and yah. i kinda feel like that is happening with other people -- just not just like it. well
keep your head up!!
- Rachie
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hey my question is me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 weeks the first week was fine but now my girlfriend like never wants to talk to me and when im hanging out with her she turns away and walks toward someone else she hides her feeligns from me and i just dont know what to do plz help me rach
love,
hunter (link)
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Hunter --
My Main Man! =D haha! i'll help you buddy! after all, i am the one and only rachifer! =D haha!
well --
hmm, your a very funny person, and very romantic at times (so i've been told =P), so just put on your charm and funniness on her whenver your with her. she'll see what she's missin when she walks away and hides her feelings.
she could be shy now or sumthing. Or thinking its just too good to be true.
If all does fails, just tell her what you've been noticing. Girls aren't that sensitive. just more sensitive than guys!
Hope i helped!
Love you man!!
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AHHH I have no question for you.. I just wanted you to know that YOU ROCK!! WhOoP wHoOp. today is a good mood day!! you rock rach, I don't know what I'd do with out you!!
-Dana
Yes Random I know sorry! (link)
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thanks dana!!
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i really like my best friend but i dont know how to tell him cuz i dont want to ruin wat we alreadii have...hes like my goofy brother but ive liked him for soo long! what do i do! thanks! (link)
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be honest with your heart. you should tell this boy exactly how you feel. ask him if it makes him feel uncomfortable,and ask if it makes the relationship wierd!
hope i helped
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whenever i walk my left ankle always seems to click! its really loud and people say i should get it checked out, but the thing is it doesnt hurt at all!! what do you think i should do? (link)
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i would say listen to the people who are telling you to get it checked out. It doesn't have to hurt for sumthin to be wrong.
i felt the same way about my middle finger... it clicked whenever i bent it, and yet it didn't hurt. And what i was doing was chipping my bone, and eventually, i broke my finger.
hope i helped!
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i to ld some of my friends that i am bi when im not.. it was just a test and now they are going on and on and on about it!! the only thing i can resort 2 is suicide!!!!!!!!!! i have tried and failed!! what to i do to feel better abotu my self and stop the rumors?!
Thanx
(*)_Lotsa_Luvs_(*)
*NiCeTtE*
Age:13
Gender:F (link)
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well
first off - - suicide is NEVER the answer... don't EVER try to kill yourself! i've tried and failed too, but now! i'm happier and i really love life!!
second off - - tell your friends you are truly NOT bi, you just wanted to see thier reaction. besides that, they shouldn't be going on and on about it!
Third off - - hang in there. If i'm 15 and started cutting myself at 13 and am here today and NOT cutting or trying to kill myself, you can do it too!!
Hope i helped =D
Hang In Here and i'm always here for you!
im me on GracieLouGrl (AIM)
and tell me how it went
oh! and please rate my advice! =)
Much Love
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Ok, here's the deal.. I like this guy we've been friends for a while.. I've told him that I liked him before but he had a g/f and he thought that he "lead me on" or in his words "gave me false hope".. well his g/f dumped him like a month ago and I told him that I still liked him.. this time he thinks it will bring us closer.. well what he said is "like last time, i felt bad that i gave u flase hope, but now i don't feel that, and wit that we could work 2 fix watever and be better friends".. I don't quite understand what he is saying.. can you help?? (yeah I do understand that he is saying he doesn't like me tho!)
-Molly (link)
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Molly - -
he isn't saying that he doesn't like you, he is saying that this could bring you two closer, which means a possible dating discussion! don't worry, just relax and let faite take it's course!
good luck
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* Rach
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Hello! I have this boyfriend and we have been on and off for about a month, and every week he breaks up with me for some odd reason......
im not sure what to do......
signed--
off&on-chica (link)
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.... Well..
Tell him about this, see what he says!!
Choose your words carefully tho!
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I've been going out with my b/f for a week, and I don't feel a spark when I'm with him.. he is nice.. but i don't think i wanna go out with him anymore.. and I don't know how to dump him and still be friends!! help please! (link)
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- - ask him if you two can just be friends, make sure you tell him that you don't feel feelings towards him anymore. and ask him not to be mad at you for that. Guys can be really big asses.. so please choose your words carefully!!
much love
* Rach
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