Question Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:53 pm
erm hey... i guess i really need help..i cant stop cutting myself i can not see the real colour of my skin on my arms now they are totaly coverd in purple and blue scars everything depresses me and i cant handle the smallest things i get so caught up with things that i just go for the knife and cut..i've lost many friends for this and been called so many things half the time its what people say to me ''why dont you just fuck off and kill yourself slit your wrist like you do you know like a good goth'' and 99% of the time i do ..im so weak i'm not good for anything..but i really need help too stop if someone could plz help me?? thanks ^.^chok^.^
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? xxpinkeyeliner answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 4:37 pm: I know this may seem like the last resort, but you need to talk to your parents or guardian. I know you're probobly reading this and thinking "Wow, she's crazy" but I'm not. I have a friend that cut and she talked to her school counseler. Talking to an adult is the best thing to do because you can explain what is troubling you and they can help you work through it. If I knew you, that's what I would do. Just explain to someone you trust how you feel and what's going on because you are cutting. If you want to put a stop to this, I reccomend talking to a counseler or relative. Good luck!!
Erinn_the_bamf answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 4:25 pm: Ask your parents if you can go to a consuler. Or even in school just go to your scholl's consuler. You can't keep doing this. And when someone says that to you just say something like "why don't you be a good little (some word) and go annoy someone else." I hope I helped! [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
Ix3u704 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:37 pm: first of all, STOP! i know its really hard but i have this friend whos best friend almost died from cutting because she hit a vein. u don't want that to happen. this is really unhealthy. [ Ix3u704's advice column | Ask Ix3u704 A Question ]
HeLpInYoOoUt answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:13 pm: i had a friend like that.but listen or read..lol..cuttin your wrist does not solve anything nor does it make yur problems any better.its all mentally in your mind if something goes wrong you cut yourslef instead you should handle this problem by doing other thing that you enjoy. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FUR A REASON..so dont run away from your problems be strong because something worse could happen in the long run.good luck and keep your head up. to be honest those are not true friends if they jus left u they shuld of helped u out! [ HeLpInYoOoUt's advice column | Ask HeLpInYoOoUt A Question ]
nUtCaSe answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:45 pm: Its hard to make it stop but you need to to get your life and friends back.Find another way to channel the anger you have.Talk to someone though they have been pushed away by telling them what keeps happening it will make them understand why it has happened.Good Luck. [ nUtCaSe's advice column | Ask nUtCaSe A Question ]
br0ken_x_smile answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:26 pm: let yourself heal and wear a rubber band on your rist.. when you feel like cutting yourself pull on it and it will snap to your skin.. its better than having permanent scars
hope i helped
jessie xo -;- [ br0ken_x_smile's advice column | Ask br0ken_x_smile A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:05 pm: if its that bad you shoukd have enough will power to stop. but its pretty fuckin sad if you dont. take some prozac. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
RachiE07 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:03 pm: i know what your goin thru, i cut myself too... it is really hard to stop doing. my arm isn't totally covered, but it is damn close. I can't really handle the smallest things. I know this sounds dumb, but ask your parents if you can start seeing a counsler. They aren't as bad as they sound, i have one. Sure, every time i go i have sumthin new wrong with me, but that's besides the point. They can't put you in one of those institutions without your parents and YOUR concent, that's why i'm not in one, but -- just go to your parents, ask for a counsler, and see where it goes from there. They really help you, I PROMISE!!
hope i helped <3
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redneckwomen answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:47 pm: i understand what youre goi through but its not the answer trust me! you need help and not alot of people can get it but youre first step should be wanting the help if you do then there are ways of gettin it im me sometime ~biggredslilsis~ [ redneckwomen's advice column | Ask redneckwomen A Question ]
Playboy_bunny4420 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:23 pm: Hey hunnie i used to be a realy big cutter do but i stoped....like with me i crave to cut all the time but i dont because i made a promise to my boy friend and that is how i stoped but i want to all the time i just cant break a promise...but if there is ne one who you realy love you should try making a promise to them and like that could be one of ur goals is to keep it..every once n a while i grab a rubber band if i realy have to and i snap it till i feel that im feeling better...but if you ever need to talk to some one about ne thing at all i will be here im me babi beautifulx3..or e-mail me courtney_danielle_x3@yahoo.com....n i will do what i can to help you... [ Playboy_bunny4420's advice column | Ask Playboy_bunny4420 A Question ]
BeFABULOUSxo answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:23 pm: jus sit back and think of all the good things.. sounds corny i no but heyy itll work. jus give a best friend the knife(s) try talkin to your parents or a phyciotrist (sry idk how to spell it lol) good luck!!!! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!* [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
BrokenHeartedLoser answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:22 pm: Aww..thats really sad..people are just gay..and if they were your real friends they would stick with you and try to help you through this stage that you are in right now..I would get some counsling and you really have to be serious about wanting to stop..i hope everything turns out good for you. xOx Tory [ BrokenHeartedLoser's advice column | Ask BrokenHeartedLoser A Question ]
zaera answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:08 pm: you should not worry people want you to live but you have to set a goal [a goal is not killing your self] by the way you spelled totally wrong ok? [ zaera's advice column | Ask zaera A Question ]
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