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ok, now this is a kind of weird question, but i'm just not sure.
my boyfriend loves me alot, and i used to think i loved him too, but things have just faded and i don't see him the ways i used to. when he tells me he loves me, it's just annoying, when it used to be romantic. but the worst part is, is i never see him! could that be why my feelings are fading? (link)
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:0 i know who this is! lol..well yea it probably is..i mean..its really hard to have a long distance relationship when you only get to see him once a week..my adivice is tell him how you feel..dont tell him what he wants to hear..tell him what you feel..xOx
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please help me. my ex-boyfriend, who i just broke up with yesterday, is now all of a sudden going out with my best friend!! i have no idea what to do, any advice? (link)
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I could see you being upset if he broke up with you to go out with your best friend..becuase ive had that happen to me before and it was upsetting..but you cant really say anything if you broke up with him..but still your friend should have asked you how you felt about it first xOx tOrY
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Alright well . . I'm 14 and I'm going out with this guy Adam and he's 17 . . we get along wonderful and we never have fights . . When were around eachother its really easy going and I feel like myself . . the thing is everyone tells us the age difference is making our relationship fake and un realistic? I don't know what to think but I'm afraid it's going to tear us apart?
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Age is just a number..no matter what anyone says
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Damn Tory, thanks alot!! i never knew smaller tamps would work.. love ya! - Emily haha
Sorry i just wanted to ask that but yea you give some goood advice! (link)
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Lol anytime em
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Hi, i was wandering, when you put a tampon in and you just barely get it up there and it hurts really bad... does that meen that you need a smaller one?? (link)
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Yes it all depends on the size becuase all girls are different..some girls are really tight and some girls just arnt..so yes try getting a smaller size..it is normal for it to hurt so dont think anything of it..xOx Tory
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Im 14/f. Theres this guy I have been talking to online for about 6 months, I know him from school and first started talking to him when he liked my friend to set them up. Well we've been talking for a while, and he doesnt like my friend (never did) and he recently said he wanted to talk more at school and asked me why i never said hi to him in the halls. And yeah... I've fallen for him. Hes really smart (gradewise), and although he is a lot shorter then me hes got a great personality. But theres one catch, he smokes weed. Not just once in a while. A LOT of weed. 1. Do you think hes interested in me (please be honest) and 2. Is it ok to go out with a potsmoker (does it taste bad kissing.. etc.?)
I rate 5's for really quick good answers.
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Well..hmm i cant tell you if he likes you so i think you should ask him on your own...and if he is really smart gradewise yet still does weed..then maybe you should talk to him about it if you dont like it..it doesnt reallly taste like anything when you are kissing someone who does pot..lets just say it doesnt exatcly taste like winterfresh hope i helped
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I really really wont to ask this guy out but we really dont talk that much and he always goes out with the popular Girls I dont really know if I should get over it or what plz help
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I say go for it, who knows he might like you and you will never know unless you give it a shot. xOx Tory
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erm hey... i guess i really need help..i cant stop cutting myself i can not see the real colour of my skin on my arms now they are totaly coverd in purple and blue scars everything depresses me and i cant handle the smallest things i get so caught up with things that i just go for the knife and cut..i've lost many friends for this and been called so many things half the time its what people say to me ''why dont you just fuck off and kill yourself slit your wrist like you do you know like a good goth'' and 99% of the time i do ..im so weak i'm not good for anything..but i really need help too stop if someone could plz help me?? thanks ^.^chok^.^ (link)
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Aww..thats really sad..people are just gay..and if they were your real friends they would stick with you and try to help you through this stage that you are in right now..I would get some counsling and you really have to be serious about wanting to stop..i hope everything turns out good for you. xOx Tory
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Ok heres the story,Christmas day is when everything started...my whole family cept for me started fighting, my brother and his friend was over here and my mom started in on my brother and my brother ended up cutting his wrist, blood was running down his arm, i also cut myself that day because i was upset with everything thats been happeneing lately, when i cut my arm i blacked out, and well the story goes on, yesterday and today my parents have been fighting and i mean seriously fighting, my brother and his friend left yesterday and got one of their friends to come and pick them up and after they left my parents started fighting and have been fighting all day today and i cant take it no more, they were fighting so bad my mom was hitting my dad they spit on eachother, one of em pushed the other into the christmas tree and it broke at the bottom and everything on it droped on the floor and broked as well, and they wont stop fighting, i tell them to stop and they wont...they wont listen to me, i told them maybe they do need to get a divorce if they're gonna fight this much because there aint no sence in em being together if they are gonna fight 24/7 and i dont know what to do i cant take it anymore, i wanna get out of here but i have no where to go, no one wants me, and i have no one to talk to about any of i because i have no friends and i dont know what to do...the thoughts of my running away crossed my mind but i wouldnt have anywhere to go and its to cold outside to run away...so if anyone has any advice to give me please do...i need all the advice i can get, sorry this is so long, Thanks to who ever takes the time to read this and send me their thoughts. (link)
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Man i hate these kinda situations, i am really sorry i hope things will get better for you. Have you tried calling a close neighbor or relitive such as your grandparents or something to see if you could come and stay with them while things are still a mess at your house, dont run away becuase thats whats wrong with people today they run away from their problems..but eventually they will hav eto face them again..so just try to deal with it all now and i am sorry! xOx Tory
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Im 13 and me and this dude had sex w/ out protection adn well of course i got pregnat....and yes i am a blonde and i didnt really think it would matter and i dont no if i sohuld tell my parents cvause they are really christian....
what shall i do
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Wow..well there is really no other way to get out of it..you have to tell someone..you can just not tell your mom and then when you are about to have a baby say "oh yea mom by the way im pregnet" I would tell her as soon as possible that way she knows before anything bad might happen..wheather they are christian or not..you know you did wrong..and you should beg for their forgivness. xOx Tory
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well me and my friend went to wall mart and stole...and got caught but she blamed it on me and made my poarents pay for the shit she did and i dontr wnat ot tell my mom nor dad cause it will get her in trouble and i dont want to and she says that she will always be there for me....is she telling the truth or is she useing me
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shes spoiled and boses me around liek im her slave...
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Oh sweety get rid of her! That is not what a true friend is..a true friend is someone who has always got your back..someone who would take the blame FOR you not blame it ON you..i would defantly tell your mom becuase hat is just not right!! xOx Tory
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Im 14/f. Theres this guy I have been talking to online for about 6 months, I know him from school and first started talking to him when he liked my friend to set them up. Well we've been talking for a while, and he doesnt like my friend (never did) and he recently said he wanted to talk more at school and asked me why i never said hi to him in the halls. And yeah... I've fallen for him. Hes really smart, and although he is a lot shorter then me hes got a great personality. But theres one catch, he smokes weed. Not just once in a while. A LOT of weed. 1. Do you think hes interested in me (please be honest) and 2. Is it ok to go out with a potsmoker (does it taste bad kissing.. etc.?)
I rate 5's for really quick good answers.
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Well if you guys have been talking for over 6 monthes..you have probably learned to trust him..and if you really think he likes you then i would go out with him..and with him smoking pot..i've gone out with a few boys that have smoked pot and its not a horrible taste its just not the greatest taste in the world..i totally hate pot..i have done it twice and that is it for me however i dont have anything against people doing..but if you are like me and dont like the crap but want him to be safe and want him to stop then just talk to him and maybe he will try to stop. I hope i helped. xOx Tory
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I don't know whats wrong with me. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I really do love him, and I know he loves me even more. But lately I've felt like things are just kinda drifting between the two of us. Like- it's not how it used to be. I feel like a jerk too because when I ask him if he's been feeling different lately- he always says no and that he never would ever think of breaking it off with me. Then I feel stupid for thinking things aren't working out. I know I love him, he's the cutest guy ever and he treats me pretty good. I am happy with him, but then why am I feeling like something isn't right? Am I just thinking too much or what!? Please, whats my problem?! (link)
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Obviously if you have been with him for 2 years you guys must have a pretty strong relationhship, maybe you are feeling like he is to good for you and you think he can better than you but you still want him to stay with you..i wouldnt worry about the feeling you are feeling now becuase if you love him and he loves you things will get better. xOx Tory
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I have this freind and I have known her for about 2 years now. She is getting to be very braty and braggy. She is sooo spoiled and gets everything she wants. And like just the other day she was like complaining about the number of presents she got. I am so sick of putting up with her. But we have like a group of people ( about 7 ) and we do everything together. I dont know what to do, becuaes it is impossible to avoid her! Please help, I rate! (link)
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I would just tell her straight up that she has to get her act up or you two cant hang out anymore..it will most likely make her relize how she has been acting and maybe she'll stop. xOx Tory
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ok, i have a boyfriend and his name is Chris(and i have had sex with him already), but the other night his brother(Donavan) was sleeping at his house, and me and donavan got really comfortable and me and donavan slept together. and i want to tell Chris but i am scard to. What should i do? (link)
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Wow, uhh you have to tell him. There is no other way you have to come straight out and tell him what you did and even though i really think what you did is going to hurt him..do you really think it was worth probably loosing your relationship to his brother? --Tory
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okay im with this guy. i REALLY like him a lot and everything and im into being active with a guy like making out and everything. i've given head and been fingered and made-out with a guy before all in one night and it was my frist time for everything, but im not sure if my boyfriend right now is into all of that. He said he's eaten a girl out,fingered, and made-out, but i was talking to this other guy (that im kinda interested in) and he said that he probably wouldn't do anything with me. BUT my problem is..i really want to do stuff with this other guy and we've talked and everything..and decided that if we do mess around, neither one of us is going to tell anyone else. Im not sure what to do. I really like my boyfriend, but i REALLY wanna mess around with this other guy! Would it be bad for stuff to happen and noone find out? ahh. (link)
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Yes that would be bad, maybe your boyfriend just isnt ready to go to the next step..but then again maybe he is. Have you tried talking to him and asking him if he is ready to do stuff? Dont just assum that he doesnt want to becuase if you do decide to do something with the other guy someone WILL find out and your boyfriend will most likely find out as well. You cant rewind time so if you really care about your boyfriend dont do anything to mess up your relationship. xOx Tory
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what is a good way of convincing your parents to get you a pet!!!!(((other than puppy eyes or making a deal with them, already tried))) (link)
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Try to explain to them that you are responsible..start off with something small like a fish or something and after you have proved to them that you can handle that take a step forward. xOx Tory
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ok, i really want bangs. i have long blonde hair and i think it would wrap the look up. people say i should but then there is someone called my MOM who says i cant! it pisses me off because she doesnt let me do anything to my hair! how can i convice her? (link)
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I would try to tell her that it is your hair not hers and that you should be able to do what you want with it. xOx Tory
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I just got spacers about 4 hours ago. I felt just a pinch when I got them on but now they hurt so much I cannot bite down. On Jan. 12 I will be getting braces. I am wondering are they going to hurt more then the spacers, and how can I relieve the pain. Thanks in advance. (link)
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I have braces and yes spacers hurt like heck!! When yhou get the actual braces on they will hurt for about 2 days, advil! Thats what i take and the pain is gone..for a few hours anyways. xOx Tory
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i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
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I think you need to scare him a little bit..if he honostly doesnt want to loose you then you tell him that either he starts to trust you or you two are over..love is all about trust and if there is no trust then there is no love. xOx Tory
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