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My name is Fawn and I have been married for 2 1/2 years. I am a Christian, and like to think that I am a good listener. I hope to go back to college this year and eventually earn a my masters degree in psychology. It has been a dream of mine for many years now to be in an occupation that I can help people and receive the peace that will come with knowing that I am doing something important with my life. My husband and I lived in Virginia for a year and a half and we are looking forward to getting back there after I finish my education. I love dogs, music, books, travel and photography. Most of my time is spent with my church family, my immediate family and my wonderful husband.



Be nice and I will be nice. Be rude and I will be rude. Ask my opinion and that is what you will get. I am open minded and honest and I give and expect respect.



I am check my inbox daily so send me a question and I promise (excluding personal illness or family emergency) that I will respond quickly. Take care and I hope to hear from you soon!


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you have recently answered a question for me and I would really like to thank you for the time that you spent doing this for me .

You are most certainly welcome. I hope that the advice was helpful. Please contact me anytime that I can help you. I am always here. Take care of yourself. Best Wishes Always!

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My father passed away on Feb 26...I had a dramsbout him afew days back and in my dream my husband was in it he camt to visit me and stayed.We have been married 18 yrs and have been separated for 3 yrs..I wanna know why he was in my dream when it was bout my father

My uncle passed away a little over a year ago and I still have dreams about him. My take on it is that the dreams are God's way of comforting us when we lose someone that we love. It is different for everyone - some people feel arms encircling them when they are looking at their lost loved one's picture, some people feel as though their loved one is watching over them during a bad part of their life. It is all the same thing in my opinion, God sending down comfort to us in a form that we can understand. He is reminding us that life never really ends, it just goes on to another place to continue its existance.


If you do not believe in God you will not agree with my answer so I will tell you what some psychologists think that it is. The mind plays tricks on us all of the time, showing us memories that we cannot remember or do not want to remember in our waking hours, at night. It is also a defense mechanism, a protection so to speak for the mind, to prevent the stress level from becoming too great for our minds to bear. Our minds are very much like a plug-in outlet in your wall....if you put too much stuff in it at one time it will short circuit and stop working all together. The mind, when too much stress and anxiety is placed on it, will shut down so to speak, creating other forms of reality for itself to exist in....a reality that is much more tranquil than the one that is really there. When we are faced with something that we are really unprepared to deal with (the human mind cannot really comprehend death nor the ending of a long term relationship such as the one that you were in because to the mind it is another kind of death) our minds allow us to dream about a happier time or allows us to create a happier time when the people that we love are with us instead of seperated from us, by death or by choice.


Since I do not know the circumstances of your seperation I can only guess about what happened, if it was an amicable seperation or one that was created by just one party. However, I think that you miss what you had with him on some levels that you might not recognize. That would make your subconcious mind show him to you in a way that was consistant with your former relationship, despite the current lack of it. The present means little to the history in your mind. You know that he is not there, you know the reasons that he is not there and you know about the chances of a reconciliation between you two, but that does not change the history of the relationship that you have stored in your mind. In other words, what has happened has not changed your memories of the way that it used to be.


Maybe you still love your husband. Perhaps you are angry with him. Perhaps he is angry with you and that anger moves itself around in your life. All of these things could cause you to dream about him. It could also be just a strange occurance though without any meaning whatsoever. Only you know what the circumstances are in that area, as I said earlier I can only guess. Having said that, I would not put much thought into it if there was no cause that you can think of for it. About once a month I dream that I am back in highschool having to go through all of my old classes with a lot of people that I never meshed well with. It happens even when I do not see anyone that I attended school with or even when I am not thinking about or talking about my old school days. It is in my memory bank and my mind just decides to create a dream about it.


If I were you I would take the dreams about your dad as comfort and be glad that he is still present in your thoughts. As far as dreaming about your husband, ask yourself if there is any feeling there, in any form that is causing you to think of him. If there is no reason for it, ignore it. If there is, deal with those issues.


I hope that I answered your question. Please contact me again if I have been unclear about something or if I can help you in any way. I hope that everything works out for you. Best Wishes!

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Me and my fiance have been together for going on 3 and half years, that was until Wednesday. We have now split, because I ask him to show me that he loves me more often, because I ask this he blames me for "cussing" at him to much. I know that it is hard for him sometimes to show me this but it is something that I feel that I need, even though I am pretty sure that he does love me. i have never cheated on him or anything to hurt him, he means more than life to me, and will give it all that I have to make sure that he is happy. This is not the first time that we have seperated, and after a few days and does eventually return but this time, my heart is not so sure. Can you tell me what you think will happen to my bf and I. Will you also give me advice on what to do to make sure that this never happens again??

I am going to try to answer this question using my own personal history and just hope that this will be the answer that you are looking for. This split sounds like it is coming from a lack of communication between you and your fiance. He doesnt communicate his feelings for you to you because he is either unable or unwilling to. You are unable to explain to him how important it is for him to be demonstrative in a way that he will understand. For any kind of a relationship to work there has to be open communication and trust. The open communication creates that trust which is the foundation upon which you should base your relationship. Having said that, Im not sure how you will be able to go about creating that kind of foundation. You said that this is not the first time that you two have seperated which leads me to believe that there are greater issues there that go beyond a lack of affection. Perhaps there is something else that you two lack, that spark of chemistry that is nessessary for a relationship to work out its own problems. Perhaps you lack nothing other than full honesty. Lets evaluate that.


Do you feel as though he is supportive of you? Do you share your problems and feelings with him about things inside of your relationship and outside of it? Do you both include eachother completely in eachothers lives? Do you share either common interests or enough sensitivity to one another to share in activities that you might not nessessarily like? If you answer no to any of those questions these are the areas that are leading to the affection problems that you two are having. If you answered yes to all of them, that means that you really have something that you can build on here. Lets go on to the next few.


Do you ever feel neglected, unwanted or disrespected? Do you two ever intentionally hurt one another? Are there any questions about fidelity between you two? If you answer yes to any of those questions, abandon this relationship immediately. It is not healthy and will never be healthy because there is no respect.


I think that as long as the negative stuff from above doesnt apply to this relationship, you have a really good chance of working through this and preventing contention in the future. First thing that you should do is sit down now that you are taking a break and really ask yourself if this is the man that you want to spend the rest of your life with. Can you imagine your life without him? If so, is it a happy one? Do you really love him? Do you want to make this work? Answer those questions before you do anything else. If you do not think that you love him enough to try to make this work, because it might be tough going for a while, you need to walk away. Stay good friends because of your history but walk away from the relationship aspect. For good.


If you do want to make it work, I have one basic suggestion for you. Though you might have tried it before I really think that sitting down with him to have a serious talk is the next step. Allow him to voice his opinions and get him to allow you to voice yours. Share wtih him how the lack of affection makes you feel, what kind of a relationship you want this to be. Listen to him as well, that is very important. Show him the affection that you are seeking and maybe, after time that will make it easier for him to show you the same. It is different for most men because society gears each sex differently. Women are supposed to be soft powder puffs who weep at the sight of kittens and men are supposed to be tough brawny creatures that chop wood for fun. As funny as that might sound, in our society that is basically it in a nutshell. It doesnt have to be that way though. Start with talking, show him through your actions, trust him and love him until he gives you a reason not to. Be supportive of him. After a passage of time, re-evaluate this situation. If it has not gotten any better, chances are that it is not going to. If this is something that you need for you to stay in this relationship, consider leaving it. If things are starting to get better and he shows genuine signs of trying, give it more time. Above all, let him know that you love him but need this and do NOT settle. Realize that your wants and needs in this relationship are just as important as his are and do not give in. Compromise is a good thing, a just thing, but when it involves your self image/esteem it is not. You deserve to be happy. If it is with him, great. If it is not with him, you WILL find someone else.


Think about what you really want. If it is him, seriously talk to him about all of this (after the sufficient cooling off period has passed of course) and give it some time. Keep your needs in front of your mind but dont forget his. See how things change. If they change for the better, wonderful. If they do not, consider walking away. Open, honest communication is the only way to save any relationship and is the only way to prevent these kind of problems from happening again. Do not be afraid or wary of speaking up for yourself and demanding respect and love.


Im sorry that I got so long winded, but that is what it seems that I do lol. I hope that I have answered your question and given you some good things to think about. Please contact me again if I have been unclear about something or if you need any other help. I am always here. Take care of yourself, respect yourself. I hope that this all works out for the best, for you and for him. Best Wishes!

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Does anyone know like any websites that you can go to to get like makeup tips and not google or anything cause i have tried!!thnx tonzzz

ps.i rate hiiiiigh

Here are a few sites for you. I hope that they have the information that you were looking for. Best Wishes!


http://www.cosmetics-central.com/


http://www.ultimate-cosmetics.com/


http://www.lhj.com/home/Makeup-Tips.html


http://www.makeuptips.org/


http://www.beauty-and-makeup-tips.com/


http://beautify.lifetips.com/


http://www.sachacosmetics.com/makeuptips.htm


http://www.cosmeticscop.com/learn/article.asp?PAGETYPE=MAKEUP

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what are some of the best sites out there to make buddy icons??? thx. i rate high!

Here are a few sites for you. I hope that you can use these. Best Wishes!


http://www.buddy-icons.com/


http://www.iconcool.com/


http://www.coolbuddy.com/icons.htm


http://www.icon-creator.net/




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i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God.

There are a few things that I remind myself of if/when I find myself doubting my Savior or worrying about things that are truely in His hands. I hope these things help you.



He knew exactly what you would do in your life, the kind of person you would be, the trials that you would face and the measures of faith that you would claim and He created you anyway.


Every time that you have gotten sick, it has been God that has healed you for He is the great physician, not man.


He promised us that He would never leave us nor forsake us, despite all of the times that we hurt Him, His name or turn our backs on His blessings. He will always be there to carry you.


He is still there and will always be there, even if no one belives in Him.


He has proven His love in the most amazing definite way that He could have, His son died for our sins. God loves us enough to have done that for us. Jesus Christ loves us enough to do that for us.


Even if you were the only sinner in the world, Jesus would have died on the cross to save just you.


These things are very humbling to think about yet they are all true and are all refocusing points that we need in our Christian walk at times. It is tough to always do the right thing, to always have 100% faith, to always be the shining example that we should be. It is tough because we lean on ourselves, in our human flesh to be that way. If you rely COMPLETELY on God, He will give you the strength that you need. He will always make sure that you have every thing that you need. He will always carry you, always be with you, always listen to you, always love you. If we keep those things in our minds, and keep our lives turned to always seek God's face, living a Christian life will become simple. Trust in God. Give your entire life over to Him. Do not expect yourself to be perfect. You can't be. You are human and will mess up. Ask for forgiveness when you do and you have a clean slate. Above all, remember His love, His forever love that He will have for you for eternity.


The lyrics that I have listed below are to a wonderful song by The Crabb Family that I listen to whenever I feel doubt beginning to creep in. If you can find it, listen to it. If you cannot find it, just read the lyrics. They give us hope. I hope that everything works out for you. Please contact me anytime if I can be of help. God bless you!



Through The Fire - The Crabb Family

So many times I've questioned certain circumstances
things I could not understand
many times in trials, weakness blurs my vision
then my frustration gets so out of hand
its then I am reminded I've never been forsaken
I've never had to stand the test alone
as I look at all the victories the spirit rises up in me
and its through the fire my weakness is made strong

chorus:
He never promised that the cross would not get heavy
and the hill would not be hard to climb
He never offered our victories without fighting
but He said help would always come in time
just remember when your standing in the valley of decision
and the adversary says give in
just hold on, our Lord will show up
and He will take you through the fire again

bridge:
I know within myself that I would surely perish
but if I trust the hand of God, He'll shield the flames again, again

repeat chorus

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I was wondering what HIV AIDS are. Could you please tell me what it is.

HIV (human immunodeficiency virus) is the virus that causes AIDS. This virus is passed from one person to another through blood-to-blood and sexual contact. In addition, infected pregnant women can pass HIV to their baby during pregnancy or delivery, as well as through breast-feeding. People with HIV have what is called HIV infection. Most of these people will develop AIDS as a result of their HIV infection.A positive HIV test result does not mean that a person has AIDS. A diagnosis of AIDS is made by a physician using certain clinical criteria. Infection with HIV can weaken the immune system to the point that it has difficulty fighting off certain infections. These types of infections are known as "opportunistic" infections because they take the opportunity a weakened immune system gives to cause illness.



AIDS stands for acquired immunodeficiency syndrome. An HIV-infected person receives a diagnosis of AIDS after developing one of the CDC-defined AIDS indicator illnesses, (opportunistic infection.) An HIV-positive person who has not had any serious illnesses also can receive an AIDS diagnosis on the basis of certain blood tests (CD4+ counts). A CD4+ count of less than 200 indicates a severely damaged immune system and an AIDS diagnosis.Many of the infections that cause problems or may be life threatening for people with AIDS, are usually controlled by a healthy immune system. The immune system of a person with AIDS is weakened to the point that medical intervention may be necessary to prevent or treat serious illness. Also, once a person is diagnosed with AIDS, they will always be considered to have AIDS, regardless of clinical changes later on. For example, if a person has HIV and a CD4 count below 200, they are considered to have AIDS. If their CD4 count later goes back to above 200, they are still considered to have AIDS. Today there are medical treatments that can slow down the rate at which HIV weakens the immune system. There are other treatments that can prevent or cure some of the illnesses associated with AIDS. As with other diseases, early detection offers more options for treatment and preventative care.


The information above was taken from the websites listed below. For more information please click on these sites and look around. I hope this information answered your question. Best Wishes!

http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/


http://www.thebody.com/index.shtml


http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/dhap.htm


http://www.aidspartnership.org/faqs.shtml

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does anyone know any good products or home remedies to get rid of dark circles?? thanks... i rate high

Here are a few ideas that I got from doing a search on MSN.


How To Conceal Dark Circles

There is only one way to get rid of dark circles or discoloration under the eyes instantly use a product that covers them up. A lighter shade of regular makeup wont do the job. It must be a lighter shade of makeup made with Mica and Bismuth Oxychloride, which reflects light in your dark areas. The consistency of this special makeup should be lightweight and not oily, so as not to cause a build up of oil in any lines that may be in this area. Apply evenly and sparingly. I use a small makeup brush to apply it as the brush helps smooth it out evenly. You can apply a dark dircle cover directly on the skin itself or over a make up base. Whichever you do, make sure you powder over lightly. This sets the concealer, keeps it from settling into fine lines and gives it a more natural, finished appearance.
Chamomile, and particularly the Camillosan chamomile extract, has demonstrated anti inflammatory action in German studies and even proved comparable in effect to hydrocortisone in treating eczema type skin conditions, according to Commission E Monographs (Derma Es Aloe and Chamomile Skin Soothing Moisturizer are recommended products). Horse chestnut seed extract and vitamin K strengthen the capillaries, and they also show promise as anti-swelling agents (Ester C and K Creme Plus by Jason Natural Cosmetics are recommended products). Dip black tea bags briefly in boiling water, then cool and apply to your eyes.


How to get rid of dark circles permenantly:

Dark circles under the eyes are often related to toxicity in the body. Detoxification of the body, especially the liver, could be helpful. Lack of sleep, allergic reactions to foods, drinks or fabrics, too much alcohol and nutrient deficient diets can cause dark eye circles. Eating foods that are high in vitamins, proteins and blood purefiers(beets) can help you avoid a host of dermotological problems. Lightly tap, with one or two fingers, on and around these areas a few times a day. This will help stimulate needed circulation. Moreover, if you improve your nutritional intake, this tapping will also bring richer blood to these tiny blood vessels. Use an Alpha-Hydroxy Acid cream under the eyes to encourage circulation and stimulation of cells. (Do not put the Alpha-Hydroxy too close to the eye itself, as your eyes may tear, and never on eyelids). This also aids in tightening of the skin itself, which will give the appearance of lighter circles as the AHA plumps up the tissues. Use a rich Eye Cream to nourish these delicate tissues at night.


The information above was taken from these 2 websites:
http://www.informedbeauty.com/circles.shtml
http://www.oleda.com/oleda_tips/index.cfm?ID=23&Ref=dark-eyecircles


I hope that this information has given you a few ideas. Best Wishes!

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ok i have a really bad cold and im coughing and sneezing constantly but i want to know if that affects your vaginal discharge its been heavy lately and i want to know why..i had my period 2 weeks ago so i know its not that..help!

Having a cold can affect your entire body to a point, having excessive discharge is not usually one of them. The following information is taken from WebMD:


A woman's vagina normally produces a discharge that usually is described as clear or slightly cloudy, non-irritating, and odor-free. During the normal menstrual cycle, the amount and consistency of discharge can vary. At one time of the month there may be a small amount of a very thin or watery discharge; and at another time, a more extensive thicker discharge may appear. All of these descriptions could be considered normal. A vaginal discharge that has an odor or that is irritating usually is considered an abnormal discharge. The irritation might be itching or burning, or both. The itching may be present at any time of the day, but it often is most bothersome at night. These symptoms often are made worse by sexual intercourse. It is important to see your doctor if there has been a change in the amount, color, or smell of the discharge.


If you have any of the negative symptoms listed above you most likely have a infection of some sort. If the excessive discharge continues consult your OBGYN or regular medical doctor. Most of these types of infections are easily treated and clear up in a week or so.


If you would like further information regarding this topic you can use this link:
http://my.webmd.com/content/article/10/2953_500.htm


Contact me anytime if I can be of help. Best Wishes!

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hi, I am a 2nd year student of Nursing and right now I'm really confused if this is really the course for me.

I admit that the reason I shifted to nursing (I already took 2 years of BS Psychology) was because I was attracted to the big bucks awaiting in the states, Canada, etc.

But then, after hearing about how stressful nursing is, after being exposed to some nursing techniques and obligations, and just observing some nurses, I think it is rather a boring and stressful job, something that I don't think I would like to get myself into..

What should I do? I don't think my mom would allow me to shift again and all my relatives are so proud of me because they already think I will be a future nurse earning big bucks.... pls help! I don't know what to do...I realized that life is too short to be unhappy, stressed and live "for the money"

There is nothing worse than being a patient and having a nurse that does not want to be there. Though you might not mean to, if you hate it you will take out your agression on your patients. Patients who are there because they are sick and the last thing that they need is someone being mean to them or not giving them the proper care.



If you are unsure about your career decision you really need to take a semester off and explore other fields. Think long and hard about what has interested you in the past, what jobs you have enjoyed doing and what jobs that you would like to learn more about. Research them. Find out how long you need to be in school to do that kind of work, what the work entails, what kind of responsibilities come with it and its pay. Then go find someone who works at that job and ask them to tell you about it. Ask them what the love and hate about it, if it gives them free time to do what they want to in their life, if they bring the job home with them. Use the sememster off to explore all of these things. At the end of that semester (your new life course) make a decision based on the data that you have. If any of those options appeals more to you than becoming a nurse, do not become a nurse.


I know that you do not want to disappoint your family by changing your mind again but this really is one of the most important decisions that you will ever make. It is not something that you should take lightly or allow others to influence. YOU need to find a career that YOU want to do because YOU will be the one working it, not them. If your job makes you miserable then you are the one with the wrecked life, not them. Dont waste precious time in college taking something that you hate to make your family happy then in about 10 years return to college to find your true passion. That is wasting your life and life is really short. Go out there, find your passion and claim it for yourself.


I hope everything works out for you. Please contact me anytime if I can be of help. Best Wishes!

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hey does anyone know any good sites to play games on i am soo bored Febuary Vacation sucks so boring

Here are a few great game sites that I use and that others have recommended to me. Best Wishes!


http://www.gameboomers.com/FreeGames.html


http://www.afunzone.com/branded/game/games.html


http://zone.msn.com/en/root/default.htm?&dr=t


http://www.shockwave.com/


http://www.ubored.com/


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my mom said she would buy me birth control pills and to just tell her if me and my boyfriend are gonna ahve sex because she knows him and she likes him and weve been together for a while...were thinkin about it but i just wanted to know how effective against pregnancy is a birth control pill?? is it safe to use a condom AND birth control at the same time? and should i just tell my mom or just do it behind her back because i heard you have to go to the doctor to get the pills...thats embarassing

For effective pregnancy prevention it is advised to use a condom and birth control if you are going to have sex. Birth control pills are only about 97 percent effective in preventing pregnancy.


I would absoloutely tell your mother before you decide to have sex. You need to be prepared. Condoms bust or leak all of the time resulting in the transference of STD's and resulting in pregnancy. Don't take that risk if your mother is offering to help you.


As far as being embarrassed about going to the doctor for birth control pills, dont be embarassed at all. Doctors prescribe birth control pills all of the time for young women to regulate their periods, control the hormone levels in their blood, to make them have periods, to prevent the woman from having excessive periods, etc. Most of the girls that I went to highschool with were on birth control pills. The women in my family have all on birth control pills due to hormone irregularities that were passed down from woman to woman. I started taking BC pills in my early teens to correct that problem and to regulate my period. There is nothing to it at all, the doctor will not turn it into an embarrasing situation at all, especially if your mother is there with you. It would be much more embarassing to get pregnant, young unmarried and broke. When you go to the doctor ask him/her to give you brochures on birth control pills, the risks and side affects and so forth. Millions of sexually inactive women take BC pills. There are several types of birth control pills that also help control acne and other dermotological problems. Take care of yourself, prepare yourself.


I hope this all works out for you. Best Wishes!

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How long do you think a couple should be together before they get married adn how old do you think they should be?

This is a tough question because it is tough to find an answer that covers all relationships in all circumstances. I think that in MOST cases a couple should date for at least 8 months before discussing marriage. That is a good general rule that gives the relationship time to be tested and the people in it to really know eachother.


I am also of the opinion that a couple should not get married until they are financially able to take care of themselves which excludes most teenage marriage. Financial troubles are the cause of more than half divorces in this country alone. Also, before you get married you have to be mature enough to handle all of the aspects of that kind of a relationship/commitment and I dont think that MOST teenagers can do that. Now, while I say that I do have to say that I know a couple who married as teens and are still happily married, years later and have one of the strongest marriages that I know. The most important things, before considering marriage, is to know beyond all doubt that you love this person, that he/she loves you, that you want to wake up to this person (and this person alone) for the rest of your life, that you can handle all of the problems (health, financial, emotional) that can and will occur in a marriage and that you are mature enough to make that kind of a decision.


One of the most important foundations of a marriage in my opinion is a strong shared faith in God. If you are considering marriage, pray about it with your future spouse. If you are a person of faith, seek God's guidance before you make any decisions. You will be amazed at how much help that guidance really is.


Make sure that you and your future spouse are ready for the commitment. Sit down and go over everything that can happen and make sure you two are prepared for it. Contact me anytime. Best Wishes!

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I am looking for websites that contain the KJV Bible online, searchable. Any ideas? Thanks heaps!!

Here are a few that I found using MSN web search. I personally use the second link. Contact me anytime! Best Wishes!


http://www.biblicalproportions.com/modules/ol_bible/


http://etext.lib.virginia.edu/kjv.browse.html


http://www.hti.umich.edu/k/kjv/

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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)

1- should i tell her (well i did...but i didnt actually do it yet i think i mite have hinted...i asked her if she still liked him and she said no not really just as friends)
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh

To me it sounds like he is interested in you. Since this is a delicate situation I would tell your friend first in a round about way such as "I think he is a really nice guy, very cute and funny" or "Isn't he a sweetheart?". Giving small hints like that, about your feelings on his character, will raise a flag with her. Once she figures this out she will let you know how she feels about it. Respect her feelings but also follow your heart. If she has a problem with the two of you dating try talking to her about it, explaining how you feel and that you are interested in seeing how it turns out. I'm sure that she will be fine with it then. If she still has a problem with you dating him you will have to make a decision. Is he worth upsetting your friend over? Follow your own advice on that question. If you think he is, take the chance. If you aren't really sure that means that you really arent as interested in him as you should be to upset your friend by your relationship. So, in a nutshell, drop hints like I said above to her and when she brings it up to you (which she should) talk about it with her.


As far as how to let him know that you like him, there are several things that you can do. Always look him in the eyes when he is talking to you or you are talking to him. That will make him feel as if he is the only person in the world that you are paying attention to at that moment, making him feel like a king. Flirt with him a little, not overtly but in a playing sort of way (which will give you an out if he doesnt feel the same way back)such as "Your last girlfriend wasnt very smart, letting you get away". Then chuckle. Touching his hands, face, back, arms and walking close to him is another way of showing interest. Body language is a major player in romance. If you sit on a bench with him, sit with your knees turned to him. If you are sitting at a table across from him, lean with your elbows on the table in his direction. Do things with him like go to the movies, go to a park and play frisbee, invite him over to your house for a movie or game night. If you can cook, offer to cook him dinner before you watch a movie or play a game. Listen to his problems and offer to help him, wherever reasonable. Be a good friend to him. That is a huge part of romance too. No one wants to date someone that they could not be friends with.


When guys do things like hit you then laugh, play keep away, make you chase them, try really hard to beat you at a game, etc they are showing you that they are interested in the only way that they know how because with guys who do that, in instances like that, they dont know how else to do it. He might be shy because he likes you or shy because he isnt good with women. To me, I think that is adorable and it makes the guy more attractive.


I hope that I have given you a few ideas on what you should do. Please contact me again if I can be of more help or if you want a deeper explanation on a point that I brought up. I hope that you two get together, without problem from your friend and that you two are happy together. Take care of yourself and have fun!! Best Wishes!!!

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I need advice on some science fair ideas!!!! I need some realy cool looking science fair projects .. it would be nice to have some websites or even ideas for me to look up! Very open and i will rate high for all ideas!!! Thanks a million please help!!!

--/meg\--

Here are a few great sites. I hope that you get some ideas from these pages. Best Wishes!


http://homeworkspot.com/sciencefair/


http://school.discovery.com/sciencefaircentral/


http://www.isd77.k12.mn.us/resources/cf/ideas.html


http://earthquake.usgs.gov/4kids/sciencefair.html


http://othello.mech.nwu.edu/~peshkin/scifair/chias_ideas.html


http://www.cdli.ca/sciencefairs/


http://www.all-science-fair-projects.com/


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I would slow down or limit my visits with her until the rotation is over but not leave her completely. Try to gently explain the situation to her, telling her that you are still going to see her and that this doesnt change anything about your friendship but you cannot see her as often until the rotation is over. You are right, with all people, not just kids, you treat the patient not the disease. If you start to see it the other way, you will become cynical, turning your job into a process instead of a beloved profession. No one likes to go see a completely clinical doctor. Of course, you getting emotionally attached will have its drawbacks if your patients become sicker or die but in the end its rewarding because it does increase your humanity. Don't just take our advice because you are the one in the situation with your career in possible danger. Put serious thought into this. However, if you are taking our advice and using it as a guide, I stand by what I have said: keep the friendship only scale it back until your rotation is done. Explaining it to her (as much as you can) will prevent hurt feelings. I hope this works out for you and for her.

You sound like you will make an excellent doctor. I wish you lots of sucess in your future. Best Wishes!

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Okay this is an overly random question, but it's been bugging me, and I thought someone on here might know! Anyways..

Has anyone watched "the notebook" yet? Well. on it at the end Noah & Allie die together in her bed thing. Like did they just die off because it was a miracle, or did they take something to kill themselves so they could die together? Lol. Thanks alot :)

I think they died naturally and a "miracle" was implied to a point, them being so in love that neither could live on without the other one. That is also a natural fact of life.....usually when a couple is together for a long period of time and one dies, shortly after the other follows. Its as if the grief is too much for their body to bear so their hearts just quit.


As a married woman I have to say that I don't want to outlive my husband so if I had my choice I would die before him or with him if he had to go. Romantic I know. LOL.


If you liked the movie, read the book. It is much better than the movie, more moving and beautifully written. Best Wishes!

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Can you give me a few recipes for chicken, apple pie, filet mignon, brie cheese and a salad. I am entertaining and want to make all of these dishes but I do not want to take the time usually nessessary to cook them all. Help!

If I were you I would do a theme night. Since you did not specify a food type, I will go with my theme suggestion and give you recipies that blend Italian with American fare. These simple dishes are some of my favs, can all be made ahead in the day then reheated and will satisfy your guests. Write me back if I can be of more help. Enjoy and Best Wishes!



Tuscan Chicken
2 pounds boneless skinless chicken breast halves
1 1/2 pounds chicken breast tenderloins
Salt and pepper
3 tablespoons E.V. olive oil
6 cloves garlic crushed and finely minced
3 tablespoons white wine vinegar (regular cider vinegar or rice wine vinegar will be fine)
3 tablespoons butter
2 shallots, chopped
6 sprigs fresh rosemary, finely chopped
3 tablespoons fresh parsley, finely chopped
2 tablespoons oregano finely chopped
2 tablespoons flour
1 cup dry white wine (Riesling works great, wine cooks out leaving flavor)
2 cups beef broth

Heat a large, deep skillet over medium high heat. Season chicken with salt and pepper. Add 2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil, half the chicken pieces, and a couple of the garlic cloves. Brown chicken 2 minutes on each side and remove from pan. Add remaining oil, remaining chicken pieces and garlic. Brown chicken 2 minutes on each side and remove. Add vinegar to the pan. Let it cook off.


Add butter, shallots, oregano and rosemary to the pan and cook 2 minutes, add flour and cook 1 minute more. Whisk in wine, reduce over med-high heat 2 minutes. Whisk in broth and bring liquids up to a bubble. Return chicken to the pan and simmer over medium heat 7 to 8 minutes to cook chicken through. Garnish with parsley.


Can be served with a simple angel hair pasta that has been tossed with butter, E.V. olive oil and fresh parmesean cheese.


**All ovens are different. Keep an eye on your food.



Filet Mignon
6 filet mignon (dressed with bacon)
salt & pepper
3 tablespoons E.V. olive oil


Sauce
3 cups Red Wine (Merlot, Pinot Noir something like that)
2 cloves finely chopped garlic
5 sprigs fresh rosemary
3 tablespoons demi-glace sauce (available in nicer food markets)
3 1/2 tablespoons unsalted butter
salt & pepper



Preheat oven to 375 degrees F.

Season both sides of the filet mignon generously with salt and pepper. In a large heavy skillet (ovenproof), heat the oil over med-high heat until almost smoking. Place the steaks in the hot pan and cook on 1 side, about 3 minutes. Turn the steaks over, there should be a nice crust on top. Transfer the pan to the oven. Roast for 10 to 12 minutes or until the steaks are cooked medium-rare.

Remove the steaks to a platter; cover to keep warm. Return the pan to the stove over medium-high heat. Deglaze with the wine, scraping up all the bottom of the pan. Mix in the demi-glace, stirring to combine. Add garlic and rosemary. Reduce for 10-15 minutes over med-high heat. Put the steaks back in the pan and coat in the pan sauce. Finish with the butter. Put the steaks on serving plates and cut off the butcher's twine from the filets. Pour the wine sauce on top.


Brie

1lb Brie wheel
2 1/2 tablespoons honey
3 teaspoons almonds
apples
pears
crackers
french bread


Preheat oven to 375 degrees F.

Score top of brie (not cutting down more than 1/8 of an inch into the cheese) making 8 cuts.

Place brie in an oven safe dish. Top with honey and almonds. Bake for 8-14 minutes (depending on oven).

Serve with slices of apples and pears, crackers, sliced french bread. *Fresh Cut Veggies make a nice treat too.*



Spring Salad

4 hearts of Romanine, cut into bitesized pieces
1/2 red onion sliced thin (1/8 inch thin)
1/2 cup Gouda Cheese
2 stalks celery, cut into bitesized pieces (1/4 inch)
4 medium tomatoes chopped, seeded
1 cup mandrin oranges
1/2 cup sliced peaches & strawberries
1/4 cup sliced almonds


Combine and toss with a light Balsamic Vinagrette.



Apple Pie

2 Pillsbury ready made crusts
6 apples (red are better)finely chopped
3/4 cup sugar
1 tablespoon cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon nutmeg
2 tablespoons flour
2 tablespoons butter


Preheat oven to 375 degrees F

Combine apples, cinnamon, nutmeg, flour, butter and sugar. Toss to coat apples. Place 1 crust in a buttered pie dish. Fill with apples. Brush water on crust edge, place second crust on top. Press down firmly, flute with fork. Cut 4 slits (over an inch long) into crust top. Brush top with water, sprinkle with sugar. Bake for 50 minutes to an hour, depending on oven.



The apple pie can be made up to 2 days in advance.

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My mum told me today that she had been diagnosed with breast cancer. She will have to have an operation and go through radiotherapy. I'm so worried- she will have to be in hospital for 4 days then go once every day. I'd be thankful for any information about the symtoms of radiotherapy and cancer, ways to make her feel better about it and any other things that would be useful. Thank you.

Below is information that I found about chemotherapy and radiation therapy at WedMD. If you want further information just click on this link : http://my.webmd.com/hw/breast_cancer/ncicdr0000062955-general-information-about-breast-cancer.asp


I have 2 aunts who are breast cancer survivors. One had to have surgical intervention plus chemo and the other just had chemo. Both have been in remission for decades. You mom will be sick after the chemo/radiation, she might lose her hair (not everyone does), she will be rather lethargic due to the treatments and anemia resulting from the treatments. To cheer her keep her from talking to anyone who annoys her on the phone or in person. You and your family can split up the household chores (if it is just you and her ask a friend or extended family member to help). Tell her stories about other women who have fought this and beat it. Tell her constantly that you love her and are going to be there for her through this, that the two of you will beat this together. Keep your chin up, if you are brave it will be easier for her to be. Go to doctor appointments with her as much as possible so that she doesnt have to go it alone.


I know that it is a tough situation but I have faith that your Mom will be fine. You have faith too.


Contact me anytime. Best Wishes!


Update: Please do add me to your list. You are very sweet. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Mom.

Chemotherapy is a cancer treatment that uses drugs to stop the growth of cancer cells, either by killing the cells or by stopping the cells from dividing. When chemotherapy is taken by mouth or injected into a vein or muscle, the drugs enter the bloodstream and can reach cancer cells throughout the body (systemic chemotherapy). When chemotherapy is placed directly into the spinal column, an organ, or a body cavity such as the abdomen, the drugs mainly affect cancer cells in those areas (regional chemotherapy). The way the chemotherapy is given depends on the type and stage of the cancer being treated.



Radiation therapy is a cancer treatment that uses high-energy x-rays or other types of radiation to kill cancer cells. There are two types of radiation therapy. External radiation therapy uses a machine outside the body to send radiation toward the cancer. Internal radiation therapy uses a radioactive substance sealed in needles, seeds, wires, or catheters that are placed directly into or near the cancer. The way the radiation therapy is given depends on the type and stage of the cancer being treated.

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