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Ohh what to do..what to do i like them BOTH!!
okay im with this guy. i REALLY like him a lot and everything and im into being active with a guy like making out and everything. i've given head and been fingered and made-out with a guy before all in one night and it was my frist time for everything, but im not sure if my boyfriend right now is into all of that. He said he's eaten a girl out,fingered, and made-out, but i was talking to this other guy (that im kinda interested in) and he said that he probably wouldn't do anything with me. BUT my problem is..i really want to do stuff with this other guy and we've talked and everything..and decided that if we do mess around, neither one of us is going to tell anyone else. Im not sure what to do. I really like my boyfriend, but i REALLY wanna mess around with this other guy! Would it be bad for stuff to happen and noone find out? ahh.
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Well talk to your boyfriend about doing sexual things. Otherwise yes it would be really bad..unless u keep it a GOOD secret and let no one find out..but thats going to be hard to do, your just horny. iM me and tell me how things go!!!!!!!!!! i know your situtation ive been put in it before. hope i helped
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Well.. i think you should maybe take a break from your boyfriend at least and not cheat on him. Would you want to be cheated on? I dont think so i would just take a break from your boyfriend and then mess around but word still might get out. doesnt rele matter on how you guys promise its amazing how word gets around-trix
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why don't you just dump him and go out with this other guy...
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I think you should break up with your boyfriend-sorry to say but i think i have to.Or lay off that other guy.Because if you do end up doing somthing with that other guy it will hurt your boyfriend if he finds out!hope i helped please rate xoxo NiCoLe
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no offense......but what are you thinking?! no, cheating is bad. messing around is bad. ESPECIALLY if you have a bf. so what if your bf isn't in to PDA. give him time. you gotta be patient. and bein' patient DOES NOT mean messin' around with another guy. sorry if i freaked a little, but i hope i helped!
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DO NOT mess around with another guy if u have a boyfriend. chances are someones going to spill, hes going to find out, tell othert ppl, and then you'll be known as a cheater. simple enough. im here to chat, IM me (aim) w/ a problem anytime, takemeaway032
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There is no such thing as only two people knowing something. One way or another it comes out. Second it's not bad that you want to do things with this other guy but to be honest, even if you don't tell your boyfriend, in my opinion, it's wrong to do anything with someone else if you in a relationship. That will hurt him even more if and when he finds out.
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People always find out eventually. It's cheating and at some time or another the truth is going to come out. It's a matter of if you want to risk it coming out during your relationship. You could get away with it, but it all depends on whether you are willing to take the risk. It's bad even if no one finds out though.
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Yes that would be bad, maybe your boyfriend just isnt ready to go to the next step..but then again maybe he is. Have you tried talking to him and asking him if he is ready to do stuff? Dont just assum that he doesnt want to becuase if you do decide to do something with the other guy someone WILL find out and your boyfriend will most likely find out as well. You cant rewind time so if you really care about your boyfriend dont do anything to mess up your relationship. xOx Tory
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