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so ive liked this guy for the longest time. we went out for a year and it was great. i was so happy. im not really sure why we broke up. anyways, i cant get over him. i like him so much..more than you could imagine. but i dont WANT to like him. i dont WANT him to be in my mind all day. what i want is to be over him.

any ideas on what to do? (link)
i'd try to open your minds up to any other possible guys. any guys you know that are cute, funny, etc. but you really dont know em, try to get to know em a little better. ask em for help in class or somethin...try small talk...make friends with em...see if you could possibly be interested in them. also...say for example you have a song that reminds you of him. if it comes on the radio or whatever, find something else to listen to. or if you 2 have pics together, try to look at them as little as possible. hope i helped! good luck. guys can be rough but i hope you figure things out.


I have recently been asked to french kiss Barry* by my friend Sara* and i hav been thinkin about it for about aweek now and i told sara that i would kiss him but she keeps forgetting.today i said that iwant a boyf for the hugs and the holdin hands but sara said that i might not get that with barry if she asks him to go out with me. den she says that she knows someone who i would get that kind of love from and den i said who and she wont tell me coz he doesnt want me to know and dat if she told me then i wouldnt kiss him anyway.But i said how will i know unless i know who it is? so now im having 2nd touts about barry coz i only like him a little bit plus if ders someone out der wo iknow likes me for sure then i have to no before i go kissin someone else!!
please help I rate 5s
p.s. any idea how to get sara to spill the truth? (link)
i'd try to reason with her. i mean, i get where you're coming from. you don't wanna make the guy that likes you go away right? but you need to know if he's worth it...right? so just try and talk to her. if she doesn't cooperate...then see if any of your other friends know anything. and as far as barry goes...if the thing with the other guy doesn't work out talk to him. if he wants to go out with you, tell him some things you want out of it. if he wants to date you, i'm sure he'll understand. well i hope i made sense of this question and helped ya out a little! sorry if i misunderstood you at all.


My bf and I started going out a few days ago. Thing is, I am not the most pretty person. In fact, I reaally lack in the beauty department. I am bigger than my bf PLUS I am ugly. I have already heard of assholes staring at my boyfriend and snickering and whatnot. It sucks how these people could possibly break apart a relationship with potential. I mean, who wants to go through this critisism and crap like that? Any tips on how to survive the first few 'judgement' days (or maybe weeks) as a couple? I dont want him to break up with me over something so stupid as this. (link)
beauty shouldn't matter. and even if you may not be the prettiest, he obviously finds you pretty. and everyone has a beautiful quality about themselves that stands out, so maybe he's seen it, cuz i'm sure you do. and as far as everyone else goes, ignore them. they have no right to judge you. talk to your boyfriend about it too. maybe he can help you out. hope i helped, and good luck!


What is the difference between goth, punk and emo? Also, can you be christian and goth, or punk. (link)
yah twisted sisters got it right. you don't label people. why do you want labels?? people will find some way to treat you badly because of it. and you don't just wake up one day and say "hey, i'm gonna be a punk! actually i'm feeling sort of emo" don't think so. people can label you, but its dumb. you can have different types of music taste, etc. and you can be into the punk scene or whatever but don't go around labeling yourself. be YOU for god's sake.


lately, i've felt really sad, and i've felt all alone. i'm 8th grade/f, and i feel like a guy could fill up a space :( what can i do??
-all alone- (link)
well just look around. do you see any guys that your interested in? if thats the case and hes not your friend already then just ask him a question one day like whens that test or whatever and get talking with him. if you don't see any guys that you know ask your friends if they know any single guys. hope i helped!


14+f ...all right.. well I dont like hugging people.. i just dont.. like after achieving something amazing.. or saying hello/goodbye... i just HATE giving hugs and try to avoid them.. like.. i dont know.. I think i'm just afraid... is there like something wrong with me??


-Anti-Hug Person (link)
no your just not as affectionate as some people. its not a crime. hope i helped!


i really want to listen to music but windows media stinks and i would go to yahoo but its not working for me so can anyone please tell me some music websites where you dont have to download the program.. thanx in advance (link)
www.purevolume.com

its an awesome site. not like everyone on it but i bet you can find stuff u like on there


There is this guy and we always talk on the internet (AIM) and I always tell him to come up and talk to me at school, and he says okay he will and I say im gonna hold that up to him. When we are at school and I see him he never says anyting to me he just walks away. I wanna say somthing to him so bad about it but im shy too. I aways catch him looking at me what should I do?
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don't be so shy. this guy likes you and i assume you do to. so just go up and say hey to him. he prolly doesn't say anything cuz hes shy, so your gonna have to be the bold one. hope i helped!


Okay, this may sound really stupid, but I'm serious about asking this question. I'm a girl, I'm thirteen, weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5 foot seven. I'm so tall, and I HATE it! I wish I could stop growing! No offense to tall females, but I think that tall isn't really that flattering for me. My mom is always complimenting me on how tall I am, and I hate it so much! I don't want to be tall! She won't even let me drink coffee to stunt my growth! My doctor said that I might even grow to six feet! I don't want to be that tall! I hate my height already! I'd be happy to be 5 foot four! ARGHH please, is there anything I could do to 'appear shorter' or to stop growing?? (link)
stop growing...not sure. but if you want to look shorter, don't wear heels or tennis shoes with a lil height on them. and get some help from friends or your mom to find clothes that would flatter your tallness and make you feel better about it. hope i helped!


I am 17, 5'11' and 103lbs. I ont know what to do. I need to gain weight. I was just wondering if anyone could recommend anything for me. I am so skinny its disguting. Help Please! (link)
i'd talk to your doctor. he'd probably have some good suggestions about what kinda diet you should go on to gain weight. until then, i'd just make sure that your eating 3 good meals a day. hope i helped!


ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do? (link)
well, i wouldn't switch schools without patching things up. so explain to your friends that you haven't changed, show them. send them an apology card. and, i'm sure you'd rather be poor then lose your friends, right? so try to explain that to them. and as far as hangin' out with the rich kids, if you've had a good relationship with all of them, then try to keep that goin' along with your old friendships. especially your old friendships. hope i helped!


Does anybody know any good love songs, from a girl to a guy. for a long distance relationship?? (link)
this is kinda a love song, but its called Better Off by Ashlee Simpson. its not really specified for long distance, but its pretty much about this girl that meets this guy and her life feels a whole lot better. if you want lyrics for it, go to www.leoslyrics.com and look up the song. its a really sweet song...and it reminds be of someone too. so, it would be a good choice i think. hope i helped!


Im a 15yr old girl, i met this girl on holiday 3 yrs ago, she wrks in a bar and i've been back to the same place 4 times since we first met. We get on extremely well, shes 30 and got a boyf wit a step son who she tries to hook me up with just for a laugh. When im on holiday there i go 2 the pub n we jus sit n chat all day, bout any random stuff. She really nice and when im home i txt her regularly. since my last couple of visits however i think about her alot, most days, not like sexually or anythink jus in a nice way. im really worried incase im like becoming obsessed with her. i count the days till i will next see her, please tell me if this is wierd?! (link)
your not obsessed....you might just like her. but you'll have to be careful 'specially since she has a family. but it just sounds like a crush. nothin' too harmful. hope i helped!


okay im with this guy. i REALLY like him a lot and everything and im into being active with a guy like making out and everything. i've given head and been fingered and made-out with a guy before all in one night and it was my frist time for everything, but im not sure if my boyfriend right now is into all of that. He said he's eaten a girl out,fingered, and made-out, but i was talking to this other guy (that im kinda interested in) and he said that he probably wouldn't do anything with me. BUT my problem is..i really want to do stuff with this other guy and we've talked and everything..and decided that if we do mess around, neither one of us is going to tell anyone else. Im not sure what to do. I really like my boyfriend, but i REALLY wanna mess around with this other guy! Would it be bad for stuff to happen and noone find out? ahh. (link)
no offense......but what are you thinking?! no, cheating is bad. messing around is bad. ESPECIALLY if you have a bf. so what if your bf isn't in to PDA. give him time. you gotta be patient. and bein' patient DOES NOT mean messin' around with another guy. sorry if i freaked a little, but i hope i helped!


im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
i don't think you have a problem. i mean, you've liked this guy for a while and your feelings for him have probably grown. so its probably just somethin' funky goin' on with your feelings. a big crush like that (trust me i know) can effect you in many different ways. hope i helped!


My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...

IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?

Please answer, don't leave me in suspense! (link)
i'm pretty sure that makes the guy straight. there's a chance he didn't know that the girl was a lesbian. so, yeah. i think he's straight. hope i helped!


what is a good way of convincing your parents to get you a pet!!!!(((other than puppy eyes or making a deal with them, already tried))) (link)
tell them that you get lonely sometimes when all your friends are busy. you could also say that you wanna feel more protected when your home alone. hope i helped!


a boy told me something i wont disclose but it was almost a threat. i told my mom who told the principal and he got expelled. that was in october and i still feel bad and guilty. people say i did the right thing but i feel bad!
plus he has my adress and he scares me. i m probably overreacting but o well. i feel guilty and scared. (link)
you shouldn't feel bad. he threatened you and that was wrong. and if you're freaked out since he has your address, talk to your mom and see if there's somethin' you could work out to help you feel safer. hope i helped!


what are sites with aim buddy icons with like lyrics from songs (link)
go to www.iconator.com. then you can just search for the song on the site and usually some come up with song lyrics. hope i helped!


13/f
Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
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you're right, it is stupid. and i know what you're goin' through. you just gotta be patient. i mean, the right guy'll come along and see how great you are. cuz if they can't see how great you are, then they're not even worth it. hope i helped!




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