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well, a while ago, my friend told me that she had been raped by someone in her family. she said it had been happening since she was like 9 and it recently stopped happining. i really care about this person and i want to tell someone about it, but she made me swear not to tell anyone. im really confused on what to do and whether or not to tell someone about it. she doesnt even like to talk about it but im not sure its the 100% truth or not. what should i do?
First you have to find out if it's the truth and who did it. Then You need to tell someone, iwouldn't tell family b/c knowing most parents, they'd be reluctant to ever let you go to that person's house again. I know that your friend will be mad when you tell, but it's the right thing. A good friend keeps secrets like these, but best friends tell so they can help. Trust me. Let me know how it goes.
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hey! i have a problem thats been on my mind for a really long time. this year my bff L has changed alot. she got a boyfriend (and didnt plan on telling me that she got one...i found out 3 weeks later from J) and got really popular. She made friends with J. J was also my friend, so L would tell J stuff. One day J told me that L told her that she (L) stopped liking me and has just been pretending for like 8 months. L says that im immature and laugh at everything. We've never really had a big fight, im too scared for that. J says just snap on her. i dont want to because L nows a lot of people and could get tons of them to hate me, so im trying to avoid that.
So my question is: should i confront L,let it die down, or have a casual "we need to talk??" im really confused. Please help!
I say have a casual "we need to talk". but if you ask me, L isn't worth your time. she sounds awful. I'd tell her that if she's going to continue being this way, that you weren't interested in being her friend anymore. B/c no one deserves a friend like that. Don't snap on her, that'll only start things and people might turn against you. But don't be TOO casual, you have to let her know that you ARE mad and done let her walk all over you. Just say "i dont like the way you're treating me. no one deserves to be treated this way by their best friend and "best friends" dont pretend to like the other for 8 months. So if you're going to continue this, then forget our friendship. I dont like to throw it away but i can't let it go on like this" and leave it at that. I wouldn't let her say anything after that cuz she'll prolly give excuses or deny it. So just leave it at that. Hope i helped!
TEll me how it goes
anyone have any quotes about love and friendship they can give me? thx
http://www.best-love-poems.com/
there's poems and quotes
they're awesome
hope u like them
im going out to eat with my boyfriend and his family (his mom,dad, 2 bro's, and 2 sister-in-laws, and nephew and neice) anyways.. i gotta inpress them... dont know why but i know i do. So were going to applebee's.. im a very picky eater and i dont know what to get. i dont really like burgers and such. Any suggestions?i was thinking matzarella sticks but i dont know if that'd be rude because its a appetizer.. help. i know its dumb but whatever!
Hmm, well just impress them by being yourself. IT'd be a turnoff to them if they realized you were trying to be someone else, even if you were trying to impress THEM. And maybe get a salad, but if you're not really a salad person, just get motzerella sticks. it'd be fine and ha, it'll cost less for them. Speaking of money, be sure to bring money and offer to pay it's polite. Don't get too many drink refills either and i DONT recomend root beer (too much belching. trust me, i know from experiance lol) well, i think that's all i can say except good luck! hope i helped!
13/f
What should you talk about when your on a date or movies etc?? Im always scared its going to be uncomfterable and its going to be silent! please help! i give EASY 5s!
It's a movie, you're supposed to be silent. but maybe if u have candy or pop corn, offer him some or if he has some, jokingly put out your hand and be all "pleeeeeeeeease???". haha, i did that and got a lot of candy. :) hope i helped!
ok this is the thing. i've read about the veet thing. if it doesnt work for anyone, well it might not work for me.
this is the real question.
if you shave your leg, does it get thicker?
i kno this sound so stupid cuz i wasn't allow to shave my dang legs. and just in case i have to do it behind my mom's back...
well i heard it does and gets thicker and stuff...
is it true?
and if you shave, how long does it last?
my friend says her legs only last for like 8 hours
yea, it gets thicker. shaving doesn't last VERY long. but you could prolly get away with doing it every other day.
hope i helped!
Anyone know where I can find some really good quotes?
http://www.best-love-poems.com/
that's poems and quotes
they rock, i love them
my really good friend is moving june 22, and i want to do something special. im not sure i can have a party so...does anyone have any ideas? even if you have an idea for making something would be helpful.
Make a scrapbook
or maybe a calender for the upcoming year.
i know i'd love that. or Maybe get a BIG card and get EVERYONE to sign it saying how much they'll miss her. maybe even all 3! lol
Heyy im already in 10th grade and im only 5'0!! I dont want to be this short anymore!!! Is there any Way i can Grow @ least 3 inches!
i don't think there's any way to actually grow taller. Try heels or sneakers with a high bottom... i dont know if that makes sense. that's all i can really think of. sorry.
hope i helped a little.
is there anything wrong with a bi racial realationship
love is love
cherish it b/c not many people have found it
if it means having one black person and one white or whatever your situation, then so be it.
hope i helped ♥
my bf's bday is 6/7 and i dont know what to get him...we're not exceptionally close but weve been together for 2months. my mom suggested throwing him a party but it wont work out because of a camp im going to the next day. he likes video games and movies and thats the extent of it. thanks!
Get him a movies gift card or gift certificates. or maybe a gift card to a video game store like EB games, or something like that. hope i helped!
does anyone know any web sites to get cute girly'ish quotes to use in yourt firehotquote AIM profile?
p.s. not firehotquotes.com cuz i hate it
&& i already know wittyprofiles.com
i need differant both of those are getting bad
p.s.s ill rate high for anything!
http://www.best-love-poems.com/
that has poems AND quotes
i love this site, i hope you do too!
♥
kay i thkn my whoel family hates me > my mom is acting like she doesnt want me she makes me do all the work in the house. if she could she could probly put me up for adoption. but i kno my dad wont let her. i kno my dad loves me. i want ot run but i ahve no where to go. the rest of my family livies 2 hours away. she acts like she has to take me places > she does it because she has to not because she loves me. i have no clue what to do??? pleaz help me!!!
thanks
Just talk to your mom. Tell her that you dont think that she loves you. Most likely, she'll tell you that she does. Then tell her things that she could do to make it seem like she loved you more. Maybe talk to your dad about it first though.
Hope i helped ♥
on a windows XP personal version how do you make it so you need a password to get into a certian file or folder
Solemnstar
When you're under your name, press start then under the right column, go to control panel. click it then go to user accounts. under "pick a task" click "change an account" click on your icon and name then next to the 2nd green arrow, click "create password" and then you create it. and viola, you got it!
hope i helped!
okay, i got this amazing babysitting offer!
*well the only thing is i'm kinda shy around little kids like 5,6,7 even 8!
And the girl is 7!
How can i over come me being shy?
Just remember that younger kids look up to their babysitters. Just play it cool and act like you want to be her friend. Put on a movie, play games. It'll help.
i just got a turtle and i need ideas for a name
Freddy, i dont know. i just like that name
Hey, someone wrote in my yearbook "i am your distra" what does that mean?!?! only answer if you're positive.
thanks
it's some diff. language. like star trek thingys
OK I am a little young but please take this seriously! My best guy friend, he's 13, his dad died today. He has a heart attack =( well I know he probably doesn't want to talk to me yet but how can I comfort him. I really don't know how to appraoch him. I might write hima letter tellign him how much he means to me and how special hsi dad was... is that a good start? Any ideas.... I want to make this as easy as I can for him. Thanks for your time.
Try giving him a hug, that usually helps. Don't say anything, just give him a long warm hug.
hope i helped!
could someone just please give me a good music site for codes (without the video) I've been asking you guys for specific songs but you guys are giving me confusing answers by telling me to do something with the code..I just want to copy and paste it..not so much effort..thanks!
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music_galore
That site has almost everything!
-Hope i helped! ♥
Does anyone have any advice for taking the sol's? (Standard of Learning)
I used to take those when i lived in Virginia. They aren't that hard. Just relax, dont worry and have a clear mind. That's the only advice i can give you. Eat a good breakfast too.
Hope i helped!