kay i thkn my whoel family hates me << mom sister>> my mom is acting like she doesnt want me she makes me do all the work in the house. if she could she could probly put me up for adoption. but i kno my dad wont let her. i kno my dad loves me. i want ot run but i ahve no where to go. the rest of my family livies 2 hours away. she acts like she has to take me places << i do cheerleading>> she does it because she has to not because she loves me. i have no clue what to do??? pleaz help me!!!
MicahsLilGirl answered Sunday May 29 2005, 5:17 pm: Damn calm down.. i think your over reacting.. Talk to her about how you feel.. maybe something is going on with her and she is all the sudden acting like that.. ♥ Nikki [ MicahsLilGirl's advice column | Ask MicahsLilGirl A Question ]
xxfilmingfrenzyxx answered Sunday May 29 2005, 5:15 pm: OKay, from what i know you have a sister mom and dad. First off i can tell you that your sister is going to be mean to you no matter what. it's like a desease. aolder or younger they have nothing better to do. Don't pay attention to her. Now your mom, it might seem like she hates you and that she wants you out of your life but she might have a lot of stuff going on in her own life right now that she doesn't tell you. If she really hated you she would make you get a ride from other people to go to cheerleading. Don't pay attention to it. Don't let yourself get caught up in the crap that people dish out these days. Focus on your own life, block them out. If that doesn't work come back to me. [ xxfilmingfrenzyxx's advice column | Ask xxfilmingfrenzyxx A Question ]
CrzyLatinaChc answered Sunday May 29 2005, 5:12 pm: Okay... I would tell my mom about this and let her know how you feel. Ask her if she hates you and if she does say yes ask her why. Ask her what you did to deserve this kind of treatment. You have to do this. It will help. As for your dad, try talking him into letting you stay the summer over at your relatives house. No one should get this kind of treatment from their family. I hope it works out for you.
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 4:06 pm: heyy .. okay go to family conselling it helped my family stay together and after that if it doesnt work just call your other family members that live two hours away and have them come pick you up in the night but try the conselling 1st
karenR answered Sunday May 29 2005, 2:56 pm: Mothers don't usually wait this long if they don't want their kids! I think maybe she is going through her own problems right now and may be taking them out on you. That doesn't mean she doesn't love you. If you want to find out for sure you can tell her that and watch her cry!
Sisters have been ass pains forever. They only quit when you no longer live in the same house! Just ignore her for the most part and maybe she'll leave you alone.
If all else fails take your worries to dad. I'm sure he would be more than happy to set you on the right track about it all. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Football33prep answered Sunday May 29 2005, 2:26 pm: All i can tell you to do is to not run. Dont take the easy way out. Talk to your mother about it. You sister I can gurantee doesnt hate you. Tell her you think that and she will never treat you the same again. Chances are if you takl to them about this then they will feel so terrible that it wont matter what happened before.
shake answered Sunday May 29 2005, 12:49 pm: They dont hate you. You're just overreacting to doing work you think they're making you do because they dont like you. Not because they're showing you responsiblity. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
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