Hey there everyone whatsup. The name's Tyler dont wear it out. Anyways Im here to help as usual. I love giving advice. On my first day here I gave atleast 10 pieces of Advice. Its great to be here and anyone who needs help just send me a message...Ill be there. When someone who needs advice needs it, Ill be there. When someone needs help, Ill be there! (cue dramatic music) lol. Anyways for real. If anyone needs some help just give me a message and ill be here to help.
Signed Sincerly
The Football Prep.
Gender: Male
Location: Atlanta Georgia
Age: 15
AIM: Football33prep
Yahoo: dx_randy_orton
MSN: dgenerationx4u@msn.com
Member Since: February 25, 2005
Answers: 19
Last Update: October 10, 2006
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hey i am 16 and female...i just recently moved but i have been considered depressed for 3 years but really didnt say anything but now after the move i feel worse...i am never really happy and i feel like i just really dont want to be here... how can i have happiness again..and how can i feel alive?
eissac
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Hey sweetie. The only thing you CAN do is get out there and have fun. Or Ill tell you something that can make you happy again. DONT laugh at this. Video games...ONLINE video games. Try them out. They are an EXTREMLY Easy way to meet people and when you get in online. You will meet people you love to hang out with! ALl kinds of things you can try. Send me a message and I will give you some more Ideas when I have time to think more.
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hey btw you are really cute lol anywayz do guys like it wen grls kiss them with lipgloss and wut are normal guyz turnoffs:??? (link)
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I love it when girls kiss me with lipgloss. But lets see...
Turnoffs=
1.UNDERARM HAIR BLAGH!
2.a 100% calling. I myself love to talk to my girlfriend any possible second of the day.
3. Hairy legs
Those are the only ones I can think up off the top of my head... But thanks for the message.
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kay i thkn my whoel family hates me > my mom is acting like she doesnt want me she makes me do all the work in the house. if she could she could probly put me up for adoption. but i kno my dad wont let her. i kno my dad loves me. i want ot run but i ahve no where to go. the rest of my family livies 2 hours away. she acts like she has to take me places > she does it because she has to not because she loves me. i have no clue what to do??? pleaz help me!!!
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All i can tell you to do is to not run. Dont take the easy way out. Talk to your mother about it. You sister I can gurantee doesnt hate you. Tell her you think that and she will never treat you the same again. Chances are if you takl to them about this then they will feel so terrible that it wont matter what happened before.
Signed
The football prep.
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ok i want to hook up with my one friends cousin.. hes hot.. but he thinks hes ugly.. he has a girlfriend but he seems pretty interested in meeting me.. but im afraid of what hell think when he sees me.. i mean if hes hot and thinks hes ugly what will he think of me? im not very confident with my looks.. and i really want him to like me.. how do i get him to like me and think im hot? (link)
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There is really no way to make someone think that you are hot. If they dont think your cute in the beginning more than likely they wont in the future. Just try to be sweet around him.
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I dont even know where to start. I'm 19/f I've just recently lost my job, me and mom are arguing all the time now i've just lost my boyfriend (He does say hes not sure what he wants, his hearts telling him to stay then his head and family are saying leave) He has dumped me though. I cry all the time and feel down. How can i pick my self back up i dont want to be depressed. I do have a history of self harm and dont want to go back. Please please help. :-( (link)
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Hey there sweetheart. Well Id say screw him. You need to do whats best for you and hes not helping. Your job can be fixed. Go get a new one. Thats that easy. Next off, Talk with your mom. Dont yell just talk. Just let it work its way into a conversation and dont yell.
Signed
The Football Prep
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I recently met this guy who I really am starting to like a lot. He has even talked about us being togeather, as in boyfriend/girlfriend, but I decided we should take it slow and go out a few more times. He recently admitted to me that he was bisexual. I still really like him a lot, so should this effect me in any way? I'm really confused, please help me. Thanks (link)
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Well see im really gonna position myself here. If i was a girl. Now I myself am a christian so i find bisexuals wrong. I would definetly have it change me if he told me that. I would just sorta tell him i couldnt do it anymore becuase of that. If im being honest thats my opinion.
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Okay, I'm really sorry if this gets kinda long, but you need to know the whole story, but I'll try and keep it short.
Okay, so last year, my boyfriend (we'll call him charlie )of a year and 4 months broke up with me. At the time, I was upset, as anyone would be, but I somehow got over it very quickly. This is part of my predicament. Ok, well he broke up with a month before prom, and I, being to young to go to prom, wasn't going. I had a dress, a hair appointment, everything, and dumped. So, I turned to a guy friend (we'll call him David)that I had just found out liked me. We ended up going out, and went to prom (all after 2 weeks after the split-up). Well, at the time, i was fighting the idea that iw as on a rebound and using him, but now i see that that is exactly what i was doing. I broke up with him after 2 months, because he started asking questings about *Charlie and things got complicated....Ever since that, every guy i go out with, somehow doesn't compare to *david, and i'm starting to miss him. Now, almost a year later just out of the blue, out of nowhere, i realize i want him back, and its all i can think about. I keep thinking that, yeah, i was using him to make Charlie jealous, and i never really gave him a chance. I know that he still likes me, we ALWAYS flirt, and my best friend has talked to him. I guess the advice i'm looking for is, should i talk to him? I'm really afraid of trying it, and hurting him again, because that would hurt me more, knowing that i did it all over again.
I really appreciate you guys reading all this, and answering my questions.
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You most definetly should talk with him. Its a simple answer. So talk to him and just let it run its course.
Signed
The Football Prep!
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Hi again .. well i thought i`d ask yu a ? bout realationships and guys since u r a guy .. okay well c i`ve been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months and we still havent done anything .. he is a lil shy and he always tells me that he loves me and sometimes i dont belive that and i told him and he said that he really does ... do you think he does like me? do u think that he hasnt kissed me yet because hes shy or not interested in me? what do yu think
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Well this is an EXTREMLY easy question. Hes shy. Hes scared to kiss you. I have a fear somtimes of kissing girls. More than likely he is just shy. But plain and simple ask him about it. Tell him that you would like to kiss him and more than likely the next time you see each other :O O:
:D
Signed
The football prep!
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im 5'2 and 115 lbs. everyone tells me im not fat or chubby. they say that my stoamch is flat but its not. no matter what i think that im heavy and that its noticable. are there any ways to make my stomach flat? and situps never worked for me. i want to lose it because im always afraid that im going to lose my boyfriend to someone whos skiny and pretty. any ideas? please and thank you. (link)
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More than likely it is all in your mind. Dont worry. I would never break up with a girl becuase of their weight. Making your stomach flatter though, That can be helped.
1st.Eat healthier
2.Situps
3.Ease off your stress if you have any.
Thats all i can tell you to do. Just remember ESE.
E S E
A I A
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H U E
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L F
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Signed
The Football Prep
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ok i'm 17/f (almost 18) and i tend to fall for younger guys. the past 3 guys that i've liked (i went out with one) have been 15 and young 16. i'm a senior and they're all sophomores (one should be a junior). to make it better, my brother is a sophomore as well, and is older than one of them (the one i went out with). my friend says that going out with sophomores would make me look like i'm easy (which i'm definitely not...i'm waiting until marriage). is there any way that i could get myself to stop liking younger guys or is there nothing wrong with it? thanks so much :) (link)
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Theres nothing wrong with it. NOthing at all. See im dating a 17 year old Girl currently. Im a 15 year old male. I really like her and we get along so wonderfully. I love to hang out with her too. YOu will always appreciate your boyfriends as long as they are loyal. If your older most of the time they will be 100% loyal. Dont worry about it.
Signed
The Football Prep
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OK...my best friend EVER is moving to Australia, the total other side of the world!! :'(
I want to give her a really great, unique send off. She is leaving in three weeks, and I want to get her a great present and throw a great party she'll always remember!! I don't want to burn a CD because she does loads of those herself, and I don't want an ordinary boring party. Anyone got any great ideas for a really unique send-off? (link)
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I am not really sure about a unique send off. FOr a present though, give her a picture, I know it sounds ordinary, But give her a picture of yourself and her standing together and put it in a nice frame She will love it. I gurantee it.
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See, my friend has been going out with this girl since october, I'm very good friends with her, and liked her a couple months before my friend and her started going out. Me and the girl have known eachother for atleast 4 years, I'm friends with her brother, whos younger than me, Lately my friend has become annoyed with The girl (whos also my friend) avoiding her phone calls, stuff like that. Lately the girl has been flirting with me on IM, sending me kissy faces, saying I'm her best bud, always trying to be beside me in public places when (my friend, her BF is not around) hugging on me in a playful non shalont way, etc. But then she'll say something like i wish My boyfriend was here, or something like that. Which is kool, because i would never go behind my friends back, shes just a friend. But she asks if i could do stuff with her would I? If my friend wouldn't find out. I tell her no, not unless she broke up with my friend, and still probably wouldn't cuz he might be hurt. Whats goin on with this chick? Is she liken me? or my friend...or both of us? HaHa, shes acten weird, never has been like this before. (link)
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Hey there. Well I can pretty much say you have two things going on. She is either attracted to ya or she playing you like a fiddle. So talk to your friend about it and tell him that you like her and more than likely from what you say he is wanting to break up with her. So just talk to them and let it run its course.
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The Football Prep
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ok.... my "so called friends" r blaming me for an email that I didnt write but they wont belive me. they were calling me names and crap then they wrot me emails that were really mean.. Everyone wants out of this expect the ppl blaming me!! so i have ICQ then this girl of me so called friens was cussing me out!!! then on the bus they were throwing paper at me now they really hate me... and the worst thin about the fight is that one of my friends r my science lab parenter!!!!! then she acts liked everything is ok but it is not
what should i do
i rate 5's!!!
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Sweety look. They dont seem to act like your real friends. Sure I can say to you everything to make you feel better. Plain and simple just do this.
1st: Sit them all down and talk to them. Make sure they listen. They still dont listen forget them and never look back as they were never your real friends anyways.
2nd: If they dont listen just forget all about it. Dont worry about them and get some good friends who would stick up for ya!
So dont worry about it. Relax and let it work.
Signed
The Football Prep :D
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i exercise a lot. i do at least 250 sit ups a day and i pogo-stick i also run. i eat like a granola bar 4 breakfast, a turkey sandwich for lunch with baked lays (1.5 grams of fat), and only like 10 grams of fat 4 dinner. im really fat, i weigh 128 lbs and im 13, 5ft 1 in, i have been since i was 12! i dont know why im so fat around my abs, above my hips, thighs, and stomach. please help, im desperste 4 weight loss! (link)
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Thats not fat. If you are a boy thats extremly average. If your a girl then its not much over the average. SO dont worry about it PERIOD.
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i have this friend thats not very cool and no one really knows her...but she cuts herself..she showed me today and i started wondering why she would do that...i told my friend about it cause were in office aid together and she was feeling bad for her..she also smokes pot...do u think i should still be friends with her or not? (link)
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Of course you should stay friends with her. Friends are friends no matter what. She cuts herself then dont worry about that. Just try to forget that you know and just stay on the good times. Hope i helped :D!
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My brother and I are nine years apart but we get along great and I love him to death. Over the years my brother has been with a few girls and I've always got along with them. But his new girlfriend (he live with her at her moms house because we moved and there was no room) but anyways we dont get along I mean I try to like her but shes a bitch to me and my friends. My best friend shes like my sister she considers mty bro her bro and my bros girlfriend is always a bitch when shes around. She is very stuck up and im afraid my brother is going to be with her for a long time.......What should I do I want to like her but I cant.
Dont say im jelous or protective of my bro because no matter what ill be happy for him. HELP!! (link)
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Im sorry but you should just be happy for him. Of course you should speak with him about it but try to use a nicer choice of words. Saying that she is a bitch will probably just anger him. Just let it flow and make sure he knows how you feel.
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if you masturbate does it mean your not a virgin anymore??
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No way. Masturbation does not change that at all. Sex is the only way to change that.
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i am 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m we are both virgins and we are in love with each other.. for sure .. i know what hes in this relationship for and i feel like having sex with him.. not to just f*ck but to share something with him that neither of us have experienced.. do you think this is a bad idea? do you think ill regret it? will peopel look at me differently?
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If you really love him wait. There is always two sides to each stone.
A. Wait and it will be even more special.
B. Do it now and then you can say you shared somthing special for your first time.
I wont give my choice because its too hard for me. Im sorry but thats all I can say.
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Hey i am 14 and my dad doesnt trust me AT ALL! Is there a way for parents to read what you wrote to other people on aim? If there is, how do I turn it off, or make it so my dad cant read what i am saying? Also, how do i get him to trust me more?? Thanx, eX 0h (link)
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Your dad is looking out in your best interest. You should trust him. He wants whats best. Although I understand where you are coming from. I have a nosy mother. She does exactly the same thing. But dont worry. Everything always comes out well in the end. And on AIM no there isnt a way to do that I believe. Trust is a big thing. You must earn it. The only way to do that is to give him somthing to trust you for. Such as...If he says dont go somewhere and you do it, he will lose trust for you. Follow what he says and you will be A O K!
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