ok i want to hook up with my one friends cousin.. hes hot.. but he thinks hes ugly.. he has a girlfriend but he seems pretty interested in meeting me.. but im afraid of what hell think when he sees me.. i mean if hes hot and thinks hes ugly what will he think of me? im not very confident with my looks.. and i really want him to like me.. how do i get him to like me and think im hot?
luv2swim109 answered Monday February 28 2005, 5:28 pm: you shouldnt care what you look like. i think its about your personality instead of looks. if he likes you for who you are then he's a keeper. if he doesnt then dump him. you dont want a bf that just cares about looks
BlackRose18 answered Monday February 28 2005, 4:53 pm: Most guys like a girl that is confident in herself, just do what you feel is right, if your not comfortable then tings aren't going to slide so smooth. If he doesn't like you for you then there really is no point of hooking up with him, most of the time when two people get to know eat other, personality brings out looks.He probably doesn't want to seem cocky and say "I'm hot" kind of a turn off when a guy is too confident in his looks. Just go with your instinct, it will most-likely lead to a good time. [ BlackRose18's advice column | Ask BlackRose18 A Question ]
Karen answered Monday February 28 2005, 4:47 pm: Don't worry, this guy is probably not going to say anything about your looks; he probably thinks this way about himself because he has low confidence and probably hasn't had a girlfriend for a while and he thinks the reason why this is because he is ugly. You need to tell him that he is good looking and that he needs to stop thinking about the way he looks because it's beginning to lower his self-esteem. If you want him to like you, you need to show him that you are interested in him by talking to him a lot, hanging out with him, and by flirting with him. You cannot make him think that you are "hot" but you can change the way you do your hair and make up and that will help. You shouldn't care about looks because they aren't everything when it comes to being in a relationship. Everyone thinks they are ugly during their lives and this guy will stop thinking that, once someone convinces him that he is not ugly.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
x_next_2_you_x0 answered Monday February 28 2005, 4:46 pm: i bet he is just very modest and dont like to say that he is good-looking...just keep flirting with him and if you do meet him go wtih the flow and dont seem all uptight about it...if you are still concerned, when you meet him try and look the best you can...i could tell you to be yourself and if he dont like you by judging you on your looks then he is not worth it...but guys these days go by looks sometimes....hope i could somewhat help...<33 ~danni [ x_next_2_you_x0's advice column | Ask x_next_2_you_x0 A Question ]
gakkuhideto answered Monday February 28 2005, 4:46 pm: Don't go out with a guy who has a girlfriend. He'll dump her for you, sure, but what do you think is gonna happen when another pretty girl comes along? He will dump you to go out with her. He probably doesn't think he's ugly, he just wants your pity. Forget about that jerk! [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
xcuriousx0 answered Monday February 28 2005, 4:40 pm: hey,
everyone thinks their ugly...i think im ugly but people tell me im pretty all the time...i still dont believe them but w.e if you think hes interested in meeting you then without he most certainly is...or atleast he might be l0l. You wanna know the most successful way to get him to like you...BE YOURSELf...i mean you would rather be loved for who you are then someone your not...right?
hope i helped...and everythin works out
mucho love
kayla xoxo [ xcuriousx0's advice column | Ask xcuriousx0 A Question ]
Football33prep answered Monday February 28 2005, 4:37 pm: There is really no way to make someone think that you are hot. If they dont think your cute in the beginning more than likely they wont in the future. Just try to be sweet around him. [ Football33prep's advice column | Ask Football33prep A Question ]
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