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I think that I need a psychiatrist. I know that I do, I feel very depressed and I cut myself. My mom sees a psychiatrist. I'm just afraid of asking my mom and dad (they are divorced, so I can't sit them down together) if I can go to a therapist. I was wondering of anyone knew any ways of bringing it up or any suggestions of how to talk about it. I'm uncomfortable bringing it up and I really don't want my parents to know how depressed and frightend I feel. If you have any ideas I would really appreciate it. (link)
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Well if you cant talk to your mom about getting a therapist then ask a teacher and or your guidence counceler anything that would make you feel better and if all else fails ask your mother be like mom iom having trouble and would like to talk to a thearpist please...and walk off and leave it at that if she asks why be like very personal reasons she might get upset but she'll relize after awhile its what you want/need
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As you probably know their are many ways to self harm yourself other that cutting. Well since I don't like knifes I do other things. Such as bruising myself, banging my head against the wall, scratching myself until I bleed, picking scabs, and punching myself. Well I cannot stop. I am not in control of it its my emotions. I think I'm very ugly because I cannot get a boyfriend.
And alot of guys think I'm ugly, and I'm not fat I'm actually short and skinny. I just don't understand why guys don't like me ... so I have come to the fact that self- harm is better. It makes me feel better. I dont know why. I cant control it. Help? (link)
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Sweetie take it from a ex cutter it dosnt help anyways i thought i had all these problems i was ugly and to many problems were flowing through me that cutting made it seem the problems were going away but it wasnt it was temererary relif and it would always come back all i suggest u do is keep a journal and write in it scream in a pillow write what you feel on a piece of paper and then burn it or crumble it i hope i helped sweetie
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ok my friend is only 12 and she was sleeping at my house and was talking to this boy on my computer about doing drugs (pot, ciggarettes, alcohol) and now i don't feel right when talking to her should i still be her friend?
thanks, ~lost n confused~ (link)
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Dear Lost & Confused,
You have to tell your friend to stop or go to a couceler and tell them you think your friend may have a problem.
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im constantly wet down below im a female btw.i cum home from school and my knickers are soaked thru.im too embarresed to tell ne1 i know so plse help?is it bladder weakness?thanx (link)
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Are you thinking about sex? It's Not uncommon for you to but try to distract yourself from thinking about anything thay makes you "randy". If that dosnt help You may want to relive sexual stress by fingering yourself. Maybe even want to see a doctor.
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well there is this guy...he tells me that he likes me but he always uses the excuse "i dont want a girlfriend right now" i really like him and i have for 2 years now...am i suppose to just forget about him? i dont know what to do i could really use some help...thanks (link)
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Just forget it and move on, All guys use this excuse when they like another person, He does not see you as the beautiful person that you are.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we really want to have sex like early this month but I always get my period in this beginning of the month and we both don’t want to wait. Can you have sex on your period..have any of you ever done that before. Is it safe?I rate 5’s. (link)
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You CANT YOU WILL GET PREGNET AND DIE...No but you should not because there is a possibility of you getting pregnet you dont want that to ruin your life right ow your begining to figure yourself out.
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Okay, I've been best friends with my friend Missi since for about 3 years or more. About 5 months ago I met Cheryl (who had just moved to my school) We have become bestfriends too. Well we are all 3 bestfriends. Well before Cheryl ever came along, me and this guy Greg had dated for a lil over a month, and we had broke up just weeks before I met Cheryl. Well then Cheryl and Greg meet and she thinks hes hott, and he thinks she is too, okay so they end up likein each other. She is my friend so I choose to let myself forget about my feeling for him, because I know the reason I broke up with him to begin with is because he was mean and immature. So I let her have him, well when Cheryl moved from Navarre to Milton she left her boyfriend of 10 months, and they were still talking, and while she was going out with Greg, she cheated on him with her boyfriend Josh in Navarre. I never said anything until about a month or so after her and Greg broke up that she had done that to him. Well now hes finally realizing that Cheryl really loves Josh and hes just someone to lean on when Josh cant be around. Well we get back together (me and Greg). Well me,Cheryl, and Missi, all work at the skating rink together..Missi is off this Saturday night while me and Cheryl are working. Greg is there and his cousin Kenny shows up,who is like 19, well for some dumb reason Missi wants to get her freak on with him, So after Cheryl gets off work Kenny is goin over to Cheryls to do Missi. And of course Greg is goin over there to, I dont trust Greg around Cheryl but I trust Cheryl. Well the next day I find out, that Greg fingered Cheryl and tried to screw her 3 times (Missi told me) after I begged her to tell me what went on, because I knew something was up because Greg was talking to Cheryl on the phone. I am so hurt that Cheryl would touch him, and she knew he was with me, and Im even more hurt that Missi let Cheryl and Greg do it to me. Well the day I find out about this, which is the day after it all happened, I get a phone call that night, and its Missi, Im like where are you at and she goes "Oh me, Cheryl, Kenny, and Greg are over at the mall, and Greg wants to talk to you" of course Greg dumps me. And furious I call Missi's grandparents and tell them where she is really at and who shes really with. She gets grounded out the butt. And now she wants to be my friend again and has wrote me the letter saying how she is sorry, and made a scrap book thingy of us. Should I take Missi back as a friend ? And as far as Cheryl goes she has tried to apologize too.. Should I forgive either one of them. I mean once was horrible, why'd they do it a second time if they knew it would hurt me?
I know this was long, but I need some opinions. (link)
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You should forgive her, All girls have big fights and stop being friends but they relize how much they really need each other, Since she went out with greg she should have learned her lesson from that and dosnt need anyone to bring her down, You are supposed to be each other friends to be there for one another through out the good and bad times, Take her back as a friend. Hope I Helped
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ok i want to hook up with my one friends cousin.. hes hot.. but he thinks hes ugly.. he has a girlfriend but he seems pretty interested in meeting me.. but im afraid of what hell think when he sees me.. i mean if hes hot and thinks hes ugly what will he think of me? im not very confident with my looks.. and i really want him to like me.. how do i get him to like me and think im hot? (link)
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You should not try to change yourself for a guy, but you should try to say stuff him to make him feel so confident with his looks, You should try to be happy with yourself. Try make-up or go natural. Hope I helped
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Okay my question I had posted was
Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??
and I didn't mean.. "am i too old" i meant how old is too old for me too go out with.. so if u answered my last question wrong I am sorry I didn't state my question clearly and if u wanna answer again.. just do it!! (link)
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If you are trying to ask how old is to old for someone to be dating you, then thats really a personal opinion but if you want mine I would say maybe 16, It depends on how much you like the person. Hope I helped
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