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Should I accept my friends apology ?
Okay, I've been best friends with my friend Missi since for about 3 years or more. About 5 months ago I met Cheryl (who had just moved to my school) We have become bestfriends too. Well we are all 3 bestfriends. Well before Cheryl ever came along, me and this guy Greg had dated for a lil over a month, and we had broke up just weeks before I met Cheryl. Well then Cheryl and Greg meet and she thinks hes hott, and he thinks she is too, okay so they end up likein each other. She is my friend so I choose to let myself forget about my feeling for him, because I know the reason I broke up with him to begin with is because he was mean and immature. So I let her have him, well when Cheryl moved from Navarre to Milton she left her boyfriend of 10 months, and they were still talking, and while she was going out with Greg, she cheated on him with her boyfriend Josh in Navarre. I never said anything until about a month or so after her and Greg broke up that she had done that to him. Well now hes finally realizing that Cheryl really loves Josh and hes just someone to lean on when Josh cant be around. Well we get back together (me and Greg). Well me,Cheryl, and Missi, all work at the skating rink together..Missi is off this Saturday night while me and Cheryl are working. Greg is there and his cousin Kenny shows up,who is like 19, well for some dumb reason Missi wants to get her freak on with him, So after Cheryl gets off work Kenny is goin over to Cheryls to do Missi. And of course Greg is goin over there to, I dont trust Greg around Cheryl but I trust Cheryl. Well the next day I find out, that Greg fingered Cheryl and tried to screw her 3 times (Missi told me) after I begged her to tell me what went on, because I knew something was up because Greg was talking to Cheryl on the phone. I am so hurt that Cheryl would touch him, and she knew he was with me, and Im even more hurt that Missi let Cheryl and Greg do it to me. Well the day I find out about this, which is the day after it all happened, I get a phone call that night, and its Missi, Im like where are you at and she goes "Oh me, Cheryl, Kenny, and Greg are over at the mall, and Greg wants to talk to you" of course Greg dumps me. And furious I call Missi's grandparents and tell them where she is really at and who shes really with. She gets grounded out the butt. And now she wants to be my friend again and has wrote me the letter saying how she is sorry, and made a scrap book thingy of us. Should I take Missi back as a friend ? And as far as Cheryl goes she has tried to apologize too.. Should I forgive either one of them. I mean once was horrible, why'd they do it a second time if they knew it would hurt me?
I know this was long, but I need some opinions.
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get over it and just talk to him and things might clear up beteen you and him.
are you 10 or 11 because we do not take teens questions because they are to hard for us to awnser.
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You could take them back but there is achance that they will do it agian and if you do become friends wit then tell them that you dont trust them that much no more
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Chances are is that she is just as hurt as you are because she went and screwed up a wonderful friendship over a guy! Give her another chance, but be cautious. And never date someone you can't trust around your friends.
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its not worth it. but thats just my opinion. i wouldnt take her back.
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i would take missi back because she wasnt the one that did anything with greg...she could have stopped them but maybe she was busy...as for cheryl...wow thats not agreat friend to have is it..it matters how close you were befor ethe fight...if it wasnt very gig friendship with some flaws in it then it might be good not to be very close friends but if you were very close then you should be friends because shes your friend you were like 2 peas in a pod...it may be dificult because of greg but if you guys are close a guy wont set you guys apart...oh and i thought i should mention this..if greg and cherly brake up like i think they will dont go back with greg...i woudnt i mean he cheated on you for your best friend...if you ask me he doesnt diserve you or cherly...
hope i helped...remember guys are not worth friends but yet bad friends are not worth to have
you have to figure out witch of these is cherly
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You should forgive her, All girls have big fights and stop being friends but they relize how much they really need each other, Since she went out with greg she should have learned her lesson from that and dosnt need anyone to bring her down, You are supposed to be each other friends to be there for one another through out the good and bad times, Take her back as a friend. Hope I Helped
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