I might be young but i know a lot for my age...all of my friends turn to me for help. i give the best advice for heart related problems but i can try to help you in anything if u ask me too.
E-mail: anna.nyzio@earthlink.net
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Location: new york
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ok, well i dont want to make this too long so here it goes
my sis 14/f and this 1 kid down the street(eddie)13/m and i are all best friends. but me and my sis are starting to think he likes my sis, he called her his WIT (wife in training)and we thought it was a joke but were now rethinking it. She likes him but she doesnt want to, but then does want to. weve been best friends 4 a long time and she doesnt want to ruin that, i need advice, should she ask him out, or should she leave it alone???plz help (link)
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well if your sister likes him then why not...if he says no then it might be awkward for a little bit but if your that close as you say then the guy should have no problem with it...if your sister doesnt liek him that much then she shoudnt...i would if i liked the guy because since you guys are such close then the relationship might last because you know each other very well
hope i helped...friendship may blume to love
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Okay, I've been best friends with my friend Missi since for about 3 years or more. About 5 months ago I met Cheryl (who had just moved to my school) We have become bestfriends too. Well we are all 3 bestfriends. Well before Cheryl ever came along, me and this guy Greg had dated for a lil over a month, and we had broke up just weeks before I met Cheryl. Well then Cheryl and Greg meet and she thinks hes hott, and he thinks she is too, okay so they end up likein each other. She is my friend so I choose to let myself forget about my feeling for him, because I know the reason I broke up with him to begin with is because he was mean and immature. So I let her have him, well when Cheryl moved from Navarre to Milton she left her boyfriend of 10 months, and they were still talking, and while she was going out with Greg, she cheated on him with her boyfriend Josh in Navarre. I never said anything until about a month or so after her and Greg broke up that she had done that to him. Well now hes finally realizing that Cheryl really loves Josh and hes just someone to lean on when Josh cant be around. Well we get back together (me and Greg). Well me,Cheryl, and Missi, all work at the skating rink together..Missi is off this Saturday night while me and Cheryl are working. Greg is there and his cousin Kenny shows up,who is like 19, well for some dumb reason Missi wants to get her freak on with him, So after Cheryl gets off work Kenny is goin over to Cheryls to do Missi. And of course Greg is goin over there to, I dont trust Greg around Cheryl but I trust Cheryl. Well the next day I find out, that Greg fingered Cheryl and tried to screw her 3 times (Missi told me) after I begged her to tell me what went on, because I knew something was up because Greg was talking to Cheryl on the phone. I am so hurt that Cheryl would touch him, and she knew he was with me, and Im even more hurt that Missi let Cheryl and Greg do it to me. Well the day I find out about this, which is the day after it all happened, I get a phone call that night, and its Missi, Im like where are you at and she goes "Oh me, Cheryl, Kenny, and Greg are over at the mall, and Greg wants to talk to you" of course Greg dumps me. And furious I call Missi's grandparents and tell them where she is really at and who shes really with. She gets grounded out the butt. And now she wants to be my friend again and has wrote me the letter saying how she is sorry, and made a scrap book thingy of us. Should I take Missi back as a friend ? And as far as Cheryl goes she has tried to apologize too.. Should I forgive either one of them. I mean once was horrible, why'd they do it a second time if they knew it would hurt me?
I know this was long, but I need some opinions. (link)
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i would take missi back because she wasnt the one that did anything with greg...she could have stopped them but maybe she was busy...as for cheryl...wow thats not agreat friend to have is it..it matters how close you were befor ethe fight...if it wasnt very gig friendship with some flaws in it then it might be good not to be very close friends but if you were very close then you should be friends because shes your friend you were like 2 peas in a pod...it may be dificult because of greg but if you guys are close a guy wont set you guys apart...oh and i thought i should mention this..if greg and cherly brake up like i think they will dont go back with greg...i woudnt i mean he cheated on you for your best friend...if you ask me he doesnt diserve you or cherly...
hope i helped...remember guys are not worth friends but yet bad friends are not worth to have
you have to figure out witch of these is cherly
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okay, im 14/f and i havent had a boyfriend yet all my friends have at least been asked out and many have had boyfriends..no one has asked me yet and im old fashioned i wont ask a guy out i really want a boyfriend and all my friends have one i think im ugly and thats why no one asked me out please help me--desperate (link)
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girl your not the only one and im not worried..i know my prince charming will come...its puppy love right now thats it..most relationships in middle school and high school dont last...there just the thing of the moment...when the right guy comes it will be all abuot you...dont try to be like everybody else..just because they have boyfriends. you will see..soon you will be the bell of the ball and everyone will be staring at you...
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Okay my question I had posted was
Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??
and I didn't mean.. "am i too old" i meant how old is too old for me too go out with.. so if u answered my last question wrong I am sorry I didn't state my question clearly and if u wanna answer again.. just do it!! (link)
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i would say no one older then 18 but 18 is way boarderline..age doesnt really matter in love bit it might be dangerous for you to date someone older then 18. for you i think th perfect age is 16
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we dated about 7 months ago for a month about and it ended because i guess he just lost interest in it.
we never saw eachother over the summer after he persued me last year and after we got together a bit this year and it didnt work, we developed an amazing friendship. i'm the girl who his family loves (hes told me how much his parents "adore" me haha) and i'm the only girl who spends time with him and his family like at movies or something.
he's gone through the typical 16 year old guy phase of wanting to date everything and anything with a skirt on this year after things didnt work between us....which is fine, i understand it. now i'm becoming good friends with his best friend who he thinks i should give it a try with as a relationship because "he deserves a girl like me"...i may like the guy a bit but i dont want to act on it. as for my guy-hes going out with a girl i don't really like right now and hes admitted to his buds that he still kinda likes me (but its a secret i guess). i don't know what to do.
does it seem like we may have a chance in the future?
should i mabye give it a try with his best friend who is truely a really great guy-would that affect the chances of us ever"
what do you think is going on in his head?
i need all the advice, thoughts, opinions i can get. please help-i'll rate. thanks. (link)
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hmmm it sounds like you guys are the perfect match...i would go out with his friend because you might start liking him since you said he is a great guy and if it doesnt work out between you and the guy then maybe your lover boy might get jealous of another guy having his arms around you so he might ask you out...all of it is might but do what your heart says is right
hope i helped
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ok well heres the deal..i REALLY like this guy and hes sooo sweet! he told me i was hott and hes always talking to me and leading me on..and if he askes me out..i would have my first boyfriend ever. thing is, one of my best friends supposedly "loves" him and she doesnt even know him and they never talk..unlike me i have talked to him lots of times. and now my best freind and him are starting to talk like online, but he ignores her a lot so he can talk to me..and shes making it seem like a competition and always rubbing things in my face whenever they have sumthing in common. another thing it, she knows that he likes me, but she doesnt know that i like him...its really confusing. if she found out she would be soo upset..she even said "if u ever liked him i would hate u" and i dont know what to do cuz shes had tons of boyfriends and i really want this guy to be my first bf. pleas help..ill rate everyone. (link)
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tell your friend to get a life...if you like the guy and he likes you go an dtell him that you like him...that girl is not your friend...she is just a jealous little girl...if she really was your friend she would respesct the idea that you might like him and she should back down since he likes you
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I hav acne (not badly and not very noticable but i still dont like it). Is there any like really really good lotion or something to make it go away??? Please help.
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i have acne 2...though i have a lot of acne...u really have to wash your face a lot...warm water and as much as you can...the product that works for me is CLEAN & CLEAR DEEP CLEANING ASTRINGENT...it worked for me a bit but since you have little acne it should help you a lot but dont use it to much it can dry your skin out very badly and you dont want to peal...also theres sensative skin and normal..i would take sensative skin because i use it and i have a lot of acne and it is strong!!!!....also you can go to your doctor...see wat the doctor says...i did that and she gave me acne medicine it kinda helped...also everybody's skin is different so if everyone tells you something dont start using all of it at once..it can damage your skin..go answer to asnwer..test the things and then see wat works best for you...hope i helped
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Ok, there is this boy named Eryc, he's in 4/6 of my classes. My friend thinks he likes me, and I kind of believe her, kind of don't. Sometimes he can be such a bastard! But then when I need help he stands up for me. My friend is only in 1/6 of me and Eryc's classes, so she wouldn't know at all what I go through with him and what he does. But in the one class she is in, she thinks he likes me. My question is do you think he has a crush on me? (link)
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u didnt say much..but if he has your back then he probably does but i dont know..you say he can be bastard..not really a good sign
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umm my friend who isnt really now used to abuse me and my other friends.. when i finally got the guts to tell her to stop she gets mad... she hits u so hard and it makes you feel like you want to die. shes hurt a lot of my other friends to and she even hurts guyys=.. well so anyways she hit me really hard on the head and i didnt say anything so then she says i dont think she felt that and kills me with two more slaps... so i went home crying and of course my parents fournd out. my mom accualy went over and talked to them. she doesnt even care and now i think she is going to tell everyone else a whole different story even though i have witnesses. also she is friends with most of my other friends too even though im better friends with them then she is. i am just scared that no one will believe me or she might accually hurt me again. im so scared i dont even no wat to do now... HELP!!! (link)
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shes not your friend...talk to your friends and see who they like more and make them pick between you and her..if they pick you then ur set and just ignore that girl ...if they pick her make new friends forget about them...there not your true friends if they abuse you
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I liked this guy at the beggining of the year and he was becoming one of my best guy friends. I always had a crush on him and we would always flirt a lot. Everyone always said oh my gosh you guys would make the cutest couple and oh my gosh you guys should so go out. Before I didnt want him to know that I liked him so I always said noo never hes my friend! I always thought that he might have a lil crush on me because we flirt so much and at the movies I would snuggle with him. Now like 5 months passed and I`ve been getting over him because he was going out with one of my best friends on and off and no one ever knew that I liked him so I let it go and forgot about him. I have a boyfriend and I've been going out with him for almost 4 months. Now me and this other guy still flirt and 3 other guys like me. He is always telling me if some1 is messing with me that he would punch them and stuff. Couple days ago we were talking and he was like did you used to like me and I was like hmm ... maybe and he goes I could always tell but U wasnt sure.He knows that I liked him then he asked if I didnt have a boyfriend would I still go out with him. He told me if he knew that I liked him that he would ask me out. but that was then anyways.. like when ever we talk and we joke around and stuff he always looks at my boobs and stuff and messed with me n laughs. he told me that he liked me and he always writes all this stuff over aim like give me head please and he would say lol and he was like show me your boobies and i dono if its just a joke or something. am i a horrible person for just lettin him say all this stuff.. i love my boyfriend really much but he doesnt treat me that good .. long story but its not that bad but sometimes i feel guilty for some reason. this other guy is really sweet and so is my boyfriend at times. not to mention everyone wanted us to break up but now its settled down. what do i do? i am soo confused? i dont kno if the only thing this other guy wants is to get some from me but im not like that and im not sure if he likes me. i like flirting with him and stuff but i dont know. im really sorry if this is confusing and that its long but i really need advice. thanks i rate 5`s! (link)
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um im sry but i dont understand wat u wrote there
im me or e-mail me and i willtry to help you
aim: polishfLiRt4LIFE
e-mail:anna.nyzio@earthlink.net
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How is the best way to get a tan? Sun or tanning salon. I need one bad after this winter I am so pale. Any ideas? (link)
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i say sun..tanning salon can really ruin your skin..even though sun can 2 a more higher risk of getting skin cancer is with tanning salon..also in the tanning salon u either get yellow after a while or get a bad shade of a tan..with the sun you only put sunblock and have a nice natural tan..of course you can burn if you dont put sunblock but even if you burn it will look more natural
hope i helped
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ok, there's this guy. He's an old friend of mine and recently I've started liking him as more than a friend. And just in this past week his ex-girlfriend from a while back has started liking him again and I don;t know what to do. I'm afraid I might loose him to her, but last time they were going out she kind of led him on and then broke up with him. I don't know what to think, or what to do. Help and I'll rate high for good stuff! (link)
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you have to wait and see if she makes a move...if she does and u find out or he tells you..explain to him that you think it is a bad idea because she broke your heart last time how do you know she is not using you...dont get him against her but make him look at the negative side..be his best friend...once this cools down you can make a move
hope i helped
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I had moved to Cancun for like 4 months from aug.- december.. now im back in the states.. I have been with my BF for 11 months and when I was living in mex. in november he cheated on me ( meaning had sex!!) with a girl at our school.. I finally moved back when I found out.. I didnt break up with him or anything because I kind of understood since I was in another country and he didnt know when I was coming back.. he was so sorry and cried to me and told me that im the only girl he wants to be with for the rest of his life.. he also told me that they were drunk and that it was a big mistake.. I asked his best friend about it and he didnt know about it.. he told me that he must have been really ashamed of it because he didnt even tell his bestfriend... I know that if I was going to break up with him or anything like that that its a little too late.. but what can I do.. I already talked to him about it.. its just that everytime I walk by the girl he had sex with I get so disgusted and dont even want to look at my BF.. I sometimes cry because of what he did hurt me so bad..anyone have some advice? (link)
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i think you really should think about it..is he the one? if he loves you so much why did he have sex with another girl? so wat that you were away you could keep in touch..if he loves you soo much he would do anything..i know it would be hard with a distance relationship but if he cared about you that much as he said he does he would do anything to make it work and not cheat on you...
MAYBE it was a mistake but a big one i mean having sex is huge..this also shows you that maybe he is a player just trying to get in bed with you..if you really love the guy then dont lose him but keep an eye on him if he does cheat on you again dump him..but if you think you dont love him that much and that you feel he might not be the one dump him rite now..
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What do you do if your friend tells you to find someone new, because they like the same person you do and say they like them back? I believe it to be a bit harsh. If your friend cared for you, wouldn't they just leave it alone instead of saying something like that?
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i think you have too see how much you like the guy...if i was you i would move on..since he choose your friend over you he is not the one for you..he did not see your beauty or personality to be the best...if you think he is the one well you need to wait...as for the friend..i think she sux at being a friend...a friend would not do that...i guess this is a good thing beacuse now you know who are your real friends..
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Im 15/f
Ive posted a question about my ex"friend" recently. (she was a "friend" at the time) She was judging all of my friends and always tagged along and was boring and couldnt continue a conversation. well, on wednesday at lunch time one of my friends gave me a note so i was walking and reading it, and then i hear footsteps next to me and someone dragging their feet, it was that "friend" and she was following me around again without talking..when she came up she didnt even say hi. *shrugs*.
Anyways yesterday we had the same class together and she now has made a new friend in that class (whos racist against me and is trash to be honest) So when she had someone else she pretened like i wasnt there and didnt try to talk to me (which is a good thing) so at lunchtime when she usually follows me around she now hangs out with her trashy racist new friend. After school like at night time she IMed me and said "can you do me a favor" so i made up an excuse and said i was busy.
Today i totally ignored her cause i have other people to hang out with because i always talk to random people cause im not shy. She on the other hand had noone so she hung out with a shy quiet girl that she always judged and said bad stuff about. I sit next to that girl in the class we have after lunch so she told me that my ex "friend" was talking about how she doesnt want to be my friend anymore. (which is SUCH a good thing, finally she got the point)
Anyways sorry this was wrong but i need advice on what to do from now on cause she and her racist friend are in my group in one of our classes. (link)
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hmm..its gonna be a mess for a while...what you can do is ask the teacher to assign you to another group...if the teacher wont do that then your stuck..you have to work with them and just ignore them if they say something not concerning the project...if they say mean things to you...you have friends to back you up...keep on remembering that your happy she is leaving you alone after the project...rememeber stay strong through the project with your friends at your side...
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Hi,
Sorry if this is gross.
I have really heavy periods and I know that they might settle down (I've only had four so far, but they have been really bad - I can't walk more than 10 steps without having to rush to the toilet) eventually, but is there anything (other than going to the doctors, something I will only do as a last resort) I can do to make them even a little bit lighter? I dunno, natural remedies, food to avoid, drink less...anything?!
I also seem to have like a really weak bladder or something when I'm on my period and I always need the toilet (like always, and I do 'go' when I go to the toilet). Is there something wrong there? If so (or not) what can I do to make it so it isn't so bad? I've tried drinking less and even drank nothing on one day but it makes no difference.
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WATER!!! the drink of the day is water. i would probably relax stay in bed reduce your physical activities.
hope i helped
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their is this guy i have liekd for a really long time. hes alsome. the other day i ended up going to his house an we ended up making out and it got around to everybody at school an he didnt dis agree with it. then liek a week later he called me and was liek do you want to come over an help me with my project and when i got their he wgoes im not in them odd to do this. so when ended up making out. an he goes i tohught you didnt like me. and i was liek i dont know mabey i do. then i was liek i tohught you didnt liek me either. and he goes i take wut i can get? and i was liek what does that mean an then in a really cute voice he goes .. baby ur so blonde. wut does i take what i can get mean? (link)
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ok if i was u i would dump that guy as fast as i could..he has player written all over him. HE TAKES WATEVER HE CAN BEFORE YOU REALIZE WHO HE IS. he probably makes out with any girl that wants too make out with him. im not sure how old you are or the guy but im guessing your like 17 18ish and he is the same and if this is true he probably made some girls lose their virginity if they didnt realize who he is. hopefully the girls he did play realized before anything happened.
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Ok im 14 and i have this friend. We have been friends sence before kindergarden. Now im in 8th Grade and we talk and hang out but we are friends with totally different groups of people. All the people she's hanging out with are real popular and preppy and totally not her. I normmal dont like thoses type of people. They are nice but probably would not care for me. She is now started to act like them and i dont really like it. I want to tell her and seee what she would say or if she would change, but i dont want her to get mad at me. I dont kno what to do please help!! (link)
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well everyone goes through a change and we have to respect that... i dont think u should start a argument about it but i dont want you to lose a friend...so you need to break it down lightly like just mentioning it...dont turn it into something big but when you notice the change at that time you can say.."__name___ ur acting strange." she would say what do you mean?"your not yourself are you trying to be something your not?" She might make a face or something. Do not push it but once in a while mention it. REmind her of your old times remind her of how close you guys were. Maybe get some of your old friends that you guys shared and go someplace so she remembers that she was loved for being herself and she does not need to pretend to be something she isnt for friends. remind her she has friends.
hope i helped
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ok theres a birthday party tonight.. this one kid (john) likes me alot.. hes nice and really cute but he can be obnoxious and makes up stuff alot.. theres this other kid(tom) who i like as a good friend.. and he doesnt like john and him finding out that i hooked up with john will make him mad.. i might like tom more than a friend.. and john wants to do something tonight with me (make out).. ive never kissed a guy before.. and i dont know which one i want to kiss.. and i dont know how to kiss! please help! (link)
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hmm..your in a sticky situation..
1)you need to take a deep breath and stop panic...if you relax your herat might open.
2)our hearts are very tricky... you need to really look deep in your heart and see who you like more...who was by your side in your time of need...look at all the positive and negative sides of each boy
3)since you are not sure who you like more it might not be a good idea to make-out at the party...john might think that you like him the most ...then tom might back off beacuse your taken
4)it would be a great idea to see who u like more then date the person then you will worry about kissing but not rght now..
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Okay, lemme give you a little background. I'm 17, and a girl, first off. My boyfriend is 18. We've been together for over 15 months.
In my last relationship, the guy lied to me, and cheated on me, then lied to me about lying to me and cheating on me.
That combined with my mother's constant "He doesn't mean it, words don't mean a thing" kind of spiels involving my boyfriend has made me completely untrusting.
But the problem really, is it's hurting our relationship. I mean, I'm not jealous. I'm not controlling, and we have a great thing going here. I'm just afraid to trust him. There's always this little voice in the back of my head, saying "he doesn't mean it," or "he has some ulterior motive". It's driving me absolutely crazy, this constant dread in the back of my mind that he'll go up to me one day and say "Oh, by the way, I met someone else. Have a nice life."
I mean, most people have the problem that they trust blindly and get hurt, but NOOO. I don't trust at all, and hurt the other person, and I HATE to do that. It's hurting me to hurt him. I love him with every fiber of my being, and I'm sick of being afraid to trust him - to trust anyone, really.
Relationships need to be based on trust. Without trust, there is no relationship. I hate my trust problems, they're kinda...not good.
Anyone have any advice? (link)
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is there any reason for you not to trust? does he do anything that might be sespicious? if not then you have to take a risk and trust him. Like you said a relationship needs trust or it will not work. You do not want to hurt him so trust him if you think he is not cheating or lieing. Its a risk but everyone has to take it. you are still young...this will happen a lot, if this relationship does not work out. If it doesnt you have to keep your head up high and you need to be looking for the right person. IF he says oh i found someone else have a nice life well that means hes not the one for you. if he cant see how great u are and he cant see your personality then hes not the one for you. you have to understand that your heart will be broken a couple of times before you find the right person but think of it as a journey you have to go through to reach that person. remember everyone goes through this journey..your not alone.
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