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Should I tell her??
Ok im 14 and i have this friend. We have been friends sence before kindergarden. Now im in 8th Grade and we talk and hang out but we are friends with totally different groups of people. All the people she's hanging out with are real popular and preppy and totally not her. I normmal dont like thoses type of people. They are nice but probably would not care for me. She is now started to act like them and i dont really like it. I want to tell her and seee what she would say or if she would change, but i dont want her to get mad at me. I dont kno what to do please help!!
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well everyone goes through a change and we have to respect that... i dont think u should start a argument about it but i dont want you to lose a friend...so you need to break it down lightly like just mentioning it...dont turn it into something big but when you notice the change at that time you can say.."__name___ ur acting strange." she would say what do you mean?"your not yourself are you trying to be something your not?" She might make a face or something. Do not push it but once in a while mention it. REmind her of your old times remind her of how close you guys were. Maybe get some of your old friends that you guys shared and go someplace so she remembers that she was loved for being herself and she does not need to pretend to be something she isnt for friends. remind her she has friends.
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hey i also hang out with the popluar preppy people and once a prep always a prep she wont change so i wouldnt ask and if you love her enough you will just tell her you like her nad dont let the differences of groups of people stand in the way if love
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If you need to tell someone about how you feel about the way they change or who they hang out with, you should definitely tell them. Talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. If she has been your friend for a long time, then she should understand and she shouldn't get mad. It's alright for her to hang out with people that she normally wouldn't and it's alright for her to change but you should still talk to her.
-Karen
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You can't help if she's changed, if she has and wants to be someone else let her. You should tell her how you feel, but I can't guaruntee anything to happen, but you should tell her just to let her know, and to make yourself feel better, to see if you can do something.
Em
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That is a really hard decsion. But, i would tell her and see what happens, she'll get over it. Or you could hang out with he alot more, and be her frend, and maybe she'll change. I f you tell her say as a friend i need to tell you thtt, or you could tell her on AOL, AIM, MSN, w.e chat.
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