heyy my name is kristy, im 16 jerseyy girl. I no alot about life, and ive watched many many movies about it. Ive been through tragics and joys, so check out my advice column. Ask all you want! x0o have fun!!!
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Member Since: February 21, 2005
Answers: 40
Last Update: July 28, 2005
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My 16 year old female best friend is dating my 17 year old male cousin who just moved in with her because of family problems! I am okay with all of this but I am not okay with the fact that they have been having sex for over a year now. The problem is she hasn't had her monthly since May, but she hasn't been sick or anything. Is it true that having a lot of sex can mess up your monthly? Also: should we buy a test to see if she is pregnant or tell her parents before we do that?
Help For Baby's Sake:
Godmother Of My Best Friend's Baby At 17 (link)
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Buy like one of those pregnancy test, like "first response" or some other brands like that. Then immeditly tell the parents! Just if she is pregnant for the babies sake.
goodluck _ advicechick
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My boyfriend wants me to kiss him before he kisses me. At least I think so. It seems like it because after we go somewhere together...for example we went to the movies. When I got home i was talking to one of his friends online and he said hows come you didnt kiss him? And I think he should kiss me first!!! What should I do?? (link)
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maybe hes been afraid, like a little nervous..im not sure but kiss him first and see how it goes he'll elvolve to you and be more comfortable
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my friend is one of those people who is geneticly(frakishly)super skinney. no matter how much she eats or how lazy she gets she stays the same size. she is a great friend but sometimes she can be very inconsiderate of other people's feelings about their weight.she dosnt know how it feels to be fat or to feel fat. and she makes fun of people who look fat or chubby to her. this really makes me mad but being the quiet person i am i never say anything.im afraid if i confront her she will get upset with me because she dosnt understand.how do you think i should talk to her about it? (link)
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One of my really good friends we always says has a tapeworm, because shes so skinny and she eats like more than a grownup but never gains anything. I think you should tell her how you feel and say its a little mean to say things like that because you dont no how people feel right next door.
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Hey everyone i just have on really short question... Okay for some reason liek i started to liek kinda shake , my hads shake a lot now, and i am strating to feel week and i have no energy, does anyone know why this is happening, like i get enough sleep, but for some reason i like still shake?
Thanx
I rate!!
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Have you ever heard of Michael J. Fox?? Well, he has this disease where his hands and body shake uncontrolably, and its serious. You should ask your mom and or a doctor.
x0o goodluxk and hope all goes well
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My boyfriend says that I ignore him! And I don't think I am! I talk to him whenever I see him and between almost every class and everything! I dunno if because usually my friends are around he doesn't want to talk or what. I've tried talking to him more and talking to him when no one else is around. Is he just like really shy or what? Cause it's like really annoying when he says that I don't talk to him or else I ignore him! Help! (link)
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Maybe your bf is shy, he wants to spend alot of time with you.. call him on the phone or talk on AIM,AOL,MSN, something like tht. Talk to him about stuff, and let him no you care for him. maybe, hes not one of thse people tht dont liek to hang around their gf friends, and just want you. Idk im not sure but talk it out and if you really like the guy thn tell him how you feel.
x0o goodluck
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hey.. im a 23/m... my mom and my xgirlfriend are like really close. well, we all live at a campsite and we are all really close, there's like, a bunch of friends living together, but i dont really have to explain that. well, they are really close because we've all known eachother since we were like 6, and all the older ones were like, 40. anyway. well, i really think i still like her, a little, but we broke up because i came in drunk and she got upset, and well we were gonna get engaged but it didnt work out. nd now her and my mom are really close and its bothering me a little, because now im all awkward around her, even though ive known her my whole entire life. (link)
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Show her that you are a respnsible, and mature. Be nice and don;t mind that they are friends, because it mioght get her back.
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hey, me and my boyfriend, were both 18, want to get married, and his mom has absolutely no problem with it, because she already considers me her daughter, but my dad is totally against it. what should i do (link)
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My parents got married at 18 years of age, now i have a 21 year old brother, 29 year old sister and a 15 year old brother. It was hard for them, my parents had no money, bc they were poor. They had to work, and work, and work, and it was really hard. Things go good and bad, wait at least till your 19 or 20, bc then you'll be more mature. Get a good job, but if ur in college save up for a house and money for the famiy at least wait a year or two.
goodluck and wen u do get married congrads!! x0o
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i know its dumb, but i always get emotional on the last day of school. this year, im graduating 6th grade and im afraid ill cry and look dumb. (link)
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cry all you want, its ok i would cry too. And if dumb boys say "why are you crying??" ignore them
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Ok so this is whats going on: I'm 16 (so is he) and a sophmore. Lately Ive been hanging out a lot with this guy from another school. He's great! Really funny, good looking, into soccer, can drive (lol thats always a PLUS), lots of the same friends.. you get it right? Ok well there are some problems that i need some advice on!! 1)He goes to another school. Its really close to mine but its a catholic school. 2) I cant tell if he likes me as much as I like him. And I cant tell if he's like this with every other girl. I was talking to my friend about him and she was like "yeah well who wouldnt like him?!" ...i want a relationship but i dont want to speed into it. I dont want to be liking a guy who 452456875242578 other girls like. 3)He's into some bad stuff.. but he knows I dont like it very much. Other than that he's great!!! He even let me drive his car through the parking lot :) it was so cute since i dont even have my permit yet and he didnt let anyone else drive at all. And he has the most adorable smile ever! whoa i really have no idea what to do.. PLEASE HELP! I'll rate since its so long
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He might be rele rele rele nice, and cuet, but if hes into bad stuff..meaning...drugs? beer? smoking?? any of that i wouldnt like him anymore he might be nice to you but not always to everybody else, see if he likes u, and flirt a little moer, and if u get a kiss, talk him out of w/e bad stuff hes doing.
x0o gooducKK
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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend (link)
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OMG DO YOU STILL NO WHERE THE GUY IS TAkE HER TO THE POLICE AND TELL, and if she doesnt want to go go by urself bc tht can screw up the rest of her
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see theres this guy at school and hes really hot...we never really talk but sometimes he shows interest in me and i know i have an interest in him, but we've never really actually talked, sometimes i feel like shy around him and my face gets a bit hot, so then i dnt want to talk to him with my face red...but like my bff she said she liked him a bit, but shes extremely shy...like when she likes a guy, she jus obsesses over him and freaks out everytime hes near, but she never really does anything...so ya i dont want to tell her i like him...because i kno this is all jus gonna come around and bite me in tha a$$...i really want to get to know him better even only as friends...how do i do that?!
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As a freiend tell her, you both are shy and both never do anythng, so get confidence, believe in urself, and talk to the guy...
x0o ggood luck
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Hi,
Sorry if this is gross.
I have really heavy periods and I know that they might settle down (I've only had four so far, but they have been really bad - I can't walk more than 10 steps without having to rush to the toilet) eventually, but is there anything (other than going to the doctors, something I will only do as a last resort) I can do to make them even a little bit lighter? I dunno, natural remedies, food to avoid, drink less...anything?!
I also seem to have like a really weak bladder or something when I'm on my period and I always need the toilet (like always, and I do 'go' when I go to the toilet). Is there something wrong there? If so (or not) what can I do to make it so it isn't so bad? I've tried drinking less and even drank nothing on one day but it makes no difference.
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OK, tell your mom. Tell your doctor, make an appointment and go to him/her idkk. That might be a problm bc you are losing alot of blood. USe a tampon and a pad {superlarge} and take medicene.
x0o good luck
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me and my bf like each other ALOT and i always have fun with him... lately he's been acting different in a good way though. like hes been talkin to me everytime he gets he kisses me more often and stuff like that. does this mean he wants to take it to the next level in our relationship? or is does he just like me alot (link)
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I think so, and if you do don;t go too far. Your still young, and be glad that you are. HE PROBOLY LIKES YOU ALOT!
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does any one no any tricks to making deoderant last longer?? thanks a bunch (link)
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Put it on in the mornign, thn a fragerence in. Everytime you go to the bathroom put it on and the fragerence. Try it.
x0o goodlcuk
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How do you know if a guy likes you? I am in Middle school and 13 years of age. My friend and me think that this guy in 4 out of 6 of my classes and sometimes he's seems to have a crush on me. Please help me understand. (link)
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Do you like him?? If you do, then flirt, and make him fall in love with you. Ask someone to see if he likes you.\\
goodluck x0o
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Ok well this may sound very dumb but here it goes . . . In P.E. we're doing swimming. Today I drowned during the class they were obviously able to resusatate me. I'm embarassed to go in school on monday. The girls in my school are very catty and news spreads fast at my school. I don't remember much of it. All I remember is trying to do a back dive into the pool and all of the water being pushed out of my lungs and trying to breathe next thing I know I'm laying o the hard floor with my class mates staring over me and the lifeguard. It was horrible and terrifying. How should I deal with the girls at school? Is it true that I could get Peunomia (sp?).
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IGNORE IT! DOn't care what people say aboiut you, and tell them the truth.
x0o goodluck
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What do you do if your friend tells you to find someone new, because they like the same person you do and say they like them back? I believe it to be a bit harsh. If your friend cared for you, wouldn't they just leave it alone instead of saying something like that?
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I had this same situation, but i dumped him bc i made her in pain. It hurt me and him, but i askd people and they said that your Bff isnt incharge of ur relationships. She'll get over it in time, and no guy should break a friendship, and if he does than that wasn't really a good friendship at all.
good luck x0o
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13/f..Me and my best friend are going to florida (Disney World) over spring break and we are SO excited but also nervous. We promised eachother we'd both find guys to hang out with because were both single! But were both kinda shy to strangers and we dont know how wed meet people.? Were probably going to be at the pool alot cuz our hotel has a wicked nice pool and well of course be at Disney! HeLp!! (link)
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Well, lose the shyness, and buy a bikini. If you get a guy show him your personality, and who you rele are. If that doesn't work, thn maybe it wasn't ment to be..
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people at school are starting to say i smell...
i dont understand, i wear deodorant and i wash with soap when im in the shower...i use shampoo and conditioner too so i cant think of what it could be. they have been saying this for a while and i used to think that they said it just to make me feel bad and it is starting to hurt my feelings...what can i do to smell better? (link)
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Do you play sports?? Use Herbel Essence, that alwats has a good smell 2 it. How often do you shower? Use a deoterent that last long, you could try using fragerences. bring deoterent in your backpack or a pocket so everytime you go to the bathroom, put it on and sray a fragerence.
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OK, this might sound stupid on my part but i just want to know for sure and not question it
I've never had sex, but my cherry popped while being fingered. does that mean im not a virgin anymore.
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It doesn't you had sex, you are still a virgin. You actually have to have it.
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