Question Posted Saturday February 26 2005, 10:20 pm
see theres this guy at school and hes really hot...we never really talk but sometimes he shows interest in me and i know i have an interest in him, but we've never really actually talked, sometimes i feel like shy around him and my face gets a bit hot, so then i dnt want to talk to him with my face red...but like my bff she said she liked him a bit, but shes extremely shy...like when she likes a guy, she jus obsesses over him and freaks out everytime hes near, but she never really does anything...so ya i dont want to tell her i like him...because i kno this is all jus gonna come around and bite me in tha a$$...i really want to get to know him better even only as friends...how do i do that?!
thx...
HowOriginal45 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:23 pm: Sit by him in class, or pass notes to him, I know thats what I would do. If you don't want your friend to know don't tell her there are somethings that are best unknown. Just talk to each other, after you guys get real comfortable just talking at school talk on the phone. Once you get to know him and he seems interested then go for it. Its a all or nothing situation, and if he doesn't like you oh well its not like he will just say "hey! I don't think we should be friends" just because you like him. But if he does stop being your friend all because you like him then he isn't worth your time.
Hope I was any help
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advicechick123 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 10:59 pm: As a freiend tell her, you both are shy and both never do anythng, so get confidence, believe in urself, and talk to the guy...
Karen answered Saturday February 26 2005, 10:43 pm: If you want to get to know this guy better, start talking to him online but first get his screen name if you don't have it. Talking to someone online is quite easier and you can get to know him better. Once you get to know him, start hanging out with him and talk to him at school. If you don't want your friend to be mad at you just because you are taking this guy away from her, invite her when you hang out with this guy. Just talk to this guy, get to know him, and hang out with him.
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iNdEeD2isBaK answered Saturday February 26 2005, 10:36 pm: just kinda tag along with him and laugh with him and forget your fears when your a round him...think if you had a chance to meet brad pitt you would not freeze up cuz then youd never get to tlk with him!
hope i helped
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ImHere4u answered Saturday February 26 2005, 10:34 pm: Get his screen name or something and talk to him online because I find it really easy to talk to people that way. Then you'll eventally start talking in school, on the phone ect. And so your freind doesnt feel like your trying to steal him from her, invite her somwhere if you guys ever go out and she'll see how you guys are closer and she ont be so pissed off like your personally attacking her.
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Saturday February 26 2005, 10:33 pm: well you just gotta talk to him. and even tho your friend likes him, it doesn't mean she atomatically gets dibbs on him. the only way you can make him a better friend is for you to talk to him. and if you talk with a blushing face, that will give him a sign that you like him. and then maybe if your lucky he'll ask you out. [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
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