Hey everyone! I'm here to help you out! But I'm only 13 so I may not be able to answer some questions well! But I'll still try and help!
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see theres this guy at school and hes really hot...we never really talk but sometimes he shows interest in me and i know i have an interest in him, but we've never really actually talked, sometimes i feel like shy around him and my face gets a bit hot, so then i dnt want to talk to him with my face red...but like my bff she said she liked him a bit, but shes extremely shy...like when she likes a guy, she jus obsesses over him and freaks out everytime hes near, but she never really does anything...so ya i dont want to tell her i like him...because i kno this is all jus gonna come around and bite me in tha a$$...i really want to get to know him better even only as friends...how do i do that?!
thx... (link)
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Sit by him in class, or pass notes to him, I know thats what I would do. If you don't want your friend to know don't tell her there are somethings that are best unknown. Just talk to each other, after you guys get real comfortable just talking at school talk on the phone. Once you get to know him and he seems interested then go for it. Its a all or nothing situation, and if he doesn't like you oh well its not like he will just say "hey! I don't think we should be friends" just because you like him. But if he does stop being your friend all because you like him then he isn't worth your time.
Hope I was any help
((Steph))
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Okay, I'm really sorry if this gets kinda long, but you need to know the whole story, but I'll try and keep it short.
Okay, so last year, my boyfriend (we'll call him charlie )of a year and 4 months broke up with me. At the time, I was upset, as anyone would be, but I somehow got over it very quickly. This is part of my predicament. Ok, well he broke up with a month before prom, and I, being to young to go to prom, wasn't going. I had a dress, a hair appointment, everything, and dumped. So, I turned to a guy friend (we'll call him David)that I had just found out liked me. We ended up going out, and went to prom (all after 2 weeks after the split-up). Well, at the time, i was fighting the idea that iw as on a rebound and using him, but now i see that that is exactly what i was doing. I broke up with him after 2 months, because he started asking questings about *Charlie and things got complicated....Ever since that, every guy i go out with, somehow doesn't compare to *david, and i'm starting to miss him. Now, almost a year later just out of the blue, out of nowhere, i realize i want him back, and its all i can think about. I keep thinking that, yeah, i was using him to make Charlie jealous, and i never really gave him a chance. I know that he still likes me, we ALWAYS flirt, and my best friend has talked to him. I guess the advice i'm looking for is, should i talk to him? I'm really afraid of trying it, and hurting him again, because that would hurt me more, knowing that i did it all over again.
I really appreciate you guys reading all this, and answering my questions.
Thanks again! (link)
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If you can't stop thinking about him then yeah you should talk, but that conversation shouldn't start out about getting back together. You should talk about what happens if you guys get back together, but if you don't want to lose him as a frined if you guys break up then thats what you need to discuss. Tell him how you feel but that if and when you guys break up you don't want that to be the end of your relationship all together you still want to have a "I'm your best frined, Your my best friend" kind of relationship. Or what ever kind of friendship you want/have. If you think he still likes you then give it a shot, if he doesn't then oh well he now knows you like him but he won't throw away a friendship just because you like him, and if he likes you well then its celebration time you got your man back! As for hurting him and yourself take the relationship slow that way if it doesn't last very long you won't have already done something life changing or something so special that it would make you want to rip out your heart. I doubt that will happen though. From what I can tell about you and David you are really good friends and that ya'll mean alot to each other! So I hope things work out!
Hope I helped!
((Steph))
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well i know this may sound weird but me nd my boyfriend were arguing ! we started dating the 31st of Decemeber nd our 2 month is rolling around but there isnt a 31st in February? how do you celebrate an anniversary if that date isnt there ? (link)
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Celebrate it on the first day of March or the last day of Feburary. That way its as close as the original date as possible.
--Steph--
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There's a 'rock event' (like a disco but with rock music) that goes on in my town every month or so, and most of my mates go to it. Out of the seven of us, five go (I don't). This place has a really bad rep. and most people who go there drink, smoke and do drugs, but of course my friends parents have NO IDEA about this. All of my five friends who go have gotten into smoking, and two of them are serious binge drinkers. One guy I know but am not great friends with also goes to this place and has gotten into illegal drugs, as has one girl I was kinda 'hi in the hallway' friends with, and she got expelled and charged by the police for it. Now my problem is, I will NOT stand by and watch my friends slowly kill themselves with a load of alcohol, drugs and cigarettes, but how can I stop them? I can't say anything about how dangerous it is because that's like preaching and they know the dangers but don't care. I am thinking of breaking friends with them...three of them are moving into my house in a couple of months and I have told the two of them moving in with me that smoke and drink that they can forget moving in if they think they can smoke in my house and they just laughed. I don't want to preach and I know if they don't want to stop I can't make them...but what do you think I should do? I am NOT standing by and watching them die. There's also the added problem that I am extremely asthmatic and being in a house with smokers would (I've checked this with a doctor) kill me within a month, but my friends won't listen to this either. I love them all loads but I am not putting up with this any more and I am not putting my life on the line because they are too selfish to stop smoking. CAN I make them see sense? Or should I just break friends and move on?
Thanks!! (link)
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Maybe if you tell them you don't want to be friends with them if they keep doing all of these things they might see what they are doing is bad. Hold a convention, have all the people that really care about them (plus you) come together and show them what they are doing is wrong and can have consequences that will hurt not only them but the ones that really care about them, and if they don't stop ya'll will be forced to break away from them. They might realize that losing you guys isn't worth what they are doing.
I hope I gave you atleast one good idea, and I hope I helped, if not I'm sorry!
--Steph--
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