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My names Jordyn,I`m 13 years old and live in little old Delaware. I was orginially born in California

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Why cant they say dont phunk with my heart on z100 (or whatever radio station you listen to) they say dont mess with my heart. it isnt a bad word!! please help me im so confused ill rate high!

They say that in the video and everything. Probably when they were puttinq it out or makinq the video, they thought don`t phunk with my heard would be more original and more appealing. That`s just what I`m asuminq but I`m not sure that the actual reason would be?

Maybe this helps?, x0x Jordy|♥

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Does anyone know how to interpret dreams or w/e?
(Sorry it is so long, but it is interesting) Well, if you think you can help here it is:

I was in a car with a few eighth graders I knew pretty well (this is probably because I was in a play with them last night) One of the eighth grders was driving (kelsey) and so we went riding around for a while. I can't clearly remeber where we stopped, but I know we stopped somewhere. I got out, and came back in. While I was trying to buckle my seatbelt, Kelsey was buckling hers as well (she was still driving) and the car started to slide down a hill that broke off into a cliff. At the bottom was a shallow river. We tried the brakes but they didnt work in time. The car slid down and landed in the river. None of us were hurt. It was actually kind of thrilling.
So we get out of the car as it begins to float down the river (at this point in the dream it is more like a van) It stops at one point (again I can't remeber) and we get out on this dock-barge thing. We enter what appears to be a big mall. At the enterance it has stores, all with perfect before their name(example: Perfect Fine Jewlery)
We were walking through and stuff and then the next part I remeber is that there were none of our parents there and we were sort of releaved. Then my friend Liz (who hadn't been in the car before) was there and she met this really nice guy. They were PERFECT for each other. Then I met this guy, and so both she and I were going out with them.The funny thing was, that "mall"
was actually the whole town. It was all indoors. Then my chorus teacher (who had directed the play) was there and said we needed to find a way to get home. We stayed a few weeks because we couldn't bare to leave everyone that we had become friends with. Then we left (I forget how we got home-I think I woke up then)but not before Liz and I each kissed outr "men" and said the sad goodbyes.

I know. Weird, right? I also write ( I won this kids in print contest before and have also writeen many plays) and was wondering if this would make a good story if I substitute some names and (obviously go more in depth and come up with a better theme) I WILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!!

lol, i have no idea how to interpret that dream but it was deffinitly very intresting and amuising. It'd make a great story so I deffinitly think you should write one about it !

Have fun with it, x0x Jordy|♥

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Ok, well i've been best friends with this boy since like the beginning of this year, which might not sound long, but we're really close. So anyway, i liked him at the beginning of the year before we were friends, but i stopped before anything happened. Then we became best friends, because he found out and we started talking more. So then just a few days ago, Friday actually, I wasnt at school, because i went to Maryland, so i left him a comment on his xanga that said, I'm gonna miss you today :-) im sorry i couldnt come to you LAST baseball game, i REALLY wanted to.

QUESTIONS::
1) Why didnt he seem bothered by the rumors?
Because people are spreading stuff, and bothering you about it which is sending you mixed messages about if you really do like him or not.
2) How do we stop these rumors, theyre too hard to ignore.
Yeah, they will be hard to ignore but you're just going to have to deal with it untill they die off. This is your best friend here and that's it. They need to learn to accept that. Don't stop talking to him though because of the rupors, that stupid.
3) Why does everyone think i like him?
Well that comment is sort of hinting to the fact that you like him .. but probably because you talk to him alot, hang out with him ect. But that what you do with best firends.. they'll eventually see it.
4) Why couldn't i stop thinking about him? Because of all the chaos thats going on. But you really have to think, do you like him ? because to me, it sounds like he likes you. That's why he guessed himself as someone you like hoping you'd say yes and was so curious to know who you like. But if you really think of him as ONLY a best friend, don't ruin that and stick to the other guy you like. You could probably ruin a friendship that means alot to you by goinq out with them and not really liking them as a boyfriend then eventually breaking up than just staying friends. so concider it.

Good luck, x0x Jordy|♥

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well lately i keep questioning the relationship between my boyfriend and i. i analyze every little thing he says in letters,emails,on a site we both use,on the phone. i dont do it as often when him and i are together in person. i'm not sure what to make of it. perhaps i'm afraid of things ending and letely paranoid he will find someone else. the thing is he doesn't realize hes too good for me because i am his first girlfriend so i suppose he hasnt seen what exactly the best is yet.

Just relax, analyzinq every little thing won't do anything for the relationship but make it tense, like you are now. Yes, he still has alot to explore, but right now he's with you. And if he didn't like you and think you were the best thing for him right now, he wouldn't have picked you as his first. and that saying, "you never forget your fist love," is so true so what ever happens in the future.. you`ll always be apart of him. Young relationships end eventually for one reason or another and you'll both find someone new.. but enjoy it now and make the best of everything or else you'll have no good memories to remmeber.

Things will work out for the best, x0x JordY|♥

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I am 8 and pregnat my boy friend And I did it at a partie I am having triplits.What do you think about that?true

I think that`s a lir because you wouldn't even have your period yet. He's probably not old enough to get you pregnant . If it was tru you should be a little more concerned and worried. but yeah ..

Have fun w/ that, x0x Jordy|♥

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Sorry if its long thats because im giving detail.

Well, it all started out at school I have a best friend named Tomas and hes the populariest guy in school, and he has a girl friend Haily, who is my best friend and shes the most populariest girl in school. Well Tomas and I sat at lunch next to each other and with our friends than all of a sudden we were all talking about dating and boyfriend and girlfriend and my friend goes will you go out with Holly? and he said maybe yeah, kinda. And he was right next to me and he said it out loud and everyone was like Ohhh you have a boyfriend Holly im like shh.. keep it on the low we may get in trouble than all of a sudden i like him to but he doesn't know and now im acting different around him because im scared he may hate me, and he likes me of who i am now, and i don't want to change who i am because i know he will not like me and i don't want that, and he has a girlfriend.. so what should i do? Its not stopping and im not just going to say Tomas i like you! its not that easy. and worse part i know im acting different when im around him.. i can't be me.. its hard around him.. PLEASE HELP ME!

I totally understand that because everyone always feels that way about someone eventually. Honestly though, the best thing to do is just try to be really good friends with him right now. Especially since this is your best friend. It might be hard but you don't want to be the cause of them breaking up and lose your friend and it won't be that bad. Your relationships don;'t last forever especially since they're popular. I'm sure she'll find someone new. So just hold it off for a little and knoinq untill they break uo your "jsut firends" will make it easier to talk to him.

It won't be long, x0x JordY|♥

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How did you get music on yours ... please help me thanks i will rate a 5 !!!!!
xxaskawayxx

If you have AIM I will send you the code w/ the dong you want! That, or e-mail me and I'll send it to you w/ directions.
AIM- qLam0ur PrinCess
e-mail- miniskirtz_x3@yahoo.com

x0x Jordy|♥

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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?

OR

still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

OR

what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!

I think it would be worse to go out with a guy just because he likes you. That would just make a dishonest relationship. Just tell him, "Okay, you have no idea how bad I feel about this. I sort of lyke someone else and I don't want to break your heart but.. don't you think it would be worse if I acted like I was still 100% in love with you if I really wasn't.. So, I don't want to lie to you and deffinitly don't want to hurt you but I think we should split up." There's no easy way to do it but that's whats got to be done and after that, don't go out with his best firend imeddiatly. Just give it some time fo him to mend.

Hope this is helpful, x0x Jordy|♥

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there is a girl at school that is a fashion diva
she makes fun of what i wear and i hate it what should i do

Next time she says something to you just tell her to shut the hell up. You don't need to worry about what other people think of you. Let her kno yeah, maybe you don't dress as perfectly as she does but ur fine with who you are, and how you dres so if she's got a problem with it, she just needs to deal with it cause u wont change for anyone but urself. If it continues, just ignore her & avoid her unltill she eventually lays off because she's bored.

Hope it works out, x0x Jordy|♥

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I've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months now (I'm 15/f) and things have been going great! We love eachother very much but lately he's been getting to protective of me. I'm sure many of you know what a "myspace" is, if not it's a site where you pretty much make/find friends. One of my friends that is a guy commented on almost all of my pictures telling me how beautiful I was and how lucky my boyfriend is to be dating me yadda yadda yadda. My boyfriend sees the comments and gets really mad because he said it's a "dick thing to do" for a guy to call another guys girlfriend "hot" and "sexy" and "beautiful". He said to me "I don't know what goes on in your school and I don't trust the guys there." So, now he's mad at me for not saying anything to the guys who were merely COMPLIMENTING me. I said to him that he should be happy that another guy is telling me that I'm pretty because you're the one that is dating me and you're the one who has my heart. He said that's not the point, he doesn't want other guys saying I'm pretty. He's driving me FREAKING INSANE! I don't know what to say to him! He's never been like this up until a few weeks ago! I can't convince him that there is nothing for him to worry about. What should I do? This is getting out of control.

Simply ask him, "Would you be mad and say something rude back if a girl told you you were hot?" That's all there is to it. And if he said he would, he's lyinq. And if he's lying, get one of you=r friends to tell him he's hot and show how he reacts to it. But after that you don't want him getting mad so just remind him again, that it doesn't matter to you what other guys think of you or even what other girls think of him.. it's him you love.

He'll eventually understand, x0x Jordy|♥

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For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx

Independance, Originality, or Personality.

Hope you lik one of there, x0x Jordy|♥

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My ex-b/f and I play this game where we ask each other any question and we have to answer truthfully. We found out we loved each other and all that stuff. Yesterday he asked how I felt when he hugged me and I poured my heart out then he says, "By the way I'm in love with someone else." He's going out with this girl who hasn't attended school until 3 days ago. Now my question is did he set me up? Did he try to hurt me or is he really that stupid? And I how do I cope? I love him and he has just ripped my heart out.

Well, ask him.. if he has to answer truthfull, just be lyke, so did u set me up or what was it.. And don't worry about boys. They're stupid. Just spent alot of time with your friends to keep your mind off him.It works. And remember, "There's plenty of fish in the sea" =)

Things will be fine eventually, x0x Jordy|♥

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i have a boyfriend.. we'll call him R. R and i have been dating for 7 months. The first 5 months were great! He's been starting to hit me, he kicked me, and I fell and I had a bump on my head last week. Last night he tried suffocating me. I've also been told about him flirting with about 5 other girls at school. 2 of them are some of my best friends. Oh, by the way, I'm only a freshman in high school. He's a sophomore. But anyway, I'm so sick of hearing about him doing other stuff with girls. He told me if i ever broke up with him, he'd ruin my life. What am I supposed to do? I am scared of him, but he'll do crap to ruin my life (believe me, he's done it to many.. trashed reps.. everyone hates that person, etc.) but what can i do? please help! i'm scared

Teacher, parent, COPS.. what even it takes ! That's not the way ANYONE should be treated no matter what this situation is. Not even this girls should you be concirned about, if he's beating you like that I would personally gotot the cops. Try talkinq othere girls he's dated and done this to , into going to the poilice with you.. Or some sort of high authority. Wow, don't deal with this any longer. I think your life it more important that some rep..

If you need any more help feel free to ask, x0x Jordy|♥

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ok so like i have those type shorts that everyone wears and they have a little cut on the side. Right you know what i am talking about? Well i have a bunch of those. Plus i have long legs with awesome thies and caves. My sister thinks i wear them way to short. I just think that the shorter the skinnier i look. When they are long i look short and fat. Then my sis gets some and she wears them shorter than i do and she is 10!!!!! I brought it up to her and she got p.o.ed! Isn't the reason we wear them short is b/c girls feel like they are sexier? Please help! Atleast now my sis can't blame for wearing them short! help!!!!

lol, if this is your little sister and she is TEN don't even sweat it. "If you've got it, why not flaunt it." A bathing suit is probably the most revealing thing you wear a in public, so compare that to shorts.. shorts cover up even more than that so how could they possibly too short and showing too much? And yeah, longs shorts do make peoplesn legs look stubbier and larger, so stick with the style that fits your body best.

I'm sure it looks great, x0x Jordy|♥

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ok there's this guy that I like and he and I are old friends. And now, looking back I think he liked me a few months ago, but doesn;t anymore. (i didn't like him then) Now I think he likes this other girl, who likes him back. If they started to go out i would be so upset, because I like him a WHOLE lot. What can I do to get him back??? help! please,i'll rate!

Wow, you really need to talk to him..fast! Don't loose somthinq that could be. And, this is something you're probably gunna have to do yourself. Maybe the reason he doesn't seem to lyke him anymore is because you didn't even realize those few months ago that he liked you. Let him know now ! Maybe those feelings are still there.And he'll be totally understanding i'm sure about everything since he does/did have a crush on you.

Go get him, x0x Jrody|♥

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[13/f] everyone at my school sees me as a shy person who always follows the rules and everything and thats not at all how i am! i got detention today and this kid saw me in the office [iv'e had detentions before, but i dont brag about it to look "cool" like all the other kids] and he was like "whoa! YOUR in DETENTION??" I feel like everyone knows me for someone i'm not and it's really starting to bug me. i'm not at all how anyone sees me, not even my own friends.. does anyone know how to like idk, show everyone "who i really am"? i know that sounds gay but i don't know how else to say it

Well, I don't think you should worry about what other people think of u. And also, detention isn't anything to brag about.. so where did you go wrong there? But, try doing alot of out of school things or extra caricualer activities so people can understand the real you since there's no rules to follow. And if you really wanna let thos eppl in school know(that you dont really hang out with) just open up a little. Like if you get detention "be like ugh.. i got detention and it's so borinq!" Just so tehy're aware of your not such a goodie good. It happens to you too. Just keep with not bragginq about it becuase it'll get old fast if you do.

Good luck, x0x Jordy|♥

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How do you become confident

Well, you have to belive in yourself. Never look down on anything about you. When you look in the mirrow, tell yourself your beautiful and when every you get attention from a guy.. take it as a HUGEST compliment. And when anyone ever does compliment you on annnyyyything, remember it. Socialize alot, and have alot of friends.Knowing you have a ton of friends always makes someone feel good. Hmm.. what else.. LOITS of social events !! and keep your schedual occupied =) It makes you feel good too when your always doing things with people.

I really hope this actually helps, x0x Jordy|♥

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my best friend thinks im lying to her but im really not and she just wont believe me i tried talking to her but it isnt helping!!! what else should i do??

I'm one of those people who take lyinq soo serious. I hate liars more than anything and it botheres me even more when I get accused of doinq it. If this is you BEST friend, she should have no reason not to trust what you say untill it's PROVEN to her that you can't be trusted. Let her kno how offensivly you take this and you could go on and on but if she's not goinq to trust and belive in what you have to say.. then there's not point in even being friend. I mean, what kind of relationship is that? Lyinq is too mcuh trouble, drama and not worth your time and neithere is a friend who belives that stuff.

You really don't need that, x0x Jordy|♥

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can over charging your ipod (mini) hurt it? because lately my battery will say its out..but i reset it and its full again or something like that. does anyone know why?

I don't actually have one and the reason I didn't get it for that reason. There's like a 1-3 year warinty. Something lyke that so it you haven't had it for long I woudl take it back and compain. Because it's a chargeable battery, it will eventually wear out and you'll have to constinally recharge it over and over. But lyke i said befor, it you haven't had it for long I would compin.

Shouldn't be like that yet, x0x Jordy|♥

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idk what category this is .. but i need a new s/n any one got ideas?

(things about me)
heart broken
kinda tall avage
i love ryan
hmmm...idk any thing else to put lol

please help

Broken Heartedx3
TheAvrqBr0kenx3

idk if ull like it?, x0x Jordy|♥

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