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I have been having a hard time lately and I feel a bit depressed. I have a person that I admire and we are real close friends but I just am not sure whether or not to talk to her. She is the same age as my mother (54) and has a son that is my age also,(14) I just feel silly going to her and talking. But really, is it silly? She is the only person I trust with my feelings and the things I am having problems with, Advicenators could not help with.
She has told me I can call anytime I have problems but I guess I don't want her son to know that I call his mother. (He use to be my crush....Long time ago....idiot now.) I also feel that she has enough things on her mind, such as, her work (she and her husband own a whole bunch of gas stations in and around WA state. Her 4 other sons also are in the buisiness.) and her family.
Should I just call her and talk? would I be a annoyance? (link)
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She said you can call her, so call her. If she has too many things on her mind or can`t talk, I`m sure she would tell you. You can`t keep your feelings bottled up too long.
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i moved this summer and was really, really worried about not being able to make new friends. my friends said that i would make friends in no time, and i did. but last weekend, i called my freind, and when i said i had to go, she asks, "why?" and i told her that i was going over to my new friends house, and she got all huffy and mad. its like she doesnt want me to make friends! i dont get her! it is confusing me alot, so if anyone has any good advice, please tell me.
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Make sure she knows she is still your friend. She might be a little jealous because she might be afraid she will lose you or you won`t spend time with her. I feel that way sometimes, but tell her you can have more than one friend.
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i just told one of my best friends kelly im bi and now she is acting weird around me. I imed her and shes like ummm hi and im like whats wrong and then she says well idk how to act around u anymore, and im really hurt, she treats me like im not wanted, not intentional, but it still hurts, what do i do be honest (link)
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If she is letting the fact you are a "bi" ruin your frienship, she might not be worth it. You are still the same person as you were before. Make sure she knows that.
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Ok theres this girl in one of my classes named june (named change of course) but anyways shes always bragging about what she has saying that shes rich , and usually talks about how *awesome* her car is, and how its a brand new car but she doesnt like it. Anyways shes new this year and i dont know if she wants to be my friend or not? how do i know if shes just saying all this stuff to impress me, or just really doesnt like me? I mean she brags about how she knows so many people already yet, when i see her shes always around just the usual two people. So i dont know if she wants to make new friends or what? any help? Thanks so much (link)
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Sometimes when people do that, it`s to cover up problems they have. I wouldn`t really worry about it. There are unforchantly a lot of conceeded people out there, I would just get used to it. If it annoys you that much, I wouldn`t be friends with her, but don`t be mean to her. Maybe if it really bothers you, you could talk to her about it. Just when you are around her, act like you don`t really care. Maybe she will get the point you are not interested.
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Hiya,
I like 'vintage' and ethnic-y (peasant, gypsy) clothes and I love having unique stuff...but I'm not sure exactly what to wear. I love all those things like tiered skirts and really, really long necklaces with cool beads but what else is there that would go with a 'vintage' kind of look? This is for every day wear. Thanks! (link)
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Get a Teen Vogue magazine which is all about fashion. There is a page in every issue where you can make your own clothes. Their clothes are different.. you might like it.
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me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please! (link)
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This is partly your fault. You should stick with guys in your age range. 11th graders are more mature then you and they probably would think a younger person is easier. There is nothing you can really do. I would just try my best to forget about it. And you shouldn`t be letting people do that to you at this age either, or at all.
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ok so me n my friend have been hangin out with each other a lot since the beggining of the year. u can eve consider us best friends. now all of a sudden she never calls me anymore, or wants to hang out. ts kinda like shes ignoring me. what is going on? (link)
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Been there.. Talk to her about it. Maybe there is something going on that you don`t know about or she may not want to talk about. I was friends w/ someone for about two years and then we made other friends. It`s okay if you don`t stay BEST friends, you can still be friends though. It`s normal to move on.
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Next week im flying to Hawaii alone in an aircraft, but i have a phobia for planes and i don't want to panic during the flight or cry. I can go on airplanes thats not a problem but im just scared. Does anyone know how to get rid of the phobia (link)
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There is nothing to be scared of. You are more safe in a plane, than in a car. The chances of something happening is slim. While you are on the plane, keep yourself occupied so you don`t think about it.
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im 16!
im scared to french kiss a guy and theres this one guy that i really like an he likes me to but everytime im with him i get scared an i just kiss him on the lips an no more. im scared im goign to do it wrong or something . i dunno what to do (link)
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If I were you, I wouldn`t really worry about it. If he breaks up with you or says something about the way you kiss, he isn`t worth it. Kissing isn`t eveything.
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I know there's probably a ton of questions out there like this, but i'm gonna ask it anyway. I love this guy to death and he's my friend. He just broke up with his g/f whom he was obsessed with. I don't really know how to get things going. He's absolutely amazing, and i'd do almost anything to be with him. Any advice? (link)
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Since the guy you like just broke up w/ his girlfriend, I wouldn`t get anything started just yet. Give it some time, and then take baby steps. Ask him out to dinner, go to a movie etc. After a while, maybe ask him out yourself. Or maybe he`ll be into you. But make sure it is a good time.
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