Question Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 2:42 pm
i moved this summer and was really, really worried about not being able to make new friends. my friends said that i would make friends in no time, and i did. but last weekend, i called my freind, and when i said i had to go, she asks, "why?" and i told her that i was going over to my new friends house, and she got all huffy and mad. its like she doesnt want me to make friends! i dont get her! it is confusing me alot, so if anyone has any good advice, please tell me.
Farren answered Thursday February 17 2005, 9:17 pm: Hey, I live in Florida! Anyways, I think your friend is just trying to let you know that she still cares about you and wants to keep in touch. Maybe she's scared you'll forget all your friends over here for your new Connecticut friends. If she only reacted that way in that one event, then it's by no means a big deal and I would pay no attention to it. Really, you should just think of it as a good thing, she still wanted to talk to you and because of that you know you haven't been forgotten and your friendship is still valued. Good luck with that situation hun, I'm sure it's nothing.
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Karen answered Thursday February 17 2005, 6:20 pm: Your friend probably just misses you and doesn't want anyone to take her place as your friend. Your friend should be "mad" that you have new friends. Maybe it's just that she was used to having you around and spending a lot of time with her before you moved away? Just talk to her and ask her why she is making you feel that you can't make any friends. Hope I helped :)
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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Thursday February 17 2005, 4:06 pm: She's probably a lil jealous... she probably wants you to be happy & make new friends... but she doesnt want u to forget about her... so let her know that she's still important to her... call her daily and make plans with her every other weekend or something... btw... i go to connecticut a lot... i usually go to Tolland and Hartford... what part do you live in? [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Thursday February 17 2005, 4:04 pm: well maybe she just thought that since you made new friends.. there isnt room for you guys to talk anymore. so i think you should let her know that no matter what you guys will always be friends and that you can never have too many friends. i hope everything works out! ♥ [ pRiiNcEsS_bRyT's advice column | Ask pRiiNcEsS_bRyT A Question ]
candiapplebabe answered Thursday February 17 2005, 4:01 pm: yea Ive moved to- it isnt hard to make friends but u will always miss your old friends and they will miss you- next time your friend says something like that just say- dont worry no one can ever replace you- or something like that- hope that i helped! [ candiapplebabe's advice column | Ask candiapplebabe A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Thursday February 17 2005, 3:25 pm: She's probably just worried that you're going to forget her just tell her that shes your best friend and no matter what happens between them that she will always be friends with her
but tell her that you need friends because shes lives futher away and you dont get to see her as much.
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Hellheart answered Thursday February 17 2005, 3:01 pm: She's not mad that you made a new friend, she's mad that you cut her off because of this new friend.
She is kind of jealous, and you need to assure her that you'll still be good friends with her, but that there are other people you want to be friends with also, and you feel it's kind of unfair that she wants you to ignore them for her; unfair not only to them, but to you also. [ Hellheart's advice column | Ask Hellheart A Question ]
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