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me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please!
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Act like it never happened and forget about it. Pretend like you don't even know him or forget everything about him. Also that's what a lot of guys do (not all guys, but most) and now you've learned a lesson, didn't you?
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well hunny, don't worry it'll all be ok! some people make decsions in their lives that they are going to regret, and this is one of yours. Now when you date a guy i think you should try to look for someone who is more of your age and try to get to know them and be with them for more then 2 weeks, because then you will really know the person well if you want to become more serious and intimate with them. well goodluck sweetie, and keep your head up high! everything will be alright!
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I think you should kick him in the balls. No guy should ever use a girl like that (exspecially one that is alot younger than them). Talk to a counselor or someone you trust about how you feel. Besta Luck
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This is partly your fault. You should stick with guys in your age range. 11th graders are more mature then you and they probably would think a younger person is easier. There is nothing you can really do. I would just try my best to forget about it. And you shouldn`t be letting people do that to you at this age either, or at all.
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Well my advice would be first of all never trust anyone who is one or more grades higher than you because you will always get in some sort of trouble or get your heart broken the next day.I think you should just forget what happened and make a better choice next time before going out with someone that is in a higher grade than you especially that much higher.I hope I helped with your problem!
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This guy you're talking about is getting me really pissed off right now. You betta listen cause im on a roll! Anyway, some guys are so freakin stupid! I mean, girls arent just there to be sex bitches I mean, cmmon! If he abused you like that then he got another thing coming. I mean, you lost your virginity to a guy who just used you. Im not blaming you at all, but this is what you do. Just go up to this guy and slap him on the face. "You idiot! Why did you do this to me? You took away my happiness...my cheer...my virginity! I dispise you, how could you do something like this?!" I know that I dont know what youre feeling right now but if I was there right now with you I would tell that guy off because it disgusts me when guys do stuff like that just to get in people's pants. Tell me how it works out, I'm soooo sorry I got worked up, hun, I'm just so mad at this guy...
xOo Nikki xO
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Well hey hun, ouch thats got to hurt. Here's a heads up. You are on a different level than he is. He's older and wiser and know what he wants. You're a younger girl who's hormones are up in a heaval. You screwed up babe. And now you have to deal with it. My best advice would be this: Stay away from him. I dont care that you shared such a wonderful experience, he's a bad guy. He TOLD you flat out that he wanted you to get into your pants. You know now that he is bad for you. So stay away from him. Also MOVE ON. I know this is hard for you to do. You gave him so much and you got nothing in return and now you have to deal with it. You're in 7th grade, you're young and prolly not even paying attention to anything I'm saying. You're prolly thinking "She doesnt know what she's talkin about, she isnt me" Well hunnny, guess what, I was you. And now I'm getting over it. Its effected me in many ways, and I'm just now dealing with it. Back to you. You're young, you're hurt, and now you have to grow up and deal with it. Its hard I know, but you Have to. Thats all you can do babe. Grow up.
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First of all let me say this...he's a complete asshole! Aright...try to go up to him and just start sayin shit about him. Or try to suduce him into doing it with you again and if that works then do the meanist and most HURTFULL thing you can think of (hopefully you know what I mean) and when you do that run as fast as you can away from him!
Thats what I would do!
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Well you didnt jus ask one person this question but i would like to help anyways.. um well thats kinda sad that this has happened to you and to you at such a young age.. but theres nothing really you can do bout it.. it was a mistake everybody makes em in life weather we like it or not..it dosent feel good at all to feel used and i know that..but maybe tell your mom or somebody bout it maybe they can helpo you..much luv dez
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dont EVER let a guy treat you like that again. you cant go back and change things but you can learn from your mistakes. if you had sex with him you can press charges. your underage and he took advantage of you. but yeah, be careful next time and dont get with older guys. at around 17 most guys are assholes so stay away untill you can stand up for yourself.
~ANGE
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Just to tell you, you asked everyone this question not someone in specific.
If he’s in 11th I’m guessing he is 16 or 17. You are most likely what 13 14? I think you should tell your mother what happened and how he used you. You can file a restraining order but you can't really do too much else because you are both still under age. You should get counseling and seek help so it doesn't leave you traumatized. I hope stuff works out.
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