Well hello... I'm just hanging out.. I'm the blonde in black in the pic... I've lived life... loved and lost... life sucks and we all must learn how to get over it. Live it up ppl... but dont be stupid.
Gender: Female
Location: Somewhere close to the moon
Occupation: Princess of Darkness
Age: 17
Member Since: February 20, 2005
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ok well im 14/f n i dont consider my self as " ugly" but i still didnt have my first kiss but im not like some girls out there who are like freaked out bcuz they aint sure how to kiss. im ready n all but i want to kiss soon hehe. i dotn wanna b like 17 n still didnt kiss so my question is it better to tell the guy that you are about to kiss that you never kissed b4 or just go with the flow.srri its kinda long. (link)
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There are two ways to handle it... go with the kiss and then tell him it was the first, or tell him and see if he freaks out... its kinda your choice.
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ive recently been coughthing up blood and ive also had a high temperature and sometimes find it hard to breath occasionally it comes and goes what could it be? My mom and dad are alcoholics so they are never really at home i have told my mom thoe and she ses it will pass is that true. (link)
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You need to go to a doctor. If your parents are paying enough attention to you tell your school nurse or someone else that could help you. You need to see a doctor, caughing up blood is not natural.
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I want to lost weigh by June for FL but I need some motivation. Everyday I wake up saying today im going on a diet but then it always turns out the next day and then again the next day. I need some motivation, does anyone know any good ideas to keep me motivated to me goal? please help (link)
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The best way I find to motivate myself is find a pair of shorts that I want to fit me (now dont go any farther than a size lower than what you are now)I put them on, cry about how fat I feel, then hang them so I can see them. So when I wake up in the morning I remember how gross I felt in the shorts and work on losing weight so I can show those evil shorts who's boss. They will fit me darnit.
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what do you say to a guy when you want them to fall in love with you?.. irate 5s. (link)
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Fuck me NOW!!!!!!!!!! Then tell them something kinky like... "I shave"... "And if you want me to, I'll sleep with women."
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can u get herpes from giving someone without herpes head? like do they have to have the disease for u to get it? PLEASE HURRY! im very worried :( (link)
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Herpes, in most cases, has to be active in order to get it from someone else. So if they had herpes on their penis and you gave them head, you could get it. Same with kissing, if you kiss someone with a cold sore (herpes simplex one) you can get a cold sore, but if there is not an active herpes thing then you are most likely not going to get it.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we really want to have sex like early this month but I always get my period in this beginning of the month and we both don’t want to wait. Can you have sex on your period..have any of you ever done that before. Is it safe?I rate 5’s. (link)
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You can still get Pregnant on your period... believe it or not. Sex on your period is messy... use towels...and..
You whore.
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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????
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hmmm.... this is something you should ask all your guy friends... (My guy friends think its HOTT)
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ook well i'm a 14/f and i've been really confused about this guy .. i used to like him for a LONG time but i finally got over him cuz he never wanted to go out with me and anywayss .. lately hes been sittin on the bus with me and like lying on my lap .. lol & the other day he started tickling me and held my hand the rest of the bus ride home .. soo the next day he acted like nuthin happend and today he sat with this girl that likes him .. so i'm not sure if hes just being a flirt or what ??? can someone give me some suggestion .. thanx ! (link)
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Now you must go up and over him... Do not let your heart be ripped to shreds by such a guy... if you feel strong enough, flirt with him when you want to, but dont expect him to be devoted to you. Also, he's allowed to be a flirt with whomever he chooses... might not be the best thing for you, but he's only male. You are also allowed to flirt. To me it sounds like he's just flirting, but I could be sooo totaly wrong. Get up and above his level, cause you are so much more better than him.
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Is the feeling of expecting someone to be monogamous (having only one love interest) a girl thing or do guys feel that way too sometimes? And is their anyway to get over that feeling, cuz I hate expecting certain people to be devoted to only one person (namely me if they tell me that they love me when we aren't together). Am I justified in feeling that way? (link)
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Hmm... lets have fun here shall we? You are totaly entitled to not have someone feel totaly devoted to you... Posession is a pain in the ass and its way to freaking easy to be controled which is kinda crapy. Anywho... Girls and Guys do feel monogamous.. some do some dont... get over that one. Here's something interesting.... Why the crap do you want to get over it? Are you expecting to be with many at once... cause.... THATS JUST DUMB... you're either an easy whore that wants some... or a dumbass player... whatever floats your boat.
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i am 18 and still a virgin! when i see people on tv having sex they make it look like it last forever.does it? i masturbate and the sensation only last about 10 seconds! so will it be like that when i have sex? (link)
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oh my freaking gosh... I totaly understand your issue. Basically some girls cant orgasm till they become of age... which could be whenever... but anywho... its different for different ppl... but I've heard tell that Climaxes last a while.
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if sperm touches your vagina,(& may have gone in a little..) is it possible to get pregnant? (link)
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I'm loving how you totaly dont know this. Here's a quick good answer. YES
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Okay I was hanging out with this one guy tonight.. We went driving around and then we went over to his co-workers house to play some games.. Well things "happened" i should say.. But.. there is one problem.. He has a GF!!!!!!!! I dont know what to do. I like him a lot and he says he likes me more than ne thing.. and then he was telling me what he feels when he is with me. then I asked him if he felt the same way with his gf and he said no.. I dont know what to do.. PLEASE help!!! (link)
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oh, how sweet... isnt it, that a guy thinks you are thw sweetest thing and likes you... yet doesnt feel the same way about his girlfriend... what are you ever going to do?? Here's a fun theory: He's cheating on his gf now... what makes you think that he wont cheat on YOU?? Thats always something to keep in mind.
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My friend just found out that they guy she was dating was two timeing her! She can't get it out of her head and I don't know what to do. I tried everything but nothing seems to be working. Advice, ANY advice, would be very helpful! (link)
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This is what I do when in that situation. Do a GIRLS NIGHT. Go get either a sappy love story... or an awesome action where her favorite actor takes his shirt off.... grab the best Ben and Jerry's... dont use a bowl, spoon out of the tub. Also, its fun to get face mask stuff and totaly do a cleansing thing. Not only is it good for your skin, you can just feel like crap peeling away. Good Luck Girl.
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Okay.. I'm 14 and a female.. I've had my period since like 6 or 7th grade now I am in 9th.. It's been pretty regular for the most part! Well like the week before new years I got my period.. then I went to my friends house on new years and my ex bf was there. He still liked me and he was acting pretty fricken horny.. well hey it was new years so I got really drunk.. I only remember parts of what happened! Anyways I felt kinda weird the next day.. I thought it was just like the hangover or something because I mean I didn't know.. I don't get drunk a lot!! Well anyways.. it's now February..almost March and I haven't got my period at all!! I don't know what happened between me and my ex.. I have a bad feeling he took advantage of me when I was drunk and took my virginity! The thing is if I am pregnant by any chance... it wouldn't be rape.. at that time.. I might have wanted it! Does anyone know what I can do.. I am going to take a pregnancy test and all I just don't know if I should be looking for signs.. I have gained weight since then too.. not a lot but like 5 pounds! I am really small too I went from 89 to 94 in the past month and a half! Should I be having any discharge or what?? Someone help please! (link)
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My most brilliant answer would be this. Breathe. Calm down and think clearly. You have symptoms of being pg... so take a friend and go get a home pregnancy test. You should be having a regular period. Go to Gurl.com to look up for info on symptoms of pregnancy. You gotta keep calm though. If it turns out you are, I suggest you tell your parents first... then tell the guy. Good luck.
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me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please! (link)
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Well hey hun, ouch thats got to hurt. Here's a heads up. You are on a different level than he is. He's older and wiser and know what he wants. You're a younger girl who's hormones are up in a heaval. You screwed up babe. And now you have to deal with it. My best advice would be this: Stay away from him. I dont care that you shared such a wonderful experience, he's a bad guy. He TOLD you flat out that he wanted you to get into your pants. You know now that he is bad for you. So stay away from him. Also MOVE ON. I know this is hard for you to do. You gave him so much and you got nothing in return and now you have to deal with it. You're in 7th grade, you're young and prolly not even paying attention to anything I'm saying. You're prolly thinking "She doesnt know what she's talkin about, she isnt me" Well hunnny, guess what, I was you. And now I'm getting over it. Its effected me in many ways, and I'm just now dealing with it. Back to you. You're young, you're hurt, and now you have to grow up and deal with it. Its hard I know, but you Have to. Thats all you can do babe. Grow up.
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