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Okay.. I'm 14 and a female.. I've had my period since like 6 or 7th grade now I am in 9th.. It's been pretty regular for the most part! Well like the week before new years I got my period.. then I went to my friends house on new years and my ex bf was there. He still liked me and he was acting pretty fricken horny.. well hey it was new years so I got really drunk.. I only remember parts of what happened! Anyways I felt kinda weird the next day.. I thought it was just like the hangover or something because I mean I didn't know.. I don't get drunk a lot!! Well anyways.. it's now February..almost March and I haven't got my period at all!! I don't know what happened between me and my ex.. I have a bad feeling he took advantage of me when I was drunk and took my virginity! The thing is if I am pregnant by any chance... it wouldn't be rape.. at that time.. I might have wanted it! Does anyone know what I can do.. I am going to take a pregnancy test and all I just don't know if I should be looking for signs.. I have gained weight since then too.. not a lot but like 5 pounds! I am really small too I went from 89 to 94 in the past month and a half! Should I be having any discharge or what?? Someone help please!
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Yes it would be considered rape if you were drunk. Deffinitly take a pregnancy test to see if your pregnant. You could have gained weight from the stress of all this cuz you might have munched on some junk food. He probably did take advantage of you too. But right away get checked out. Good Luck Hun!
~Brina~
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if you were drunk, it would be considered rape. but you might be pregnant. you should take a test. and if you are you should tell your parents, or mom or whoever. then you need to talk to your ex about it
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My most brilliant answer would be this. Breathe. Calm down and think clearly. You have symptoms of being pg... so take a friend and go get a home pregnancy test. You should be having a regular period. Go to Gurl.com to look up for info on symptoms of pregnancy. You gotta keep calm though. If it turns out you are, I suggest you tell your parents first... then tell the guy. Good luck.
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well i went through maybe being pregnant too and it is the worst thing ever being all worried and stuff.. I know that some signs are that if after a month you dont have your period thats a huge sign of being pregnant, other symptoms are having to pee more than usual, having your boobs sore, darker nipples, morning sickness, food cravings and headaches.. if you really want to know go buy a test.. you dont have to be a certain age or have a parent.. if you are pregnant think about what you want to do with your baby, I dont think just yet that you should tell your Bf.. but talk to your parents about it before telling him because he might not be mature enough to handle the news..I hope I helped and hope everything will go well for you. anymore questions just ask! Xox
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okay maybe he did take advantage of ou but its not youre fualt the dick could have at least used a condm. but thats not the point have you had any weird cravings? or anything like that first and formost you defintly shouldnt panic theres no tellin. some times ur periode can be weird and u could miss one or three.
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I think you are pregany...you probally shouldnt have dont that stuff till you knew what you were doin but it sounds like you are pregnant juss dont ever do that stuff for awhile..i hope you take my advice and DNT DO DRUGS
xOx Ally Babe xOx
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You're pregnant. You deserve it, you shouldnt get drunk or do drugs in the first place.
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There is a big chance that you are pregnant. Go and talk to your parents. They will help you out. And go and buys a few of those pregnency tests. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!
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He probably took advantage of you. You should tell your parents. Then get a pregnancy test then if it comes out positive then he took advantage of you. Oh and it is still considered rape because you were intoxicated A.K.A Drunk and if he did take advantage of you then you could press charges but then again there is the little thing of underage drinking and whoever supplied the alchol to you would get in trouble for distributing alchol to minors but do whatever you want. Oh and if you are pregnant i would say i think you should have the baby and either give it up for adoption or have your parents help you take care of it but i would not reccomend you get an abortion because it isnt good for you.
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There may be a chance that you are pregnant and that your ex-boyfriend probably took advantage of you. Before you find out that you are pregnant, some signs that tell you that you are pregnant are having morning sickness, eating more often, gaining weight, missing your period, and so on. Since you haven't had your period yet and that you are gaining weight, little by little, there is a chance that you are. It's not your fault at all if you are, since you were drunk and that you didn't know what happened. If you have these signs, then you probably are pregnant and that you should take a pregnancy test, like you said. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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