ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months, and we still havnt had sex, he had never given me a reason for it.. until my frustration forced me to have a chat with him about it and he said 'to be honest its because... the 'soldier' doesnt always stand on command' im 15 and he is only 18 is this normal?? can anything be done about it!?
Additional info, added Tuesday February 22 2005, 10:50 pm: i am ready for sex, im not a virgin and i love him. im going to be 16 in like 3 months anyway. im on the pill and i am aware of all the diseases out there thats why i wouldnt without a condom. im not being pressured by my boyfriend because he couldnt anyway.. sex is awesome you all know it! i just really wish there was something that we could do about the impotence do u guys think he should go to the doctor? could it be to do with how he eats?. Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? ADViCE4YOUx3 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 10:17 pm: OKay to many teens are having sex. Its not worth it. Wait until you are married. Having it early can result in life diseases. Like std`s. What if you get pregnant can you handle it? Did you know that a disease chlamydia cannot be protected with protection. This disease is very contagious. Whoever you have it with will get it. I learned something about this disease but I do not remeber all I know is It results in a negative way. Please research it before thinking of anything. If your boyfriend is pressuring you break up with him its not worth it. Waiting until your married may not feel good now but just wait and you will be happy you did. [ ADViCE4YOUx3's advice column | Ask ADViCE4YOUx3 A Question ]
elizaburt answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:32 pm: MY GOD WOMAN!!! its only been 8 months and your only 15!!! wait a while. at least wait till your outta highschool! do you know how hard it is for single teen mothers! they have to get a job which is most likely crapy and the crapy wadges they make is all they have to support them and their baby. and that includes housing food and diapers and other stuff like clothing! and dont think he'll always be there cause he loves you! get a grip! he's 18 so im guessing hes graduating this year or what not. which means he'll most likely be going off to college next year. and if he's not then he not a guy to stay with anyways cause he cant get a very good paying job with out going to college. and if he can than so be it. but all i really wanna say is wait. and if you dont wanna wait then at least think out your consequences! you might even have to drop out of school. so later you'd have to go get a ged which isnt a as good as a diploma. basically just think about your future not just the present!
Karen answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:18 pm: I think the reason why you two haven't has sex is because your boyfriend knows that he can get into trouble if anyone found out that you two had an intimate relationship. There really isn't anything that can be done, only that you should talk to him and get things straight. Besides, you are young and you have a your whole life to think about having sex.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Teza answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:11 pm: uhm first of all he can get sent to jail because hes 18 and well ur 15 .. seconds.. ur kinda too young and think about it you dont wanna have any regrets later on ! [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:05 pm: your 15 with an 18 year old, if anyone ever found out about you two being intimite with eachother you can get him sent to jail, your mom can even do that without any word of what you say about that. just think twice, and i dont think its normal, hes only 18. i dont think it has to deal with what he eats, but yea have him go to the doctors. xox [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
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