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Gender: Female
Location: Ny
Occupation: student
Age: 14
Member Since: February 22, 2005
Answers: 48
Last Update: October 4, 2005
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Where can i get sum inexpensive handbags by dior or chanel? what are some other brands that are in style? (link)
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You can always try Ebay. Sometimes they sell fakes so read everything carefully! Ebay has great deals if it is too cheap ..its probably fake. Other brands that are in style are..coach,dooney and bourke, louis vuitton, & burberry,
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This sounds really stupid, but what is homecoming? (link)
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Well it happens every year at schools in the fall. It is when there is a parade and footbal game. The game is at the school and a lot more people come its school spirit. Everyone is wearing there school colors. There are 3 girls that are nominated for homecoming Queen and 3 guys for king and everyone votes the winner is announced at the game. Usually each grade makes a float in the parade too. The band marches in it and teachers. its a fun day! .. hope i helped please rate!
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how can i get help to stop studdring
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Okay you probably get yourself all nervous and scared before a test and you cant stop studying? you want to but then you picture that bad grade. Okay that happens to everyone. You should read all your notes and study for about 45 minutes. Then have a friend look at them or family member and you can explain the notes to them. If no one is around write down main facts on a blank piece of paper to test your knowledege. All you need to do is make sure you understand everything. DOnt study for more than a hour and a half unless you realydont get anything. Just say to yourself I am gonig to stop at this time set an alarm clock. Go watch tv and relax. ! hope i helped please rate thanks*
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My mom is making me go to youthgroup.. and I hate it, and tomrrow SUNDAY i have to go to the youthgroup kick off to play "mud volleyball" to some it sounds OH SO fun but NOT TO ME, i do not want to dothat. I DONT WANT TO, and my mom said I dont have to go, but I know the next day the lady will callme, and yellat me and everything else. ANd I dont want to deal with this all AT ALL, itsmaking me so annoyed and frusterated.. cause its either I go and sit out all by myself while all the stupid kids play a dumb game and get yelled at for not participating or not go and get yelled at for not going.
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You should try going its really a lot of fun. You can hangout with kids your age and you make a lot of good friends. I have a youth group at my church and it's a really great experience. The first few times might make you not want to go but you will get into it dont give up just try going it wont hurt. Go into it with a good Attitude..
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I was very younge 13 and never really under stood much or maybe i was 15 i can't remember but my grandad who is dead now tried to touch me on my private parts. and he did touch me on my vagina, and it hurt me I remember that i kicked him with my foot to get him away hard and it hurt him made a scare. I know he loved me and i loved him. I am so guilty i wish i never did it now i keep thinking about it and everything. please i know i was wrong but i don't know how to make me forget about it please help me. im using my friends account so hurry with answers. Thanx. (link)
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you shouldnt feel guilty. I know he is your granddad but that is not right! You had the right to protect yourself. When someone hurts you your body wants to protect itself so you kicked him. Maybe you should tell your parents and how you kicked him maybe that will help? When you tell someone what you did and what you are feeling personally the guilt goes away! Well I hope I helped.
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my parents' anniversary is coming up and they keep reminding me because im the oldest of 3 so they want me to do something for them or buy them something.. i hav no idea wat to get or do..and im limited in money..any ideas?? (link)
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Maybe you could throw a suprise party for them. Have some family come over and cook a nice meal for them.
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What are some really good exercises that get your heart pumping that you can do when it's kinda cold?? It's in the 20's or 30's. I want to stay in shape for fitness testing. thanx, i rate all 5's.
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uMm i dont know many exercises but you can go to a local gym, go to the library or a video store and pick up so workout tapes that you can do. I hoped i helped please rate! thanks xo0 =)
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Recently i got a progress report with a lot of negative comments from my teacers like i am unable to be focused in class and that i don't complete my homework on time. That is sort of true. I really need help because i don't know what I'm doing wrong..
I come home, do my homework, sometimes i forget. But i listen to music while i do my homework and I am probaly on the computer more... I really do not know what to do and my parents are making me go to the councelor but i have already been there on Thursaday and i will be called back in on Monday or Tuesday. The councelor was also at a parent teacher confrence this morning but i don't know what he said and i don't want to know. (link)
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Okay probably the reeason why you are getting all of thesse comments is you have been not able to stay focus. Just set a time right after school and just do homework. Close your door dont turn any music on just take out the books. I know its boring but once you get it over with then you are done. Dont stop or get distracted go right through. No body wants to do it but you have to and thats the only way you can get by if you dont want to have those comments. Then the rest of the night you dont have to worry about it just listen to music and do whatever you want. Maybe you can try hanging out with frien ds until a certain time and when you get home treat it like you are getting home from school and get right to the books. To pay attention in class just participate alot by raising hand so you dont get bored. Hope I helped good luck please rate thanks =) xo0
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I'm completely lost. This boy that I sorta like, likes me (I think). We were in a chat room on AIM and he started saying these weird things and then I got the picture that I think he likes me. But when I asked him he said no (he did't want to tell me right away) and I stupidly said good. I always mess up my love. What's wrong with me? How can I end this before it started. He thinks I like him also, which is kinda good kinda bad. I'm just afarid of what I have done. Can I say myself before I mess up again? (link)
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When someone asks you something dont say whats on your mind right away. Try doing this if you are asked a question read it or listen to it then wait 15 seconds thinking of something that wont ruin your love life . Its okay to have people waiting online and its okay to have someone waiting liek 10 seconds for you to answer its better then messin it up. You can be like to the boy online sorry I tend to say stuff without thinking sorry I didnt really mea good i meant __ whatever you want 2 say. Hope I helped good luck please rate this advice and leave feedback thanks xo0o
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hey. i went out with this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me, and for some reason i never asked him why. this happened a couple months ago, and we never really talked much after that, we barely said hi in the halls. yesterday, i realized that i still like him, more than i want to, in a way. i was online yesterday, and a friend who knows that i like him talked me into iming him, and i did. it wasnt really awkward, it felt good that we were talking. i'm not sure if i would go out with him again, but i dont think he would go out with me if i wanted to. we're both single, and i dont know what to do. he asked me if i had a bf, and my friend said that it was a signal, but then he said he liked being single. i dont really know what to think and what i want. but i do know that i wish i were friends, good friends, with him again, liek before we went out. please help me. (link)
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Well if you want to be good friends you ccant be going out because you probably wont be going out forever and when you break up you`ll loose him again. You should try to become friends again and grow close just as friends. If he asks you out make a promise with him like this, we must still be friends if this doesnt work out becasue I dont want to loose you as a friend. Hope I helped good luck please rate this advice and leave feedback thanks xo0o.
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My best guy friend (tom) has a girlfriend. His best guy (jake)friend likes me. I like my best guy friend (tom). Should I wait for tom to break up with his girlfriend or should I go ut with jake?
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Well it depends how long has tom been going out with his g/f do you think it will be a long one? (trust your gut) Maybe you should just give it a try with Jake, maybe he is your dream guy just get to know him he could be really cool and fun to be with. He`s Tom`s best friend (you like TOM) so they both must have somethings in common if there best friends. He might be just like Tom if you get to knwo him. If he is really not your type you could break up with him. Get to know people even though TOm is not available at the moment you cant spend your life waiting. There are many other fish in the sea get going dont wait! good luck hope i helped please rate this advice and leave feedback thanks xo0
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ok im 12 years old and im sxE of life i dont smoke or drink or any thing, but every one thinks i do smoke. my sisters do and they told my grand ma (who i live with) and my dad and they beleive them!my neighbor is a good friend and she knows i dont smoke but her brothers say i do and all their friends do so they ask me for cigerettes just to be mean. see i was gettin a giutar that i really wanted till my sister told my dad that "i smoke" but i dont and now he wont buy me one ....every 1 aound me thinks i smoke what can i do to let them know i dont?! (link)
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Hey you can go to the doctor and they can take tests to see if you have smoked. I would do that because your family will begin to trust you again once they find out you was wrong. I hope I helped good luck! =) xo0 please rate this advice thanks and leave feedback!
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I hate to go to work and it interuupts with my school. Is there any way for me to make money form the internet? Is there a way that i can work at home from my computer? It does not have to be a lot of money. (link)
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You can try selling some of your stuff at ebay. Look into it you can make some money. =) good luck hope I helped x0o ..please rate this advice thanks
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13/f..Me and my best friend are going to florida (Disney World) over spring break and we are SO excited but also nervous. We promised eachother we'd both find guys to hang out with because were both single! But were both kinda shy to strangers and we dont know how wed meet people.? Were probably going to be at the pool alot cuz our hotel has a wicked nice pool and well of course be at Disney! HeLp!! (link)
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Heyy okay when you go the pool just have alot of fun w| your friend just be yourself, like scream/laugh have fun and someone will come up to you. Maybe like you guys can meet people to hang out in the pool. Make some friends at the hotel. In disney when you are waiting on lines you can be like to someone is this ride fun, have you been on it be like if its scary and say like i`m so scared just some convo. starters then you`ll just be talkin while waiting. Then be like if you like them mayb we can meet up sometime heres my cell # or somethin. Go to like teen nights at your hotel and stuff. Trust me you`ll find someone! good luck hoped i helped =) please rate this advice thanks ox0
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What hair products [ shampoo, conditioner, straightening balm, etc ] do you recommend that will make your hair STAY straight and shiny and smooth throughout the day ?? ♥ (link)
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The best would be to use pantene prov shampoo (smooth and sleek) or for dry/frizzy damaged hair then conditioner blow out hair and then you a hot tools straightner. Good luck =) please rate my advice !! thanks xo0
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Hey...
I was wondering how to get summer-ready when you know that you'll be around guys! I mean everything from the perfect bikini that's sexy but not slutty, the perfect exercises to make me tight and toned, and how to get invited to the best parties...most of my friends are having beach/pool/waterpark parties and I often see *really* hot friends fro school at the local pool, and I want summer love (lack thereof) or a fling or something that can boost my reputation and gain me some friends...aka get me into the popular circle...since I'm friends with like half of the popular people! Anyway, also, if it helps, I'm just under 5 feet am 13 and have an 'A' cup...and I'm thin except for my inner thighs and my abs...I'll rate high...
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Hey okay summer is almost here! All sorts of stores are beginning to sell summer wear (bathing suits, ect.) You are going to want to start exercizing now so you'll be all ready by summer. Try going to a gym or rent some workout videos at the library or go to a video store. Start trying to boost your reputation now to get ready for the summer. Wear stylish clothes be really nice and just be yourself but dont go overboard. Just be real cool,cute and be nice. I hope my advice helped good luck =) please rate this advice thanks x0ox p.s maybe you can thrwo the best end of the school year party?
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14/f , today me and my boyfriend madeout for the first time today. it was his first time ever to makeout, but not mine at all. the problem is- he wasnt that great at it, and i didnt really know what to do :x I know its not that big of a deal but its kinda of a turn off.. what do you sugest i do? thanks :) (link)
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Well it is his first time. What was it like on your first time? If you do it again, he will probably get better. Practice makes perfect lol. Like when you first start something are you like great at it he prob. just needs some practice. Hope my advice helped =) please rate this advice thanks xxo0x
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I am an 8th grader and my boyfriend is a 7th grader. I really like him but i want to know what i should do when i go to high school and my boyfriend is still in middle school. Should i break up with him or should i keep the relationship and see him on the weekends? (link)
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Dont think ahead just deal with what you have now. When you get to that point where you are going to high school then ask this question. You have the whole summer together too and if you guys are still going out I wouldnt just break up because you dont go to the same school. You can see eachother alot. Alot of relationships arent in the same school dont break up b/c of something like that! I hope I helped =) please rate this advice thanks! x0o
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well i like this guy a lot, and ive heard he likes me too, but he also likes other people, and i asked him would you ever go out with me and he said "ya of course thats why i like you"
and i said well than ask me out and he said theres no point and i was like wat do you mean and he said that you act like you dont like me as a friend, than how are u gonna act as if you like me as a gf? and he said that i dont show that i like him. but i realli do like him a lot. he always tells me that im mean to him. and i was mad at him a while ago, and now he keeps askin me why i was mad at him,? and he wount stop askin me, i told him im not mad at him anymore. wat is that supposed to mean?
well somebody help me on all this.
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Okay try to get him to get on your side. Try not to get angry with him try to be really nice try to be perfect. eventually since he likes you he will ask you out. Good luck I hope I helped x0ox =) Please rate this advice thanks
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Does anyone know where I can get a used drum set in good condition???For under $300 (link)
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hey you can try ebay go to guitar center for used drums. I hope I helped please leave a rating on this advice thanks xo0 =)
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