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Sexy...not slutty


Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 8:17 pm

Hey...
I was wondering how to get summer-ready when you know that you'll be around guys! I mean everything from the perfect bikini that's sexy but not slutty, the perfect exercises to make me tight and toned, and how to get invited to the best parties...most of my friends are having beach/pool/waterpark parties and I often see *really* hot friends fro school at the local pool, and I want summer love (lack thereof) or a fling or something that can boost my reputation and gain me some friends...aka get me into the popular circle...since I'm friends with like half of the popular people! Anyway, also, if it helps, I'm just under 5 feet am 13 and have an 'A' cup...and I'm thin except for my inner thighs and my abs...I'll rate high...

Amy


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AnGiix3BaBii answered Sunday March 20 2005, 10:38 pm:
haha you sound just like me ...
i got my bathing suit at delias.. its leik thys polka dot top and shorts bottoms but not those ugly ones...
haha if you have ares/morpheus/lime wire/ ect.. download 8 minute abs and do it like 2ce a day

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xOtWiXi answered Saturday March 19 2005, 5:19 pm:
Try a cute bikini top and short bottoms

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cheerangellady answered Saturday March 12 2005, 11:11 am:
I know how you feel--but just to start off.. i'd like to say being popular shouldnt be the goal here... the goal for you should be to find a group of friends you fit in with.. which to me sounds like cute, fun-loving girls who like to spend a lot of time together going out or hanging at the pool/beach/mall kinda thing.

For being outside by the pool or something.. i'd go out and buy two or three cute little bikinis that dont cost an arm and a leg. Bright colors such as oranges and yellows make you look more tan until you really get a good tan. Triangles and scoop-neck tops with just a SLIGHT bit of padding are flattering to small cups. and your butt shouldnt hang out of your bathing suit..that just looks trashy.

Over that cute bathing suit.. wear a cute little skirt that you wouldnt mind getting a little wet or something with a spaghetti strap top or a "wife-beater" top. Soffe shorts are also good to wear to the pool..

For parties.. buy some cute shorts/skirts/capris and short sleeved T's with cute sayings or tank tops and halters and stuff. your choice of opened toed shoes would be a good match with these things.

To get more fit, push ups-for your arms, crunches-for your abs, and find some leg exercises to tone up your legs.

hope i could be somewhat of help to you! Feel free to ask me any other questions!

<3 Linds

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xoxlilshortyxox answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:21 pm:
Jog, do crunches, sit-ups, and push-ups. You could lift weights. Get a hawaiian print bikini with flowers.

x0x bree!

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annie_101 answered Friday February 25 2005, 11:06 am:
heres some good places

websites-alloy.com--then klik shop!

and TJmax has some good priced bathing suits thur.

and srry..but i 4got the name.....it's this surf shop down in narraganset.....srry that i 4got the name tho!

hope it works!

rate me plse!

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sunkistsarah answered Thursday February 24 2005, 6:45 pm:
*WOW* and your only 13?!?!?! and your not even 5 feet

what is the world coming to!!

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VeLvtxRevoLvr213 answered Thursday February 24 2005, 10:00 am:
You are only 13! Who cares about working out? Just get a hott bikini and a tan and you are going to be fine. x0

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rainbowsend answered Thursday February 24 2005, 12:27 am:
Bikini... try a tankini- they cover more, and are flatttering. Especially at your age- there's plenty of time to wear a teeny-weeny bikini when you grow curves. (not to sound condescending, but you did say you don't want to be slutty)

Exercises... sit-ups and exercises for your abs are your best bet. But you need to combine that with cardio. Try running, dancing to music in your room, a sport, pilates, kickboxing, or something else that interests you. For abs- turn on your favorite high energy song and just do sit-ups for the song.

And if your friends are having parties... go to those. Going to parties that you don't know people at doesn't sound like fun. And if these people are your friends, then they'll probably invite you to their parties.

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ADViCE4YOUx3 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 10:34 pm:
Hey okay summer is almost here! All sorts of stores are beginning to sell summer wear (bathing suits, ect.) You are going to want to start exercizing now so you'll be all ready by summer. Try going to a gym or rent some workout videos at the library or go to a video store. Start trying to boost your reputation now to get ready for the summer. Wear stylish clothes be really nice and just be yourself but dont go overboard. Just be real cool,cute and be nice. I hope my advice helped good luck =) please rate this advice thanks x0ox p.s maybe you can thrwo the best end of the school year party?

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NEVERLETG00 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 10:13 pm:
you dont need to look hott in order to be popular, just act yourself, someone is bound to notice you at these parties! pretty much, just like everyone, dont have any enemies. thats pretty much the basic part of being popular, just be confident in yourself and what you do. xox

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