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Karen
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Hey! I'm Lindsey and i'm a 14 yr. old from NC. I love giving advice and helping people out. Feel free to ask me something!
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Hey...
I was wondering how to get summer-ready when you know that you'll be around guys! I mean everything from the perfect bikini that's sexy but not slutty, the perfect exercises to make me tight and toned, and how to get invited to the best parties...most of my friends are having beach/pool/waterpark parties and I often see *really* hot friends fro school at the local pool, and I want summer love (lack thereof) or a fling or something that can boost my reputation and gain me some friends...aka get me into the popular circle...since I'm friends with like half of the popular people! Anyway, also, if it helps, I'm just under 5 feet am 13 and have an 'A' cup...and I'm thin except for my inner thighs and my abs...I'll rate high...
Amy
I know how you feel--but just to start off.. i'd like to say being popular shouldnt be the goal here... the goal for you should be to find a group of friends you fit in with.. which to me sounds like cute, fun-loving girls who like to spend a lot of time together going out or hanging at the pool/beach/mall kinda thing.
For being outside by the pool or something.. i'd go out and buy two or three cute little bikinis that dont cost an arm and a leg. Bright colors such as oranges and yellows make you look more tan until you really get a good tan. Triangles and scoop-neck tops with just a SLIGHT bit of padding are flattering to small cups. and your butt shouldnt hang out of your bathing suit..that just looks trashy.
Over that cute bathing suit.. wear a cute little skirt that you wouldnt mind getting a little wet or something with a spaghetti strap top or a "wife-beater" top. Soffe shorts are also good to wear to the pool..
For parties.. buy some cute shorts/skirts/capris and short sleeved T's with cute sayings or tank tops and halters and stuff. your choice of opened toed shoes would be a good match with these things.
To get more fit, push ups-for your arms, crunches-for your abs, and find some leg exercises to tone up your legs.
hope i could be somewhat of help to you! Feel free to ask me any other questions!