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I hate youthgroup


Question Posted Saturday September 17 2005, 10:55 pm

My mom is making me go to youthgroup.. and I hate it, and tomrrow SUNDAY i have to go to the youthgroup kick off to play "mud volleyball" to some it sounds OH SO fun but NOT TO ME, i do not want to dothat. I DONT WANT TO, and my mom said I dont have to go, but I know the next day the lady will callme, and yellat me and everything else. ANd I dont want to deal with this all AT ALL, itsmaking me so annoyed and frusterated.. cause its either I go and sit out all by myself while all the stupid kids play a dumb game and get yelled at for not participating or not go and get yelled at for not going.
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ADViCE4YOUx3 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 8:41 pm:
You should try going its really a lot of fun. You can hangout with kids your age and you make a lot of good friends. I have a youth group at my church and it's a really great experience. The first few times might make you not want to go but you will get into it dont give up just try going it wont hurt. Go into it with a good Attitude..

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mylordwon answered Sunday September 18 2005, 4:54 pm:
WOW! I am a leader for the youth in my church and I've contacted kids who have felt the same way. In every case there has been something else that is causing it. It may have been a divorce situation, abuse of some kind, something -- They just wanted to run. Their mom and/or dad is trying to give them outlets and I try to help too. Some have felt angry and completely refuse to join in. Some started out angry and have had a heart change.

There is something more to this then going or not going to youthgroup. Grab hold of your anger about this long enough to really stop and look at yourself. What's going on? Why this attitude? Are there other things that spark such a reaction? It sounds like this is a symptom of a deeper problem. Find an adult who you can trust and talk it out. If you want, I'm only an email away.

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x_C010rMyW0r1d answered Sunday September 18 2005, 11:20 am:
You dont want to go, you dont have to go, so dont go ! And if the lady calls yelling tell her youthgroup is gay and you dont like it. She cant make you do anything. So tell her to leave you alone.

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gooseeg92 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 1:25 am:
just dont go and tell that person to shut up

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shake answered Sunday September 18 2005, 12:48 am:
Dont go and get yelled at for blowing it off. Get agressive with the lady so she doesn't know what to do. If she gets super pissed tell her you won the argument and she should shut up for her own good. Then pretend to start laughing at her.

No, I'm not joking with you. She'll feel like and idiot once you do this and will probably hang up. You may feel dumb, but trust me, it makes for a good story.

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