Hi I am 13 Male
I am a reallist
I love the color yellow
I am probabily one of the moth sensitive guys you'll meet
I have serious issues w/ my best friend who I currently have a crush on
I either want to be a Broadway light tecy, chef, teacher or councelor
I love dolphins
I love jean shopping and Chuck Taylor shopping
Much love
Carpe Diem
E-mail: uglyducklingsince92@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
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Age: 13
AIM: gooseeg92
Member Since: September 17, 2005
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Im 15 female
A lot of my friends like to drink and smoke pot. I don't like it. I had my fun with that already, I smoked pot when i was in 6th grade and stoped when i saw my brother get locked up for it. Yeah and i had my experience with alcohol i drank and i puked my guts up and now i wont ever drink again. well at least not til im old enough. But anyway my friends are always drink like on the weekends and they always ask me to go but i just go to my boyfriends house and hang out and what not. I always find my self thinking that im better than that and i don't want to ruin my life with that stuff.
Is this normal because i always thought that teenagers will like to drink and get in trouble and just do bad stuff just to make a laugh? Am i abnormal? (link)
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no you are not abnormal. you just have common sense not to drink and smoke. and teens do like to get in trouble and goof off but there is a fine line between goofing off and hurting yourself.
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ok, a wile ago i asked a question about headache's and tried the advice that people gave me but it didint work, and now im like getting headaches more often, can this be somthing serious?
i rate 5's (link)
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I didnt answer your other question but i saw it.
I figured it would go away in a week but now you say its more serious. it could be worse than your regular headaches. Now i am not one for loving doctors But you definatily 100%yes need to see a doctor.
P.S.Advil and Asprin work best for women
Tylonal for men i looked it up
Hope this helps
Carpe Diem
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Hey!
this guy I like IMed me & was like " hey babe" & when i said i g2g he did the crying face.
Does this mean he likes Me?
ill rate you a 5 if you can help! (link)
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ya it probably does but there is a chance he just wants to be really good friends
Best this to to is just ask him
Hope this helps
Carpe Diem
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My mom is making me go to youthgroup.. and I hate it, and tomrrow SUNDAY i have to go to the youthgroup kick off to play "mud volleyball" to some it sounds OH SO fun but NOT TO ME, i do not want to dothat. I DONT WANT TO, and my mom said I dont have to go, but I know the next day the lady will callme, and yellat me and everything else. ANd I dont want to deal with this all AT ALL, itsmaking me so annoyed and frusterated.. cause its either I go and sit out all by myself while all the stupid kids play a dumb game and get yelled at for not participating or not go and get yelled at for not going.
UGH (link)
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just dont go and tell that person to shut up
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hi im 13 and i havent started my period i am a bigger gurl and a lot of the smaller gurl have and im just waiting...im afraid that theres sumthin wrong with me....wat do i do ? (link)
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nothing is wrong with you. the average age is 13
but it could happen as late as 15-16
Dont worry
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okay so this has been really bothering me *hence, the subject*.. does anyone think it's weird that i'm going to be sixteen and i've never kissed a guy? (link)
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Wierd no differnt yes.
Maybe you just havent been in the right mood or enviorment. it will come when the time is right/
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For my birthday party, I would like to have a mall scavenger hunt. however, I'm pretty lazy at comeing up with ideas. Can anyone give me a full list of things to find at the mall (sorry if this doesn't make much sence)? Thank you in advance! (link)
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One gumball
One napkin from the food court
one fork from the food court
one coin (like from off the ground)
If you want to give them all a disposable camera:
A few pictures with them in certain stores depending on wich mall you go to
A picture of one of them on one of the kiddy rides
a pamflit or free sample of something
Hope this helps
Carpe Diem
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My boyfriend, Ed, and I been together for almost 8 months but we dated for a month before that. He is 18 and I'm 17. Everything was pretty good the 1st few months, few fights but nothing major. Then it seems as we hit the 6 month mark everything went way down. His family doesn't think I'm good enough, the have called me a slutty whore, cum dumpster, conceited, high mantience. At 1st, my boyfriend would stick up for me but then his siblings told their mom that we had sex infront of them and that I tried to seduce the 13 year old brother. Both of which are not true. So I was told I was not allowed to call or go over their house. Its been hard but we have dealt with it, but now Ed, is being a lot meaner to me. He'll blow off plans with me, show up 3 hours late, it seems everything is up to him. His friends hate me, he is nice when its just me and him, but add any of his friends and he's an ass. I love him and I lost my virginity to him and he is also my best friend. But I can't take this anymore. I;m sick of him blowing me off and only hanging out with me when he has nothing better to do. Do you think I should stay with him and try and work this out or just say fuck it and move on. One last thing, I hate being alone so I think the reason I have held on for so long is because I don't want to be lonely. (link)
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first tell him whats bothering you if you might dump him anyway whats the worst that can happen.
But! dont be harsh guys make mistakes too. if he doesnt listen DUMP HIM you probabibly wont be single for long.
Hope this helps
Carpe Diem
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I'm a 15 year old girl. I am depressed. And I'm not talking about depression that has been going on for just months. Its been over a year. and it's getting worse by day. The latest thing I hace done to my self when I had gotten angry was cut all my hair off. I'm scared!!! I've tried to commit suicide before. but thank god i made it out alive. I cut and burn myself. I dont do it because i want to or because I wanna try it. I never believed in hurting my body. I always am thankful for being healthy and alive. I never went one night without thanking god for all the good that he has done for me and my family. I go to therapy but i feel as if its not helping me. I have tried asking god for help and still am. But I am not seeing results. I am trying to be patient but it's hard. My parents are diagnosed with depression. but don't take it seriously. They think I am just crazy!!! I thoguht I was too for a while until it really hit me that I had a real sickness. I believe that I got it from them. But I don't care how I got. All I care about is getting effective help. If I don't get some soon I'm gonna end up hurting myself Badly. AND I DON'T WANT THAT!!!! I had a bright future ahead of me. but now i just don't see it. I wanna get my life back and be the person I really am. I know I was created for a reason. I know I am worth something!! but i need help fast. I am not crazy I just need help before I end my life when it's not time for me. I am too young and don't wanna waste every day of my lfe doing nothing. Because every second that goes by brings me closer to the end of my life. I wanna have a story to tell about my life when i get old.I wanna see myself old. inshallah!!! and I don't ever wanna see anyone experience this problem not even an enemy. (link)
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Well my first advice is make a place that has nothing that you could hurt yourself with. now when you feel like your going to hurt yourself go into that room and dont leave. Read a book whatch a movie do anything that helps you relax.
Try not to let thing get to you anymore. if when you talk to your parents about it they make you angry dont talk to them. Another big thing keep trusting in God. i believe in God and he always helps me in his time. Do everythng you can to fight it take medicine, keep goin to therapy. Meditate for an hour whatever it takes. if friends are getting you upset say Im sorry i cant take this right now. Get someone you can talk to
If this helped i have way more adviced to give and an ear to listen jsut leave me a question in my inbox iwill try to help
Hope this helps
Carpe diam
(live life to the fullest)
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well in my first question i told you about how i like my best friend and how she likes this really hot guy.
Now we always talk about every single thing
Now we talk about the guy When she asks "should i go out with him" what should i say to her
I mean if i like her and i want to go out with her but she wants to go out with him what should i say. (link)
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i think you should tell her the truth
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theres this guy i like who i made out with when me n him werent even goin out but now he likes this other girl and they made out(but there not going out) like a day after he made out with me ...is there any way to win back his attention (link)
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well personaly if someone did that to me i wouldnt want him
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ok theres this boy in my school whos in 6th grade and im in 8th. hes really shorter then me to. i dont have a crush on him but theres just something about him and i cant get him off of my mind, what should i do? (link)
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well it may be a crush and you may be in denile in any case become his friend if he really becomes your frieb=nd he will get off your mind and if you go out with him he should be on your mind
Hope this helps
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if a boy asks you if you have started your period and you answer yeh and the boys says real loud YES what does that mean? (link)
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well it probaly means hes just being weird and ediotic
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Okay bear with me on this....
See actually I see people give advice on my question alot but its not a really good answer so people that know please help... Well I am a freshman in high school and have never had a boyfriend. Ever. I mean I have grinded/danced with tons of guys but never had a boyfriend. I'm 14, thin naturally, etc etc. My friends are all like " I would not be suprised if you were nominated for Homecoming Court!" & "your so pretty!" and stuff uhh okay if I am good enough for that then why have I never had a boyfriend?? Ughh. I'm not shy. And how can I like meet guys from other schools? I mean I like the ones at my school too but I want to meet more... I mean I know where to go (like sports games, dances, etc.) but I can't just walk up to hott guys, I need conversation starter or something ya know? Please help! I rate high...
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well first i want to state that guys are shy too trust me i am one.
First just go up to a nice guy that you like.
Just say hi see if you have chemestry become friends if you really like him take it further ask him out or maybe he'll ask you out
Hope this helps
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Well I'm dating this guy... and he's really hott and I like him SO much... but it seems like everytime we hang out all we do is makeout and other stuff like that... and once I didn't really wanta do it and when I said I didn't feel like doing that he was like whatever and left! So I feel like thats all he's in this relationship for! And of course its fun... but I don't want only that in a relationship... and I kinda want to break up with him but I just like him so much! And I don't know why and I don't know what to do! (link)
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well i think that you first need to talk to him about whats on your mind. i know its really really hard to talk to people sometimes but once you stsart its easy. if he still does it break it off even if you like him its not fair to you if you dont want to make out. and most of all dont let him guilt trip you
Hope this helps
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There is this white wiger at my school and friday the dance he kept bumping in to me and when he did he would say what punk u want to fight. i want fight him but there is cameras and teachers so i dont know where i should fight him??? (link)
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you shouldnt fight him trust me it always comes back to bite you in the ass. Just keep far away from him
Hope this helps
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when a guy asks you to a dance..how do you nicely turn him down? (link)
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you just kindly tell him no if that doent work do you really care if he likes you anyway
Hope this helps
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ok..... PLEASE help me im SO stuck!!! well two of my BEST friends in the world are in a HUGE fight, they say i have to pick one of them. i dont want to pick one, but i dont ant them to fight!!! they sometimes fight OVER me!!!!!! but PLEASE help me im begging you!!!! im desprate!!!
ps. they talk about eachother and i dont want to talk about eather one!!! (link)
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i have been in more fights like this than you could ever know. dont take sides. wait till this fight stops then sit them down tell them how its killing you and tell them you cant take it anymore. if they are true friends they will stop fighting.
Hope this helps
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OK so Last year, I went to homecoming and no one asked me to dance. Everytime there was a slow dance, I always stood off to myself. I felt embaressed/left out/ stupid..so I don't know if I should go to homecoming thisyear. All my friends are popular and they're like "come! it'd be fun" but I NEVER have a dance partner..and I've been to alot of dances. What should I do?? (link)
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well i think you should make arrangments before you go, with someone you can dance with a friend or someone you like ask that person to the dance. But definatily go.
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First off, I'd like to state that both me and my cousin are 13 years of age.
Okay, here's the deal.. In the past I've had a lot of prolems with depression and low self esteem. My cousin and I were VERY close, and I loved always helping him with his problem. But one night when he came over my house to spend the night.. I got in a fight with him and my brother. Now I'd seen him like fourty times over the summer, so we were bound to get into a fight sometime.
But this time I finally broke down.. It was way to much, living with a pompous brother, a dad who's always right, and a mom who I can't tell when she'll be happy or right on the edge of blowing up. So over the course of two days, it went from I'm just a happy-go-lucky little cousin, to a emotionally unstable family member.
It had been planned that the three of us go over to my cousin's house the next day. Of course everything was a little tense between us the next morning, but we all went on about our business as if nothing had ever happened.
I stayed the night at his house that night, but brother decided he was ready to go home. For about three or four hours that day we just talked, and I cried most of the time, silent tears.
Now before I go on I'd just like to say I love my aunt more than anyone in the world at that point. She takes me in her arms and just holds me, telling that everything will be fine and that I'm pretty and smart and how she knows what it's like living with who I was living with..
The rest is history. But now my cousin feels like he can't talk to me anymore, and that kills me inside.. Talking to him about my own problems is hard enough, so talking to him about that is pretty much out of the question. I don't want to risk our relationship any further..
I'd love for some advice, but please don't be harsh. (link)
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well i think that you should talk to your cuzin.
Cuz if i know him which i think i do he has had the same problem, he just doesnt want to hurt your feelings about breaking down. He also doesnt want to overload you anymore. call him as soon as you get this message tell him everything and he will tell you everything. it will strenghthen your relstionship.
Hope this helps
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