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HELLLLPPPPP!!!!!!!!
ok..... PLEASE help me im SO stuck!!! well two of my BEST friends in the world are in a HUGE fight, they say i have to pick one of them. i dont want to pick one, but i dont ant them to fight!!! they sometimes fight OVER me!!!!!! but PLEASE help me im begging you!!!! im desprate!!!
ps. they talk about eachother and i dont want to talk about eather one!!!
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just say HEY im not going to choose either of you if you keep fighting and making me choose between my two best friends
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what i would do is every time they try to talk trash about eachother just say, "look, im both your guyses friend and i dont really want to be part of your fights. so can you please not talk about (insert name)? i would ask the same from her if she started to talk trash about you. so can we please just change the subject?" that should preddy much just make them stop asking you to ake sides. as for the fighting, you cant really do to much about that. well i hope i helped!
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When you're with either one of your friends and they start bashing your other friend just say "Hey, I don't really want to talk about them. They're my friend." Then quickly change the subject! Maybe to someone, or something else. If they continue to bug you about choosing, let yourself, and them, know that if they were really your friend you wouldn't have to choose! Make sure you stay out of the arguement. Don't get in the middle of it. Let them fight, or work it out. Again, change the subject if their fight comes up in conversation. Goodluck!!<33
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just tell them to stop fighting its gone out of control and you can hang out with 1 of them half the time of school and the other 1 the other half of school .if they still dont like each other and if they talk about each other to you just tell them that you dont want to hear it cause you are still friends with that person ur friend is talking about
hope i helped
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Well the best thing to do is to just tell them that you don't like that they are fighting and just tell them that you can't choose one of them...
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I was in the same situation a few years ago. Here's what I reccommend you do: Get them both in the same room and tell them that you are sick of their fighting. Then tell them that you refuse to choose between them and that if they keep fighting that you will choose to be friends with neither of them.
It worked for me and I hope it works for you. Tell me what happens!
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i have been in more fights like this than you could ever know. dont take sides. wait till this fight stops then sit them down tell them how its killing you and tell them you cant take it anymore. if they are true friends they will stop fighting.
Hope this helps
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Tell them both to stop it and its not fair to put you in the middle because you like them both. your also not going to pick between them. When they start going on about each other say "your both as bad as each other and i don't want to hear it because I like you both and I hate you fighting and its up setting me." See if you can get them to sort out there problems. If they care about you they will try to patch up there differences to stop you getting upset.
Hope i helped.
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Well. as you say then. If you dont want to talk about either one, why are you their friends?
To help you out, stop being their friends. This way you wont have to talk about them.
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i have the same problem. don't try to make them get along because they will just hate each other more. hang out with each of them seperately. if one starts talking about the other, simply tell them to stop. if they're really your friends they won't get upset and leave you. it worked for me. and my relationship with each of them is better than ever.
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