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I am a writer. Ummm...I love the color green. I have a beagle named Beuller and a fat cat named Emily. I have an older brother who is 21 and a younger sister who is 14.
E-mail: sweetie6162003@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Indiana
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Age: 16
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Member Since: September 16, 2005
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i am 15, 5'8 and i weigh 125-130. i feel so fat. can you tell me if i am over reacting or what i could do to lose 10-15 pounds.. (link)
You are overreacting. That weight is normal for teenage girls of your height. Trust me, I was in your situation just last year. I felt overweight so I went to my doctor to see what I could do about it and she told me that I was in the expected weight range for teenage girls of my height (also 5'8) and that there was nothing to be concerned about. I hope I helped some.


Hey advicenators.

I was just wondering if anyone here has a good/funny story on something that happened in your childhood.
Like maybe, when trying to impress someone, or some interesting tradition you had as a child, or something your parents always did...or you know, something along those lines.
Anything interesting from your childhood basically..

Thank youu :) (link)
Well I have a few. By the way I'm 17 and female just in case you were wondering.

1. One night when I was about 8 me and 3 of my friends decided to have some fun on our friend Ryan's skateboards. He had like six of them so he let us borrow two for the night. Well our street wasn't a very busy one but it had a steep hill starting at the top where I lived. We decided to race each other at "Belly Racing" as we called it. Belly Racing just meant that you would be on your stomachs on the skateboards and race each other down the street to the stop sign at the bottom. Well me and Steven were racing and I barely made it there to the stop sign before he did but he couldn't figure out how to get the thing to stop without either catching his shoes on fire or scraping up his hands so he hit the curb on the opposite side of the road and few into someone yard with a hard thump. We found out two days later that Steven had suffered a mild concussion from his landing. After that we decided not to "Belly Race" again.


my sister has let me babysit her son more and more, and i used to like it, but now it's getting ayyoning, she always makes it a huge hasel on me like making me be at her place at 6.30 AM. and im thinking of charging her 2.50 and hour. and i dont wanna be rude but i dont like waking up at 6.00 AM every morning. should i charge her money, stop whining and do it. or just not do it at all. and if i do do it, how can i ask her for money without her screaming at me and getting mad at me. (link)
Well you should not feel as though she is relying on you or pressuring you into babysitting for her. I'm sure that if you sat down and talked to her you could work out an arrangement. Tell her that if you have to constantly babysit for long hours that you at least deserve a few days off a week or payment. This may sound harsh to you but I'm sure that if you explain how you do not like having to wake up early and having her constantly rely on you then she will understand your requests.

I hope I helped.


I am Male 13.

I have liked this girl now for 5 years.We are the best friends you could ever hope for. But she doesn,t like me any more than just being friends. Now for a while I was fine with it, I just kept thinking I dont like her anymore and it worked,m for a while. I went to camp over the summer and she met,What she called a really hot boy. This made me realize I still like her. Now when ever i am around her I hurt. Now heres the question i dont know if i should quit being her friend or talk to her which is really hard when on the subject of me and her. Plus it doesn,t help that i feel stupid for feeling this way, should I feel stupid. (link)
First of all, you should not feel stupid. That is just not the right way to go at it. Second, talk to her. I know that is really hard but this way you two can finally really understand each other and you will stop having to hold your emotions inside. She may be feeling the same way but just doesn't know how you might react. It is worth the risk to admit that your feelings go beyond friendship.


ok..... PLEASE help me im SO stuck!!! well two of my BEST friends in the world are in a HUGE fight, they say i have to pick one of them. i dont want to pick one, but i dont ant them to fight!!! they sometimes fight OVER me!!!!!! but PLEASE help me im begging you!!!! im desprate!!!
ps. they talk about eachother and i dont want to talk about eather one!!! (link)
I was in the same situation a few years ago. Here's what I reccommend you do: Get them both in the same room and tell them that you are sick of their fighting. Then tell them that you refuse to choose between them and that if they keep fighting that you will choose to be friends with neither of them.

It worked for me and I hope it works for you. Tell me what happens!


I love helping people, and when I say that, I mean the kind of "giving advice" kind of help. I know I can be a psychologist, but are there any other options? I don't want to be a psychiatrist, so please don't suggest that. Thank you! (link)
Well you could always be a social worker or a high school counselor or even a teacher for that matter. They all help people in one way or another.


i really like my friend but he doesnt know, i have known him for a LONG time and i just spend like half of the day with him.i dont know what to do because i really like him but i cant tell him how i really feel cause then are friendship might be lost. what should i do??? (link)
You should definitely tell him how you feel. I was in the same situation last year and trust me it is best just to admit to him that you feel this way towards him. He might actually feel the same. Go for it!




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