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My best friend
I am Male 13.
I have liked this girl now for 5 years.We are the best friends you could ever hope for. But she doesn,t like me any more than just being friends. Now for a while I was fine with it, I just kept thinking I dont like her anymore and it worked,m for a while. I went to camp over the summer and she met,What she called a really hot boy. This made me realize I still like her. Now when ever i am around her I hurt. Now heres the question i dont know if i should quit being her friend or talk to her which is really hard when on the subject of me and her. Plus it doesn,t help that i feel stupid for feeling this way, should I feel stupid.
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FINALLY another guy on this freakin thing didn't know that excisted lol
here's an idea....check out other chicks but thats just me
EDIT/// hell no don't quit on her im just sayin keep your options open don't put all your eggs in one basket
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First of all, you should not feel stupid. That is just not the right way to go at it. Second, talk to her. I know that is really hard but this way you two can finally really understand each other and you will stop having to hold your emotions inside. She may be feeling the same way but just doesn't know how you might react. It is worth the risk to admit that your feelings go beyond friendship.
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Whatever you do, don't stop being her friend. I know it might hurt, but why lose her as a friend, it's better than nothing. But maybe you should talk to her. Let her know how you feel and everything. Oh and don't feel stupid, there's no reason to feel stupid. And I definantly know how you feel, I sort of went through the same thing. Keep being friends, maybe her feelings will change and realize that she has a great guy to be with once you talk to her about it. But also, you're best friends, there is a chance that if you do go out with her you might break up, that could ruin your friendship.
I hope this helps you some.
*~Zoe~*
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Don't stop being her friend. I know it's hard but it's better to have her as your friend then nothing. You would regret loosing her like that. Just because she doesn't like you right now doesn't mean she won't relize what a great guy you are. She might start liking you. Don't just give up on her. That's just what I don't understand about guys. When they find out a girl doesn't like them they just try to move on and say that there is no point. Don't do that. There is a possibility that she might like you. Also, don't feel stupid. You're not. It's absolutley normal and it's really cute that you care a lot. Good luck with everything. =D
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Hi. You shouldn't feel stupid about liking this girl. You can't help what you feel. You're a guy, she's a girl this stuff happens. Eventually, she'll probably see what a good guy you are, and hopefully give you a chance. If she see's how cool you are about her and this guy she'll respect you more. Take it from a girl...
GOOD LUCK!!!!
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hunny dont feel stupid what it is your puppy loving it when u have a crush on someone 4 a while or sum quit years then it will soon leave cause maybe she is not the one so yea u can talk to her maybe just like alot like you have been doing ok i hope i helped XoShannonoX
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No you shouldnt feel stupid, you cant help who you like!!! Talk to her about everything you feel and see what her reply is. If it is a neagative response liek she doesnt like you then at least you still have her as a friend even if it cant be anything more
Luv Shelly
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Don't feel stupid, its completely normal. I hear alot of wuestions like this, so heres my advice: Just because you like her more than a friend, doesn't mean you can't still be friends with her. Me & my boyfriend are obviosuly going out but he's like my best friend at the same time!
Don't worry about your friend saying she met a "really hot guy." Everyone thinks someone else is "hot" sometimes. I'm not sure why she told you about that though, since it is kind of rude to you, but maybe she doesn't know that you like her, so make sure you give her CLEAR signs, but don't go overboard.
You really have to talk to her, but DON'T feel bad if she doesn't like you back. Theres plenty of other girls out there. And DON'T let this situation ruin her and your friendship.
~Johanna
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No,you shouldn't feel stupid, but neither should you stop talking to her. Five years is a long time to have been friends with someone, and if you cut that off you would lose her friendship without gaining her love, and that,trust me my friend, would hurt like very hell.
I have no more idea than you whether or not you should approach her in a romantic way. See, here's the deal-it might be that she doesn't, never has and never could see you as anything other than a friend. Or it just might be that you guys have been friends for so long that the thought of you as a boyfriend has merely never occured to her, but that if it did,she would welcome it. You will only discover which of these two scenarios is the true one by(very gently) probing her. Try putting a hand on her arm from time to time, just when you're talking normally. Hug her on parting(if you already do that, tying doing it for a second longer than normal). If she flinches away or seems unhappy with this, then there's your answer. If not, then you still have the problem of her"really hot guy". If they break up, you have the ideal oppurtunity to prove yourself as the man she's been waiting for. (in fact, you should wait until that happens to try the touching and hugging).
Whatever happens, remember that you are, first and foremost, her friend. Keep that whole and try not to let jealousy(which is not a sign of love)get in its way. The best of luck, lucretiax.
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