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its my first time ever getting my period...but it comes one day & then the next it doesn't come then the next day it does..so basically its a every other day thing...is that normal??? please help asappppp (link)
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Yes it's perfectly normal..Your body is just trying to adjust to the changes but....each month it will get more regular youll see!
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I am 14/f and I really need to start making money of my own. I'm sick of getting it from my parents. I mean I will probably still get a little bit from them but at least some of it needs to be my own. I know babysitting and I have done that before but how do I get people like parents to know that I do that? AND what are some other jobs I can do? Much appreciated. I'll rate high.... (link)
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Well you could probably get a job at a store or something...
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ok do you know where you can get those black tights you wear with regular shows ans skirts like they arent complete the stop at your ancle area. (link)
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Just go to some store where they sell thights or socks...you can find them there
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i got this shirt and it says "better forget it cause you'll never get it" ..is that a bad shirt, would people think im wierd? (link)
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No its a perfectly fine shirt! its completely normal i have the exact same shirt and no one thinks im weird
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can you give me good, DETAILED directions on fingering a girl? like should i rub her stomach before i do it? i have never don it before, but my girlfriend wants me to, and i want to but i dont want to come off as really wierd and inexperienced. i want to make her comfortable, feel sexy, i want to make me comfertable and sexy, etc. so everything from A to Z on fingering (music and lighting to how many fingers!!) every single step!
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Well first of all...you can put some soft music on..Then you can start kissing her stomach and work your way down... you can start kissing her ..... u know .. well you should preferably use 2-3 fingers.. you should suck at the same time... Im a girl i know what its like...
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ok heres that thing, i like this boy a lot. lets call him Jay. well i have asked a question before but the advice didnt really help! anyway i have likes Jay for 2 years and we have talked about maybe 10 times in those 2 years ( im really shy when it comes to boys that i like). i have been trying to talk to him this year and i have talked to him 3 times but 2 of those times he was acting really mad and i think that something i did or something he heard about me made him mad but i cant ask him because then i will seen like an upsessed freak! i think i love Jay cuz i cant stop thinking about him and everytime i hear his name i get all nervous and i just really like him! i like him so much that even if we never become bf and gf if we are just friends i would be so happy! please help me! i will rate high for good answers! sorry its long! (link)
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Well if you just try and get the nerve to talk to him it would be kool...just start a random conversation... And you could probably ask him to hang out to get to know yourselves better...
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Kay well Im having some problems with boys. So I met this guy and his name is Nathan and hes like wonderful he treats me really good..but for some reason whenever im around guys i like i get like these cute little butterflies in my tummy and yeah . but when im with him i feel like NOTHING. soo i dont know what to do i dont really know how i feel about him .please help becasue all my friends want me to hook up with him and i dont want to be leading him on
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Well if you don't know if you like him just give it time and tell your friends to just wait because they dont run your life...
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well i have a bunch of friends that im not that close with but then i have about 4 that are my best friends...and one of them hates the other so its always hanging out with one or the other.. but now theyve gotten to be friends again and i feel like im getting replaced i really am happy there friends but its like now that shes back im gone i just dont kno if i understand and me and one girl were going to hang out and i heard them in the hallway talkgn like i havent told her about it and it was my name and i asked her what it was nad shes like oh im having everyone over do u wanna come.. it just felt like i wasnt needed.. and then theyre going to a football game tonight and we were going to go first and then i asked if she was going with them and she was like yea but u can come too and i ddnt wnat to barge in or anything.. shes calling me about it tonight so well see how this goes... what should i do (link)
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Well she probably dont want you feeling left out so thats good...but she is probably talking behind your back and trying to turn everyone against you so just ask her face to face
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my friend, lora has been acting a lot differently lately. i'm not sure how to explain it. she's just more wild. if her parents knew then she would be in big trouble. i have a close group of 6 friends including myself, and one of them. but since this year we've been getting farther away.. and i see to be fine with that. she's starting to drive me crazy. she copies everything i do.. and its so annoying. like little things. i cant stand her. i have other friends too. and she's going to a different high schoool. what should i do about her? i think that her boyfriend is helping to this.. i just don't know what to do. (link)
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WEll just tell her how you feel about that...And if she gets too wild and you dont like that well she probably isnt a great influence because she might get you to do things that you may not want you to do
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and sometimes when i am alone with him in his room i get sexual moodswings, like i want to do more with him, like today i went up there and we was all over each other, we was laying in his bed kissing and all of a sudden i looked and i was ontop of him literally making out with him, i have started my period and i dont want to push myself into doing everything but the question is,how do i stop myself from having those moodswings and were i have started my period if me n him actually did anything what would be the chances of getting pregnant? Please Help me, No sarcastic answers or i wont even rate u but if good answers i rate 5's. (link)
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You can't do anything about moodswings... Well you can get pregnant so if you really want to do it...You can probably start the pill and wear protection so you wont get pregnant..But moodswings...theres no cure..
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if a boy asks you if you have started your period and you answer yeh and the boys says real loud YES what does that mean? (link)
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Well probably because he wants to "get some" if you know what i mean...but don't let him... like this guy will probably only wnt something from you
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Well I'm dating this guy... and he's really hott and I like him SO much... but it seems like everytime we hang out all we do is makeout and other stuff like that... and once I didn't really wanta do it and when I said I didn't feel like doing that he was like whatever and left! So I feel like thats all he's in this relationship for! And of course its fun... but I don't want only that in a relationship... and I kinda want to break up with him but I just like him so much! And I don't know why and I don't know what to do! (link)
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Well...just tell him how you feel and if he doesnt understand well... ditch him...And a good boyfiend doesnt want to just mke out he should care and respect you!
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There is this white wiger at my school and friday the dance he kept bumping in to me and when he did he would say what punk u want to fight. i want fight him but there is cameras and teachers so i dont know where i should fight him??? (link)
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Well the best thing to do is NOT to fight with him...God knows what kind of trouble you can get into... So i wouldn't fight him if i was you
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OK so Last year, I went to homecoming and no one asked me to dance. Everytime there was a slow dance, I always stood off to myself. I felt embaressed/left out/ stupid..so I don't know if I should go to homecoming thisyear. All my friends are popular and they're like "come! it'd be fun" but I NEVER have a dance partner..and I've been to alot of dances. What should I do?? (link)
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Well do like i always do...even if no one asks you to dance just go there and have fun!!
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a couple months ago my parents started me on a "budget" and gave me $200 a month for me to do whatever i want with it. i know it sounds like a lot, but i have to buy all my clothes, pay for our trips for school [small ones] and pay for when i do stuff with friends. i know it's enough, but i always seem to shop on the sales racks for summer clothes that won't fit me next year i would guess. are there some ways i could do jobs for people or save my money better? (link)
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Well you could go and get an easy job you could do or just put some amount of money aside for school and the rest to go shopping and hang out with your friends
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Kay well like im a cheerleader and every cheer leader has a big sis/ little sis. Every game we get eachother a little cute gift that has to do with like who we are playing sooo we are playing the Panthers...and i have no clue what to do!! HELP please!! thanks much babes : ) (link)
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Well get a little cute panther teddy
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Lastnight i met this guy. I was talkin to him for a while. But, i know i only like him as a friend. But all my friends think he likes me. Cus he was like "Ya know, i go to alll the homecomings" ... my friends took that as a hint that he was tryin to ask me to go with him. And he was like, "I can read your mind, you think im cute" ... i dont think he likes me, what do yu all think? (link)
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Well i don't think he likes you...He's probably flirting with your friend...but if you thin he likes you just go and ask him and if he does just say you dont feel the same way..
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ok. me and my man have never made out with annyone before, and i was thinkin that that is something we might do preddy soon. what i need to know is, how? should i just like, get on top of him and shove my toung in his mouth or what? pleaze i need help i rate (link)
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Well first of all... people all french differently so just go with your instincts and do it its not hard..you just kiss ut with some tongue its not that hard
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ok..... PLEASE help me im SO stuck!!! well two of my BEST friends in the world are in a HUGE fight, they say i have to pick one of them. i dont want to pick one, but i dont ant them to fight!!! they sometimes fight OVER me!!!!!! but PLEASE help me im begging you!!!! im desprate!!!
ps. they talk about eachother and i dont want to talk about eather one!!! (link)
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Well the best thing to do is to just tell them that you don't like that they are fighting and just tell them that you can't choose one of them...
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when a guy asks you to a dance..how do you nicely turn him down? (link)
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Politely let him down...Say that you are not interested or just simply say that you don't want to dance
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