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well i have a bunch of friends that im not that close with but then i have about 4 that are my best friends...and one of them hates the other so its always hanging out with one or the other.. but now theyve gotten to be friends again and i feel like im getting replaced i really am happy there friends but its like now that shes back im gone i just dont kno if i understand and me and one girl were going to hang out and i heard them in the hallway talkgn like i havent told her about it and it was my name and i asked her what it was nad shes like oh im having everyone over do u wanna come.. it just felt like i wasnt needed.. and then theyre going to a football game tonight and we were going to go first and then i asked if she was going with them and she was like yea but u can come too and i ddnt wnat to barge in or anything.. shes calling me about it tonight so well see how this goes... what should i do
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Well she probably dont want you feeling left out so thats good...but she is probably talking behind your back and trying to turn everyone against you so just ask her face to face
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Well, don't get yourself discluded! Your not barging, so long as she invites you. If they hated eachother, they probably just feel so glad to be friends again, almost like it's a new friendship! They're probably excited to hang out again so it feels fun and new. After the newness of it all, it'll wear off and you should be back to normal with them. If it continues on, express your feelings ever so slightly, like maybe saying "I love you guys to death, but I feel kinda left out lately" ...and if that's not workable hang out with another best friend for a little while,stay in touch with them, but don't bother to make yourself hang out with them and maybe they'll start to miss you and invite you again.
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