hi i consider myslef good at giving advice, and well i got a column so i would love to hear peoples questions, i mostly like answering personal, emotional, relationship problems. so just ask me anything along the lines of those. sorry i dont like stating my name, just call me whatever.
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I dont think my boyfriend really likes me anymore. Plus I've heard rumors that he likes another girl and that he flirts with a lot of other girls. I've already been hurt by him once a few months ago because some people told me he was cheating on me (which ended up being not true, but he could've lied considering the rumors going around now). I'm not sure what to do now. I really like him. But I should I breakup with him? (link)
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i dont know, if you can't trust him i don't think thats much of a relationship, but then again(no offense)you could just be being paranoid. and plus rumors are only rumors nothing more, and even if he did like another girl i don't see any harm unless he actually makes a move. But it's not really my place to say wether to break up with him or not, because thats for you to decide, you judge wether you trust him or not, i say if you don't trust him you shouldn't date him.
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okay
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this is going to be pretty long.. so embrase your self for a long ride.
okay i like this boy, lets call him jon ♥ and we have all of the same classes, same tachers, same everything togeather. and he is like... MY LIFE! i cant live without him!
all of my friends say "oh he likes you" pointing to him. then i go "oh" then continue what i was doing. but saying to myself (i wish he can acually TELL me or SHOW me that he does like me)
so i like get in trouble like atleast 7 times a day like just like late for classes, wasnt listening, those little things.
so when i was at lmmy locker on friday(yesterday) he was like "okay noow you have to get in touble atleast 8 times today but nothing major okay?" and i was like "okay yeah whatever"
and i was thinking to myself (wow he doesnt want me to get in to deep trouble does he?) and i think that was ONE sign there.
whenever hes online, he like talkks to me the most out of everyone. and like my friend was like "omg jon isnt talking to me is he talking to you?" and "im like yeah he is"
and heres one problem;; my friend LIKES HIM ALSO! and iwas like "i saw him first you know that?" she was like "yeah you two have like puppy love going on there" and i was like "we do?" with a discusted face to hide my exitiment "ehh.."
she said "you didnt know?! its like all around school!!" and i was like "oh" hiding what i really felt i went to the bathroom and screamed...
you probally heard all of the other ones tht i said in gym he would be liike "RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN!"
and yeah... its cute and everyone says me make a cute couple.. but i think it would be wierd if eather of us asked eachother out.. and well then yeah i like just loving him to death but i want to go out with him! any help? sorry it was so long
thanks in advance
and ill rate 5's for good advice.. (link)
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whats stoping you, ask him out, he obviously likes you, and you like him, it wouldnt be awkward, just go for it
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theres this guy i like who i made out with when me n him werent even goin out but now he likes this other girl and they made out(but there not going out) like a day after he made out with me ...is there any way to win back his attention (link)
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why do you want to win back his attention, he doesnt think your special, form what you just told me he thinks of you as just one more girl to make out with. he not worth the trouble. you can find someone better, someone who thinks your the only one special to him
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Well I'm dating this guy... and he's really hott and I like him SO much... but it seems like everytime we hang out all we do is makeout and other stuff like that... and once I didn't really wanta do it and when I said I didn't feel like doing that he was like whatever and left! So I feel like thats all he's in this relationship for! And of course its fun... but I don't want only that in a relationship... and I kinda want to break up with him but I just like him so much! And I don't know why and I don't know what to do! (link)
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your letting this guy walk all over you, he uses you for someone to make out wiht, nothing more, i see this all the time, it's not that you like him, it's that your so afraid of being alone that you dont want to break up with him, cuz you dont know if youll find another guy. But you will and youll find one better
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Ive gott a complicated situation. the boy i like he has a girl...but when hes around me he doesnt act like it....i try to stay away from him because i dont mess w. other girls mans..but i always bump in to him....help me..whut should i do???
Signed,
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truthfully, it's probably no bid deal, guys will flirt with girls without even knowing hes doing it, i know i do it all the time, bad habbit really. but if it really bothers you confront him about it and tell him that you dont want to mess things up with his gf. hope i helped
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ok heres my problem
i had this boyfriend for a little over a year ( on and off) and i was CrAzY about him he was my first love but he cheated on me about 3 times but i found it in my heart to forgive ( b/c he really was a sweet guy) but he didnt cheat on me for a looong time but we did end up breaking up..
then i got this boyfriend( who i am with now) and he treats me like gold if i told him to do something he does it right then and there...
but i think for some reason im still in love with my ex-boyfriend and my boyfriend at the same time..
i just dont know why i would even think of having feeling for my ex when he did that to me and my boyfriend treats me like gold.
is this wrong should i still have feelings for my ex? what do i do?? (link)
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well im a guy, and i personally think that if a guy cant settle for just you, then he doesnt think your special, any respectable man would have at least broke up with you before going out with another girl, which still would be bad but not as bad as cheating on you, so what im saying is dont waste your time with your ex, you have a guy who would do anything for you, thats love, and never pass up an opertunity for love, it's rare and wonderful. so just try to get over him, he doesnt treat you like you deserve to be treated.
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