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broken up and lost touch
hey. i went out with this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me, and for some reason i never asked him why. this happened a couple months ago, and we never really talked much after that, we barely said hi in the halls. yesterday, i realized that i still like him, more than i want to, in a way. i was online yesterday, and a friend who knows that i like him talked me into iming him, and i did. it wasnt really awkward, it felt good that we were talking. i'm not sure if i would go out with him again, but i dont think he would go out with me if i wanted to. we're both single, and i dont know what to do. he asked me if i had a bf, and my friend said that it was a signal, but then he said he liked being single. i dont really know what to think and what i want. but i do know that i wish i were friends, good friends, with him again, liek before we went out. please help me.
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aw that sad but you should start to call each other agian or im each other stay in touch like you were when you were going out. and become friends with him agian. most first loves or seconds loves or long time relationships you rember forever and you never loose all of the feelings you had for them. i think that if you still like him get him back. do what you can if he was the thing that made you once smile. i say go for it. hope i helped
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if you want to be friends than just start talking to him online or saying a simple hello to him in the halls at school... he might have said he liked being single to get you upset since you guys have had a rough past... start out with just being friends again and than see what happens
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talk to him online more and then just ask him why he broke up with you! but maybe you should try moving on or if not then keep talking to him way more.
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Well if you want to be good friends you ccant be going out because you probably wont be going out forever and when you break up you`ll loose him again. You should try to become friends again and grow close just as friends. If he asks you out make a promise with him like this, we must still be friends if this doesnt work out becasue I dont want to loose you as a friend. Hope I helped good luck please rate this advice and leave feedback thanks xo0o.
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You two can still be friends like you were before you two went out. Call him up, email or IM him and tell him how you feel. If he said that he liked being single, then I don't think he would want to go out with you again but everyone deserves second chances, right? When you do get the chance to somehow talk to him, tell him that you want to be good friends with him again like you two were before you went out. You never know, his feelings may change for him and he may start to like you.
-Karen
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well i think you should call him or i.m. him and ask him if he would like to talk to you again. then start talking about old things and ask him if you guys could still be friends. i know its awkward and hard to do sometimes but its the best thing to do. hope it works out! ♥
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