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sweetsami28
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I have alot of friends at school/church/cheer. But no one invites me to do stuff with them on the weekends! I spend my time on the computer cus no one invites me over, what should I do? (link)
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If you really do like them and everything you should invite them over to your house a few times and then be like, "Hey, why don't we go to your house today?" Then if they continue to ALWAYS do stuff without you confront them and talk to them about it. Just don't be expecting to be invited over like every weekend or everyday.
Lily
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My best friend & I have known eachother about a year. We have the best times together, have alot in common and even look alike. The problem is she has some bad qualities. She only talks about her problems and thinks they are worse and bigger than anyone else's. She is extremely sensitive and defensive. When I bring any of this up, she flips on me, thinks I'm wrong and being hurtful. It seems like I can never get a word in about my life at all! How do I get her to listen to me for once, without hurting her feelings? (link)
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Ok, I think I might know who this is but I'm not sure. If these are you're initials IM Lily: W.T.H. Look, I'm really sorry for being like this and I am trying HARD to make a difference. You really mean a lot to me and I don't want to lose this amazing relationship that we have. You are my best friend in the world and I don't know what I would do without you...
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hey Lily it is sam! um i dont really have a ? right now but once i have one i will ask you! ur the best! i loooooooooooooove you tons!
p.s-i love the advice column (link)
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Hey Gurlie!!! I loooooooooove you tonz 2! haha...well i'll talk to ya later gurlie!!!
p.s-thanks
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hey... im 14/f and i weigh 91 lbs. and ppl think im aneroxic and when i say im not they say im belimic! and im not and think that making urself throw up and not eating is gross. i eat all the time like almost everytime u see me i have food in my hand haha and i can eat something and say im full and then like an hour later i'll say im hungrey again. I have a fast metabolism and i really wanna try n gain weight, my new years resolution is to get over 100 lbs. so please can someone help me on trying to gain weight! thanks bunchez (link)
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If you are content with your size and weight don't worry about gaining weight. If you're just gaining weight to impress people or so people will leave you alone...don't! But if you REALLY do want to gain weight just don't excercise and eat more. That's all I know to tell you. I have also struggled with the same thing. Many people at my school think I'm WAY too skinny but I am content with my size. Don't change unless you have or want to.
Lily
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umm my friend who isnt really now used to abuse me and my other friends.. when i finally got the guts to tell her to stop she gets mad... she hits u so hard and it makes you feel like you want to die. shes hurt a lot of my other friends to and she even hurts guyys=.. well so anyways she hit me really hard on the head and i didnt say anything so then she says i dont think she felt that and kills me with two more slaps... so i went home crying and of course my parents fournd out. my mom accualy went over and talked to them. she doesnt even care and now i think she is going to tell everyone else a whole different story even though i have witnesses. also she is friends with most of my other friends too even though im better friends with them then she is. i am just scared that no one will believe me or she might accually hurt me again. im so scared i dont even no wat to do now... HELP!!! (link)
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Ok...this is a VERY serious problem. If this girl continues to do this you REALLY need to tell a teacher, counsler, or even the police. I really hope you and your friends can work out this problem.
Lily
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Ok, so theres a guy in my class named *Justin* (name changed) and I HATE him. He always makes fun of me liking his best friend, he stinks like Michael Jackson's butt, and he always tries to do things to humiliate me. I wanna get revenge on him, you know, give him a taste of his own medicine. But..I dont have a flamethrower or a pistol or anything. I'm on a budget. so PLEASE HELP ME!
signed-
VOODOO.DOLLS (link)
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VOODOO.DOLLS,
DON'T do anything drastic!! If *Justin* bugs you all the time it probably means that he likes you. Just talk to him and ask him to stop, if he doesn't tell an adult, a teacher or a parent.
Lily
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ok this is probably the most asked question EVER. lol, but what do i do about guys. i mean, whenever is see a nice guy at my church...the mall...idk around, i ALWAYS want to talk to them, but i never do. I wanted to know how to talk to guys without feeling stupid or embarassed...or without having them think im a freak or like a terrorist. lol. but sometimes they are surrounded by girls. Like this one kid i saw today at my church, he was hott and really funny, but he was SURROUNDED by girls that were his friends. i wanted to talk to him soo much, but i couldnt do it. i need to be more comfortable around guys, but how do i do it?? (link)
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Hey!!
I have also been in this position but I overcame it and so can you. Just act normal, like yourself...be flirty but make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend first. If you can make friends with the girls you'll probably be friends, or more, with him. But don't use his friends.
Lily
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who do yu get the "ask BechBabe71919" thing in yur profile but i want one that says "ask funkimunky77"!!! (link)
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You have to join this website thing and then copy 'n' paste that link in your profile.
Hope I Helped!!
Lily
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